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My good friend that I've known since kindergarten has finished his police studies program and works as a loss prevention officer and is trying to become a police officer. I've heard from other people that he's going to have to take a polygraph where they ask him if he associates with any people that use drugs - and I, along with some of our other mutual friends, smoke weed. The issue was further exacerbated tonight when he showed up at my back yard when I was smoking a joint with some other friends and he said nicely that he couldn't be around us and had to leave. I'm worried that he'll eventually have to cut ties with me.

Thoughts? I hope this will end well, but maybe it won't; I'll take extra caution for him not to catch me again. I believe that the war on drugs is a stupid endeavor and I don't believe that marijuana prohibition is just, so fuck him if I don't believe in the same laws as he does and consequently he can't associate with me, right?
 
My boy (he used to sell herb) has a neighbor who is a total meth head, and he has a cop over all the time. The cop smokes weed. Ive actually smoked with him before haha. It was a very weird vibe at first. My friend sold weed to his neighbor and the cop pretty regularly. The cop also warned my boy to lay low when there were stakeouts going on in the neighborhood as its gang infested and near a school. It was a very interesting situation.
 
He has been a good friend of yours since childhood - sit down with him, and speak to him about it all.

I can't see why he'll have to completely cut ties with you, unless you and your friends keep telling him that he has to leave when he comes over! He's not even a cop yet, and I'm sure that made him feel like shit.

Maybe just don't consume drugs in front of him? Or maybe he's okay with a joint? He's still your friend, so be a friend in return and communicate your feelings to him and come to an agreement.
 
I have a lot of experience in this area since I have several close friends that are cops, and a lot more acquantances that are too. While they are being investigated they may be more uptight, but overall I only had one friend that cut ties with me after becoming a cop, and I really didn't mind or blame him. He was the only one that would ever ask me before I got into his car if I had anything illegal (I was a stoner at the time), but I never brought anything with me when I was going out with him, and the rest of my cop friends know me well enough to never ask me if I'm carrying anything since they know I'm responsible and wouldn't put their career in jeopardy.

My friend that cut ties with me after becoming a cop really doesn't talk to anybody other than cops now, and if he was going to worry about hanging out with me then that's why I don't blame him for cutting me off. I've ran into him at the bar a few times, and both times we spoke to eachother for a while, but we're not about to start hanging out again.

As for my other friends that are cops, well, they are just as wild as me, with the exception of not doing drugs, but I'm not in the drug scene anymore since I just have a few numbers that I call to get things delivered. They go out to bars all the time, cheat on their girlfriends, drive like dicks, make fun of junkies and crackheads, always have their gun on them, and rarely eat at home so always are calling to get food somewhere.

At the end of the day, they are just people who made a different career choice than us. A lot of them did it because their parents were cops and thats all they knew growing up, and others just took the test to see what happened and ended up getting the call back so went though with it since retiring at 40 sounded pretty damn good to them. So there is the type that will cut you off if they know you are known to do some illegal shit, but most of them will stay friends with you if they trust that you won't be getting high around them or holding drugs while out with them.

The people that cut you off when going into the police academy would probably have cut you off no matter the career choice they made, so it was only a matter of time before it happened. If you really want to stay friends with him though, have a talk with him and let him know that you respect him and his career choice, and that you would never do anything that would potentially keep him from being a cop or get him fired once he becomes one.
 
when hes a full blown cop , itll all g , then u can use him for ur benifit :) not neccesarily use , but i have 2 cop friends , 1 can get me out of trouble when i get in it , the other is just a mate . all the police have the potentiol to be corrupt ... another reason why prohibition is a mass failure , cops are our boys too haha .

i also have an ex gf , who i havent talked to in ages , shes becoming a cop and already agreed to .... 'bend' the rules... a little ? awkward situation there tho so keeping away from that haha .
 
I'm not sure how anyone who is interested in experimenting with drugs could ever be friends with a cop in the first place, and I say that based upon what one might consider to be the different personality types of both cops and drug-users.

I mean, no, not all drug-users are real liberal, open-minded, tie-dye-wearing, phish-listening, hacky-sackers; some drug users can be very closed-minded, in fact, and very conservative. And the same is true for police officers as well, as not all cops are unfeeling, by-the-book, conservative, power-tripping ball-breakers...

But, by and large, drug-users do tend to be a bit more liberal and a bit more open-minded where everything is not so black-and-white. I think that cops, on the other hand and again, by and large, do tend to think in more black-and-white, where it's by the book, right or wrong, and if you break the rules then you suffer the consequences... there are no exceptions and no second chances.

I just don't see those two personality types being all that compatible; but, then again and on the other hand, my college roommate and friend sounds very much like your friend... works for loss prevention and aspires to one day become a police officer. He was an all right guy, not someone I'd consider a best friend, but a good friend for sure.

Anyway, I'm not sure where I was going with all this, and I don't mean to imply that you should stop being friends with this guy. Guess I'm just interested in such an unusual friendship...
 
I'm not sure how anyone who is interested in experimenting with drugs could ever be friends with a cop in the first place, and I say that based upon what one might consider to be the different personality types of both cops and drug-users.

I mean, no, not all drug-users are real liberal, open-minded, tie-dye-wearing, phish-listening, hacky-sackers; some drug users can be very closed-minded, in fact, and very conservative. And the same is true for police officers as well, as not all cops are unfeeling, by-the-book, conservative, power-tripping ball-breakers...

But, by and large, drug-users do tend to be a bit more liberal and a bit more open-minded where everything is not so black-and-white. I think that cops, on the other hand and again, by and large, do tend to think in more black-and-white, where it's by the book, right or wrong, and if you break the rules then you suffer the consequences... there are no exceptions and no second chances.

I just don't see those two personality types being all that compatible; but, then again and on the other hand, my college roommate and friend sounds very much like your friend... works for loss prevention and aspires to one day become a police officer. He was an all right guy, not someone I'd consider a best friend, but a good friend for sure.

Anyway, I'm not sure where I was going with all this, and I don't mean to imply that you should stop being friends with this guy. Guess I'm just interested in such an unusual friendship...

i dont think u understand to the extent u can benifit from having cop connections ;)
 
I met a guy at my work, who I actually used to go to school with when we were really young kids.
Both his parents are cops and much to my surprise he said they seem to pretty much have the same view on drugs you would expect to see on Bluelight.

People are all people. It's crazy how many people out there do things they fundamentally disagree with to bring in the almighty paycheck.
 
i've got a few cop friends; they're better than the friends who ask for money, because they only beg for people. i only give up the people who smoke weed because that's the losing team imo, fuck em.
 
i dont think u understand to the extent u can benifit from having cop connections ;)

You don't have cop connections, do you? lol

I don't have many cop connections, but I'd imagine that a cop friend could... I don't know... make a speeding ticket disappear? *yawn*

It could be that I'm difficult to impress, but things like that don't exactly make me say "wow;" a good lawyer can do the same thing for you, and more.

In other words, so a cop "connection" might help in seeing to it that the small scrapes you get into slide, but no cop that I know of will ever put his or her neck on the line to help you hide a body or have any serious charges against you dropped; you'll never walk out of the police station a free man after having been found with nearly a kilo of coke in your trunk merely because you have "cop connections."

You'll need a good lawyer or entirely different connections (think Don Corleone) to have so much as a prayer in getting away with such things as that. lol
 
A buddy of mine is of the understanding that they screen people (before they become cops) to look for certain personality types that lean toward not being compassionate. To basically be unfeeling for when they destroy families, arrest kids, etc. I'm not sure how realistic that is, but most of the cops in my hometown have this air of a power trip. They come across as though they know who they are and all should fear them. Seems like less and less people are trusting of cops-more so young people than anything.

I have one friend who didn't really have a problem with cops until he was arrested for underage consumption of alcohol...2 months before his 21st birthday. Ever since then, he has hated cops with a passion. He wasn't even drunk...he had literally a couple sips of beer in a sketchy place, was nowhere near a car or anything. They scared him because he is inexperienced with them, does no drugs ever, never has 'cept for drinking on occasion and yet they cornered him because they get off on fear.

At the same time, I know of a cop that thinks of it as a paycheck. He purchases alcohol for underage people along with helping friends out by parking his car at their house if they are having a house party. Shit like that. Not really responsible, if I had that job, I wouldn't be doing stupid shit like that but then again, I'm a fairly sensitive guy and I couldn't live with myself if I did the shit that they do.

I have a bias against them though and this is just my two cents.
 
I have one friend who didn't really have a problem with cops until he was arrested for underage consumption of alcohol...2 months before his 21st birthday. Ever since then, he has hated cops with a passion. He wasn't even drunk...he had literally a couple sips of beer in a sketchy place, was nowhere near a car or anything. They scared him because he is inexperienced with them, does no drugs ever, never has 'cept for drinking on occasion and yet they cornered him because they get off on fear.

At the same time, I know of a cop that thinks of it as a paycheck. He purchases alcohol for underage people along with helping friends out by parking his car at their house if they are having a house party. Shit like that. Not really responsible, if I had that job, I wouldn't be doing stupid shit like that but then again, I'm a fairly sensitive guy and I couldn't live with myself if I did the shit that they do.

I have a bias against them though and this is just my two cents.

I'll be honest: I don't like cops, and I've never had a good experience with any cop, ever, especially not with the cops in my hometown.

I feel like the police are always there whenever you don't need them and don't want them there, but all the times you need them most, they're no where to be found or so unhelpful that you wish you had never called them in the first place.

I remember one incident in particular when I broke the news to my mother that my sister and my sister's fiancé were planning to move to Florida. It would mean moving their daughter (my mother's only grandchild whom she spoils rotten) to Florida as well, of course.

It didn't go over well, and my mother ran from the house with her car keys in hand, anxious, upset, a total mess and going on about how we should all take a good look at her now as this might be the last time we see her alive, implying that there stood a good possibility of her taking her own life.

I called the police and stood behind her car so that she couldn't back out of the driveway, as she was in no state of mind to be driving; when the police arrived, officer dickhead separated us, spoke to each one of us individually, then addressed me as "Mr. Pistol Permit Guy" and explained to me that what I had done was illegal, not allowing my mother to leave, that is, and that, should he choose to arrest me, I could have my pistol permit taken away and never given back. (I had never once brought up anything about owning a pistol, having my pistol permit, or anything at all to that effect, but my mother, for whatever strange reason, thought it important to mention.)

I asked officer dickhead to explain the law to me further, and I suggested that surely the possibility must exist for me to have my pistol permit given back even if I had been arrested -- right? But he had no time to explain it to me, or so he said, and could tell straight-away that I had some "vendetta against police officers."

I had been plenty respectful up until this point, albeit somewhat frustrated and discouraged by his whatever, no-time-for-you attitude. He asked me if I had a problem with him, and then, after getting into his car to leave, he spun the car around, rolled the passenger-side window down, and shouted to me, "My name is officer -------, and my badge number is -----. You can go ahead and file a complaint against me!"

I hadn't even suggested or implied that I would file a complaint against him, but it sounded to me like a good idea after he had been such an enormous prick to me. (It was likely he was high out of his mind on coke, as I later learned that my sister had run into him at a party only just a couple of years ago where he was drinking heavily and blowing down lines of coke, then joking about it and going on about how he was a cop.)

Believe it or not and even though I was pissed, I still hadn't planned on filing a complaint against him. I was actually more interested in finding out what I could have been charged with and what that might have meant for my pistol permit; well, the next day I called the police station to ask about it, and the officer I spoke to was an unbelievable cunt, officer cunt, who I could tell straight-away had absolutely zero interest in answering any of my questions.

I was, at this point, very much enraged but keeping my cool. I asked her for her name and badge number as well as officer dickhead's badge number as I couldn't remember it, and the first words out of her mouth were this: "Why do you need to know that? Are you planning on filing a complaint against me or officer dickhead?" It floored me because an officer should respond immediately with his or her badge number and not ask such questions.

I told her that it was simply for my note-taking, and after reassuring her that I would not file a complaint against her or officer dickhead (something that she seemed a tad bit nervous about), she provided me with both their names and badge numbers. I arrived at the police station an hour later and very much to my delight, she was still working. I asked her for two complaint forms, and sat in the lobby filling out two very lengthy forms; it was worth it just to see the look on her face.

I followed up a week later with the deputy chief, and then a week later, and then a week later, leaving messages for the deputy chief but never once speaking to him or hearing back from him. I knew what they were doing, brushing it all under the carpet and thinking that I would soon tire of following up.

Well, unfortunately for them, I'm insanely persistent, and having spoken to him before, I know just how much the deputy chief cares about what is put on the news, written in the papers, and what is said about his police department. So, I made up some real quick flyers that had both officers names on them and their badge numbers. The flyers said something like: "Have you had a bad experience with the ------ police department? Have you had a bad experience with these two officers in particular? Show the ------ police department how you feel by filing a complaint against an officer. It's file-a-complaint day! Contact me at..." and so on...

I printed out three copies of the flyer, went down to the police station, and asked the receptionist to stick one in the chief's mailbox, the deputy chief's mailbox, and the detective's mailbox. I told the receptionist that they would know what it was all about.

Sure enough, I got a call back from the deputy chief within 20 minutes, and I'm not exaggerating. He asked me what I planned on doing, and I told him that I hadn't heard back from him on the two complaints I filed and I considered it a serious matter even if he didn't, so I was organizing a day when we could all file a complaint against an officer, and I planned on inviting the press and we could all make a day of it.

He apologized profusely and assured me that he would speak to both officers, then get back to me, which he did.

tl;dr -- I don't like cops, and persistence is key. ;)
 
I'll be honest: I don't like cops, and I've never had a good experience with any cop, ever, especially not with the cops in my hometown.

I feel like the police are always there whenever you don't need them and don't want them there, but all the times you need them most, they're no where to be found or so unhelpful that you wish you had never called them in the first place.

I was meeting up with a friend in Brooklyn and she told me to meet her at a restaurant since she was there with her friend that's a cop in that area. I had like 5 bags of dope on me (had 8 to begin with but did 3 of them on the train ride in) and she knows I get high so she mentioned on the phone that her friend is a cop so to keep that in mind. I get to the restaurant (a little mexican joint, so nothing fancy) and they were having drinks, so we were all chatty so everything was cool. He even gave us a ride back to her place which was pretty funny since I had dope on me, but I never would have that one me if I was planning on hanging out with my friends that are cops.

Anyway, to touch on what you were saying, I asked him how he likes being a cop. He starts telling me how much he hates it, and his reasons were pretty much the same as yours. He basically said he feels like he doesn't help people, and does more harm than good, so it's like he's making peoples lives worse. Like what is being accomplished by giving somebody a ticket for some bullshit, or arresting them for something petty. And you can't just not arrest people at all and expect to keep your job. He feels so hated walking around that it's such a shitty feeling to walk the streets in uniform, with people having to walk on eggshells around you.

But that's not something that you are thinking about when you are 20 and joining the academy. I'm sure most people imagine that they will just be patrolling around being the 'cool cops' that only give tickets to the asshole drivers that piss them off already. Then they find out what their job actually entails.
 
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I lived in new orleans for a while and knew of cops that would sell stuff out of evidence. Drugs mostly, but I know they traded in guns too.
 
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I remember when I was a child, well, I wanna say I was around 12 years old. I was at the police station with my grandmother for whatever reason. I asked the fuckhead behind the desk about the legality of fireworks. I asked, "Is it legal for me to shoot off fireworks?" He said, "not within city limits," with his fuckhead intonation and then I asked, "I meant like at my house." and he said in a very rude voice, "Is your house within city limits?" to a fucking 12 year old. I mean, I could understand if I was double that age and coming across like I was trying to give him shit or something but I was honestly wondering about it and was polite because at that age, I had not yet learned to hate the police. I thought they were the good guys, the people to look up to and respect.

Within 3 years, I had the opposite view of that.

Needless to say, I fired off fireworks anyways and nothing happened.

There are too many cops in my hometown to the point where if anyone, and I mean ANYONE, gets pulled over, there are 2 cops on the scene. If someone is going to get arrested, 3-4 are present. Nobody likes them 'cept for old people around here.
 
If i did i wouldnt say so ...
Ur obviously completely naive to the drug trade .
i was gonna explain some more ... But im on my mobile and its pointless ...

Oh yes, completely naive to the drug trade. 8)

EDIT: And you do realize that selling pot to all your friends in high school doesn't exactly count as being part of "the drug trade," right? lol
 
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My friend's older sister is a Sargent in the NYPD. She's actually in the police precinct like, 4 blocks from my house. Getting arrested by my friend's sister would be... pure suck. She's not a bitch or anything, it would just kind of ruin my friendship. She might let me go but I wouldn't want her to lose her job. Having friends with a PBA card always comes in handy. My older cousin is a Detective in the NYPD, but that side of my family sucks ass and they can DIAF for all I care. Another friend also has a PBA card and these are the people I'm mostly with. I don't want to brag or anything, but those PBA cards can be like a "get out of jail free" card, to a certain extent.

Case-in-point: My friend (whose sister is a cop & has her own PBA card), me and my girlfriend hopped the train turnstile. A cop stops us and takes us over to the police station in the train station. My girlfriend had a bag of weed in her backpack, so she was shitting bricks. (She wasn't my girlfriend at the time, however, but that would have fucked her life for a while.) They give us this stupid lecture, one of the cops made fun of me for turning red and being generally uncomfortable while being detained by a police officer. (We were like, 19 year old girls. Fuck him!) So... my friend pulls out the PBA card... they ran us for warrants, etc, everyone came back clean and they let us off on our merry way. I'm sure we would have had some fat tickets to pay if it wasn't for the PBA card.

I always get blamed for my friends choices, but I've never stuck a gun to anyone's head and made them use anything they didn't want to use. I'm everyone's fucking scapegoat. Fuck it. Their parents don't get that they raised a child with their own fucking minds who can make their own fucking choices. But no, I'm always the bad influence. My parents never blamed anyone else because they know how fiercely independent and hard-headed I am. So, in summary, FUCK IT.

I don't mind cops either way, but I'd rather not interact with them. I am grateful cops exist because if I'm getting robbed/murdered, who the fuck else can I call to come rescue me? So in that respect, cops are cool. But otherwise, if I didn't call them and don't want their "services", they can stay the fuck away from me. :)
 
I'll be honest: I don't like cops, and I've never had a good experience with any cop, ever, especially not with the cops in my hometown.

I feel like the police are always there whenever you don't need them and don't want them there, but all the times you need them most, they're no where to be found or so unhelpful that you wish you had never called them in the first place.

I remember one incident in particular when I broke the news to my mother that my sister and my sister's fiancé were planning to move to Florida. It would mean moving their daughter (my mother's only grandchild whom she spoils rotten) to Florida as well, of course.

It didn't go over well, and my mother ran from the house with her car keys in hand, anxious, upset, a total mess and going on about how we should all take a good look at her now as this might be the last time we see her alive, implying that there stood a good possibility of her taking her own life.

I called the police and stood behind her car so that she couldn't back out of the driveway, as she was in no state of mind to be driving; when the police arrived, officer dickhead separated us, spoke to each one of us individually, then addressed me as "Mr. Pistol Permit Guy" and explained to me that what I had done was illegal, not allowing my mother to leave, that is, and that, should he choose to arrest me, I could have my pistol permit taken away and never given back. (I had never once brought up anything about owning a pistol, having my pistol permit, or anything at all to that effect, but my mother, for whatever strange reason, thought it important to mention.)

I asked officer dickhead to explain the law to me further, and I suggested that surely the possibility must exist for me to have my pistol permit given back even if I had been arrested -- right? But he had no time to explain it to me, or so he said, and could tell straight-away that I had some "vendetta against police officers."

I had been plenty respectful up until this point, albeit somewhat frustrated and discouraged by his whatever, no-time-for-you attitude. He asked me if I had a problem with him, and then, after getting into his car to leave, he spun the car around, rolled the passenger-side window down, and shouted to me, "My name is officer -------, and my badge number is -----. You can go ahead and file a complaint against me!"

I hadn't even suggested or implied that I would file a complaint against him, but it sounded to me like a good idea after he had been such an enormous prick to me. (It was likely he was high out of his mind on coke, as I later learned that my sister had run into him at a party only just a couple of years ago where he was drinking heavily and blowing down lines of coke, then joking about it and going on about how he was a cop.)

Believe it or not and even though I was pissed, I still hadn't planned on filing a complaint against him. I was actually more interested in finding out what I could have been charged with and what that might have meant for my pistol permit; well, the next day I called the police station to ask about it, and the officer I spoke to was an unbelievable cunt, officer cunt, who I could tell straight-away had absolutely zero interest in answering any of my questions.

I was, at this point, very much enraged but keeping my cool. I asked her for her name and badge number as well as officer dickhead's badge number as I couldn't remember it, and the first words out of her mouth were this: "Why do you need to know that? Are you planning on filing a complaint against me or officer dickhead?" It floored me because an officer should respond immediately with his or her badge number and not ask such questions.

I told her that it was simply for my note-taking, and after reassuring her that I would not file a complaint against her or officer dickhead (something that she seemed a tad bit nervous about), she provided me with both their names and badge numbers. I arrived at the police station an hour later and very much to my delight, she was still working. I asked her for two complaint forms, and sat in the lobby filling out two very lengthy forms; it was worth it just to see the look on her face.

I followed up a week later with the deputy chief, and then a week later, and then a week later, leaving messages for the deputy chief but never once speaking to him or hearing back from him. I knew what they were doing, brushing it all under the carpet and thinking that I would soon tire of following up.

Well, unfortunately for them, I'm insanely persistent, and having spoken to him before, I know just how much the deputy chief cares about what is put on the news, written in the papers, and what is said about his police department. So, I made up some real quick flyers that had both officers names on them and their badge numbers. The flyers said something like: "Have you had a bad experience with the ------ police department? Have you had a bad experience with these two officers in particular? Show the ------ police department how you feel by filing a complaint against an officer. It's file-a-complaint day! Contact me at..." and so on...

I printed out three copies of the flyer, went down to the police station, and asked the receptionist to stick one in the chief's mailbox, the deputy chief's mailbox, and the detective's mailbox. I told the receptionist that they would know what it was all about.

Sure enough, I got a call back from the deputy chief within 20 minutes, and I'm not exaggerating. He asked me what I planned on doing, and I told him that I hadn't heard back from him on the two complaints I filed and I considered it a serious matter even if he didn't, so I was organizing a day when we could all file a complaint against an officer, and I planned on inviting the press and we could all make a day of it.

He apologized profusely and assured me that he would speak to both officers, then get back to me, which he did.

tl;dr -- I don't like cops, and persistence is key. ;)

+ fucking 1 you my friend are a great american!
 
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