Forbidding and forcing orgasms NSFW

[lola]

^ in this case... I think it is possible to force you to come but he has to familiarise himself with how your body works. I really think you should simply get him to try the lowest setting of the magic wand (or a most gentle clit vibrator) and try different options until you get the settings/toy right to make you come, and then you can engage in D/S play which both of you can fully enjoy.

More importantly, there are some people out there saying that very powerful vibrators can lead to lessened clitoral sensitivity and numbness, and I'm sure this isn't something you or your bf want!! Might be worth pointing this out to him

 

[rangrz]

More importantly, there are some people out there saying that very powerful vibrators can lead to lessened clitoral sensitivity and numbness, and I'm sure this isn't something you or your bf want!! Might be worth pointing this out to him

Of some relevance is that vibration induced neuropathy is a real and not terribly uncommon phenomena, with a tendancy to cause sensory impairment of the affected area (usually hand). It's an occupational concern mostly for people who work with power tools or engineering/machine shop equipment. But in theory in sounds related? I dunno, random note to ponder on...