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[Cherokee]

I have been with my wife for over 10 years. Recently, we began doing some more aggressive things in the bedroom.

She is always 'ho-hum' and doesn't seems to respond how I would expect her to when I initiate things. As previously stated, she has enjoyed me being more dominant and aggressive. Example - we did some Anal before. She enjoyed it, however when she's really hot and turned on she like it to be 'forced' into her tight asshole. We play this little game of her trying to keep it out and me trying to keep it in and she like being treated like a dirty slut.

Lately, she has been kinda down due to finances and 'life' overall (her car isn't running & she's been stuck @ home the past several months) and has been sleeping on the couch. Tonight I want to just take her, drag her into the bedroom and use her as my slut.

Being in a blah mood, how do you suggest I go about this and if it was you I was going to do this to - how would you 'prefer' to be 'man handled"?

I have been putting my nice guy aside and wonder how far my 'dominant' side is going to go.

Any input is appreciated!

J

 

[Beachcat]

This is a tough one, honestly. It sounds like she is maybe depressed, which could really be affecting her sex drive.

I have a super high sex drive, but there have been about three times over the course of my marriage when I really just was not up for sex, and each time there was a chemical reason ( after childbirth, during severe depression and during opiate dependency)

I think you should just play out your scenario and see what happens. If she resists at first, maybe cajole her a little bit. However, after that, if she still resists, stop and let it go. If that happens, don't get pissed off at her rejection, but try to seek a better understanding of why she has been down lately and see what you can do to help her.

Good luck. What you have planned sounds really hot.

 

[Cherokee]

This is a tough one, honestly. It sounds like she is maybe depressed, which could really be affecting her sex drive.

I have a super high sex drive, but there have been about three times over the course of my marriage when I really just was not up for sex, and each time there was a chemical reason ( after childbirth, during severe depression and during opiate dependency)

I think you should just play out your scenario and see what happens. If she resists at first, maybe cajole her a little bit. However, after that, if she still resists, stop and let it go. If that happens, don't get pissed off at her rejection, but try to seek a better understanding of why she has been down lately and see what you can do to help her.

Good luck. What you have planned sounds really hot.

Thanks so much for the input Beachcat! It's been a while since we have fooled around (like 11/23!!) so I am really pent up! Time to let it out!

I have the desire and imagination to be the dominate one, however I just hope she is receptive! I'll let y'all know tomorrow!

 

[euphoria]

Get her in a good mood first! Spoil her a little. Make her dinner or take her on a date and FLIRT IT UP.

 

[llama112]

Get her in a good mood first! Spoil her a little. Make her dinner or take her on a date and FLIRT IT UP.

Yeah ... something like this! Make her dinner or give her a massage first. Get her relaxed and "in the mood"

 

[Cherokee]

Well, I didn't move forward with the plans last night. I did a bit of 'fishing' and she was super tired by the time our daughter went to bed so I respected that and didn't proceed. It's only a matter of time before I 'pounce' and give it to her good!

I have always spoiled her and do special things for her. I think a massage is good as I have done those quite a bit, however she's keen to the massage route and knows a massage usually leads to something further!