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First Date Sex-Question for the Guys

Depends on how good it was.
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Who's going to be able to perform to a level that one would find satisfactory on the first date and first time in bed. Thats a formula for cutting both participants short as well as not likely to continue dating or even be friends.

Sex on the first date is stupid
 
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ccm, I wish EVERY Woman was as comfortable with their sexuality as you are..................
 
In the U.S., I think they are comfortable with their sexuality. In fact, women in the states are so comfortable with their sexuality that there twice more likely to be infected with an STD then other women around the world.

Yet the u.s. treats women with respect not like those damn sand niggers. (sarcasm)
 
plurpuddle said:
the idea that not waiting to have sex with a guy is a "risk", because he may (or in dshock's case, definitely will) deem you to be slutty and therefore not "girlfriend material" is completely ridiculous and reflects badly on the guy rather than the girl imo.
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I'd have to disagree here. I don't think I'm being close-minded, every girl who I've gone to bed with on the first date, had been to bed with most of the other guys she had been on the first date. And then the relationship would end badly, usually as a result of the girl's not wanting to be in a monogamous relationship.
This is my personal experience, maybe those were just the type of girls who were always around. Sorry I'm not as cultured as you plurpoddle.
The question was whether or not the girl would be thought of as a "loose-woman" And, with the way times are now--yes, she has a better chance of being labeled a "slut" if she does. Usually people who fuck on the first night are just looking for a quickie. But sometimes people do just click and have great chemistry right off the bat.
While I'm sure you're trying to come out and look like a hero on this thread you aren't really considering another side of the argument. Her being thought of as a slut is not "completely ridiculous", its actually plausible.
But hey, every situation is different. And the question is a bit shallow, alot more information about the parties involved is actually needed to come out with a reasonable answer.
 
I have a real thing for slutty girls. Mostly every girl I've ever had a crush on has been slutty to some degree. And I'm not talking slutty because she has low self-esteem and wants everyone to like her so she fucks them, more like loves sex so much and is so confident that she doesn't give a shit what people think about her. *That* is sexy.

Slutty guys are ok too. But slutty girls are the best.

Disclaimer: Obviously, safe slutty is sexy, and unsafe slutty is just quite skanky.
 
kingofthegonzo said:
Who's going to be able to perform to a level that one would find satisfactory on the first date and first time in bed. Thats a formula for cutting both participants short as well as not likely to continue dating or even be friends.

Sex on the first date is stupid
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most of sex isn't how "good" you are, its how good you are together.

kingofthegonzo said:
In the U.S., I think they are comfortable with their sexuality. In fact, women in the states are so comfortable with their sexuality that there twice more likely to be infected with an STD then other women around the world.

Yet the u.s. treats women with respect not like those damn sand niggers. (sarcasm)
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Ya? you got a source on that?

All the data I'm seeing clearly points to no.
 
ccm said:
If you have hot sex with a gal on the first date, do you think she is a slut and never call her back? Or do you like the chase better?
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I don't think in terms of "sluts" or "chasing", and I would probably not get along with someone who does.

I would not form a negative opinion of someone for sleeping with me shortly after meeting me, because I think sleeping with me indicates good judgement. :D

If you think sleeping with you indicates poor judgement then.. well, I guess people shouldn't be sleeping with you, eh?
 
I imagine, depending on the maturity of the lovemaking has a definite factor in my conclusion with the 1st night. Remembering in that it is a "stand", there is no remorse, on the decision whether or not to continue with her.

-Thinking more like the typical "Neanderthal-male"; I would choose to find another fish in the sea...
 
It depends, on a lot of things. The person, situation, how well we're hitting it off, what I want, what she wants, etc. Maybe yes, maybe not.
 
dshock said:
It depends, on a lot of things. The person, situation, how well we're hitting it off, what I want, what she wants, etc. Maybe yes, maybe not.
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Haha, well naturally, as they are the same considerations all people take into account when sleeping with someone for the first time..but then if you did innitiate, would you still judge..? perhaps you should give those that sleep with you on a first date more credit in their ability to make a choice, just like you feel you are able to, and not simply dismiss them as 'slutty'.
 
MethaContin said:
ccm, I wish EVERY Woman was as comfortable with their sexuality as you are..................
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Thank you, baby. I do okay.
I will update you on this situation in full detail when he leaves. He is here right now. We were supposed to split up Wednesday at noon, but I guess both os us couldn't get enough. Helps that he can eat pussy.:)
 
ccm said:
Thank you, baby. I do okay.
I will update you on this situation in full detail when he leaves. He is here right now. We were supposed to split up Wednesday at noon, but I guess both os us couldn't get enough. Helps that he can eat pussy.:)
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lol NICE!! Iam glad you find a guy who can HANDLE you!!! :) I wish you the best!;) <3
 
He is packing. He just put it on me proper. There are scads of men that just can't fuck, sorry to say. He can also score good coke and good wet. BONUS! DINGDINGDING!
 
LOL Nice, Why are you guys breaking up??? it seems like it was on Good terms though, At least you both got a before Break-Up Fuck.
 
ccm said:
He is packing. He just put it on me proper. There are scads of men that just can't fuck, sorry to say. He can also score good coke and good wet. BONUS! DINGDINGDING!
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Ill kick it up to kentucky or whereever the fuck you live with some of this Miami Coke, You can't beat that......

Did you guys have crazy coke sex???!!!!???!!!!! :)
 
No, we are just getting started. I meant "split" by my earlier post as in he goes home and I go home till we hook up again.

Sorry I was not clear about that.
 
MethaContin said:
Ill kick it up to kentucky or whereever the fuck you live with some of this Miami Coke, You can't beat that......

Did you guys have crazy coke sex???!!!!???!!!!! :)
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You gotta come to TX. And bring Oxys so we can fix 'em up.
 
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