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Social FOR THE LOVE OF DOG

Little things that I loved about her pop into my head all the time.
This is all I will say as to not sound like a nut. But I don't care what people think. But I found there were some situations I was in with my dog that made me scratch my head at the time. After she passed I saw it in a whole new light like I was still being taught. There were many situations I did not understand until her passing. Long periods of confusion cleaned up and processed. So looking back is the gift of insight it seems you are already paying attention. i admit I used DMT and mushrooms to process and they seemed to open up some psychic channels. They always did and are almost mandatory for grief and processing.

On a regular level the grief was causing me to cry a few times a day for the first month or so. Then a few months later a few times a week. I actually had to look up if it is normal to grieve longer than a month and was relieved to see there are no rules for grieving. Feels good to cry. But the special things happen when we our vibe is up and we are happy in memory. That is where the magic happens.

Our girl was peaceful in the end, but the last week or two could not see and the last day would not eat. So my wife and I were going to take her in to euthanize her but she did it herself shortly after, a few hours. she died in my wife's arms on the couch. I was up all night with her as she could not stand and had digestion issues with lose stools. One hard night though so it was not a long thing and she was peaceful. My wife had two other dogs that died in her arms and she wanted Bailey to do that too. I remember talking to Bailey saying it is a tall order to expect you to die in Mommy's arms but if you can that would great. She did it. Just before she died my wife said her eyes opened very wide with a surprised happy sort of look and passed quickly. (the Steve Jobs look like she was saying "WOW")

I could type forever. Not sure how I missed this post. But hopefully when I do post it goes over easy. :)
 
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Dixie Chick oh Dixie Chick.

I can't comment right now because I honestly have tears in my eyes and a lump in my throat.

Dixie Chick you will always be here in the heart and in spirit and your soul will always help those who want and need.

And you will always still be here. I'm just too upset.

I am still trying to process. Sorry.

I couldn't do it right away.
 
Yes! That's the one. My all-time favorite episode of The Twilight Zone.
I need to watch it again soon.
Now wait a minute, I ain't going anywhere unless Rip comes with me..... I mean there are so many overlaying high thoughts in that episode.
 
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Jeezus yes. So true.
I used to say that I allow my dog to sleep in the bed with me. But if I'm being honest it's more like she allows me to sleep in the bed with her....and yeah, somehow her 60lbs takes up more room than my 175lbs.

My single cat managed this by positioning himself RIGHT in the middle anytime I got up. Because I was damned if I was sleeping 'around' him, I'd push him to the side. He'd then proceed to take up the exact same space but on top of me.
 
Oh, I really dig where you are coming from.
Optimally we all go at the same time.
I dreamt this morning of burying Budah and woke a little upset. Skipped my bnz dose last night maybe that had more to do with emotions but none of us here (conscience and sentiment) are given but at most a glint of life and we move on.
But in the meantime I plan to give attention and love to those about me and trust the "ripple effect" that may make some difference in the grand scheme of it all, IDK.
I have lots to be thankful for in this moment but then it's all transient so kinda trying to wrap my head around this these days.
Not a fun "project" but I feel it necessary to feel the feelings and be prepared as much as possible for future loss.
Please be safe out there.
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Hold on HOLD ON! Have you changed your damn user name AGAIN?!
 
challenging life circumstances.
some of which take me away from my dogs for a night.
and here i am at 11:23 pm on a friday night with two of three medium-sized beauties walking around me saying:
it's time for you to leave that stupid toxic internet aside and come cuddling with us!

they know better than us!
 
Dog(s) and humans. What amazing relationships there are and have been! I give the majority of the credit for the legendary, EPIC tales of comeradery and faithfuness, dedication and unconditional LOVE to the dogs in my life.
I only wish I could be the man my dog(s) see me as...
An only child, I was a baby and had a championship lineage Doberman Pinscier puppy (Count) as my best friend.
That would lay the foundation of a lifetime of having dogs in my life.

Way too many stories to tell, but I will tell ONE, about my black Lab Bud, how I got him, and how I got him back after he was stolen from me. Bud was hand-delivered to me by the God of All Creation at the LAST possible moment.
I was working for a business owner in south Mississippi, and I had been provided a house to live in that was one of his recent purchases to resell. He had a major fight with his wife and he moved out of their family home. He began selling his properties, including the house I had been living in, but he let me and my Lab Bud come stay with him in another house in the woods he acquired through this process.
All of the adversity took a toll on his personality and he took a hard line with his employees, myself included, and one morning he was SO over the top I had enough, told him "I quit" and headed up to get my meager belongings and my dog off his property.
Before I could get there, he had someone remove my dog from the property, and he said I couldn't get him back until I paid him $800 back for "advance payments" he had paid me over the last couple of months.
Over the next 7 weeks, I worked for another similar business in the area, filed a police report and met with the sheriff's department in an effort to get my beloved dog back.
I had a couch to sleep on at a friend's house, but I didn't get much sleep because I was CONSTANTLY thinking about any way I could find my dog and get him back.
I spoke with a couple of former coworkers who still worked for the dog thief, my former employer, to get ANY information that could help me find my dog.
I had an outstanding job opportunity come my way, too good to turn down, but it meant leaving Mississippi and moving to the capitol city of Louisiana, and I knew once I left Mississippi I would never see my beloved dog Bud again. I had had Bud since he was 4 months old in 1990, and this story happened in 1997.
The night before the day I was leaving the state to go to my new job, I made phone calls just to thank those who had been so kind to try to help me recover my dog. It just so happened that that very night the subject of my stolen dog came up in a mixed group of people, and someone there said they thought they knew where my dog was. The guy who had been given the responsibility to hold onto my dog had a horse show/auction to attend out of state, so he had left Bud with someone else, and that person is who this guy who said he thought he knew where my dog was, he had just been there.
I was able to meet up with him the very next morning, the SAME DAY I was leaving for good and knew that meant never seeing my dog again. He took me to the horse farm and sure enough, my beloved Lab Bud was there!! I told the lady whose place we were at that that was MY dog, he had been stolen from me, and I didn't care who left him there for her to watch, I was taking my dog and I gave her the business card of the sergeant on the sheriff's department to call so he could confirm my story and learn the legal jeopardy she was in, especially if she didn't let me take my dog with me.
Bud and I left together, and I was able to start the next leg of my life journey with my best friend, my brother, my child, my black Lab Bud by my side.
The CLEAR lesson I learned was that no matter what I tried, no matter who I involved in my efforts to get my dog back, in the end it was the Hands of Almighty God who gave my dog back to me, after I surrendered and simply gave thanks to those who had tried to help me along the way, the worst 7 weeks of my life, became an incredible TRIUMPH by the Grace of God!!
 
Wife and I have 4 dogs and 3 cats. I cannot imagine not having any pets at all. Eidie is my dog, 1 1/2 year old golden retriever. I bought her from a breeder April 2024. Sadie, 6 year old Bernese Mountain Dog was rescued from an Ohio Amish puppy mill. Shyla, 9 year old border collie, another rescue dog came from South Carolina and KitKat 12 years old was picked up and rescued from living on city streets.

After the pickup truck crashed into our house May 2024, our neighbor graciously invited us into his home and family until housing arrangements could be made. The dogs were crated and lived in his garage while we slept in his living room for a month. June of last year the dogs and us moved into an Rv on our property until our house is restored.
 
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