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Friend with benefits??

yes... :( super bumped. I thought I`m a tough cookie and such a lame thing could never happen to me.. Can`t admit to him.. Also I`m from Europe - we would talk about it in there but I never date and American guy (but know what scares them off..)
 
You seem to have a surprisingly immature attitude towards the situation. If you like him, and he seems to like you, then talk about it with him? It's obvious you want the relationship to become something more than just yoga and sex, and you keep posting about your feelings on here. But why don't you talk to him? It's him you should sort this out with, not us.

You also seem to be pretending to yourself that you don't want him as a partner, but rather just as a FWB. And then keep complaining here when it's not "going according to FWB rules", when in reality it's obvious from your posts that it's exactly the way you want it to go. I don't mean this in an offensive way, but seriously, do something about it with him.
 
I think the FWB is more common than you think. I as well as my husband enjoy FWB's and find it very satisfying. He wants to know who I sleep with and I know the women he sleeps with and we are totally cool with it. It keeps at least for us everything in perspective. We both travel frequently for work and Hotels get very lonely sometimes and it's nice to have a friend to call whom you know is safe and fun. Some would call me a whore, perhaps but I have a really good time.
 
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