Wed do. Always. And this is the source of pain and motivation to exist.
always find the source of love in you. love and hate are aligned - they are igniters of living - they spark together and love always feeds off hate; so it is it's nourishment. Love can both be in and of itself and be learned from ALL experiences.
No matter what happens good, bad or, indifferent - find the thing in you that ignites and keeps you warm.