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First Date Sex-Question for the Guys

dshock said:
I agree 100%, I love sex with slutty girls, its fun, and they're really good at it.
But when I'm in a relationship I want the girl I'm dating to be true to me as I am to her, and the sluts are usually cheaters.
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Not all of the time, sometimes they just like having alot of sex with you..........
 
ccm said:
Why not? Some make fabulous girlfriends. You like the chicks that play mind games and prick tease and withhold sex to try and get you to like them more? That sounds calculated to me. I don't like to play little mind games with ppl. Of course, I will have to protect myself since I am with someone I don't know very well...that is ALWAYS advisable.

I would be more worried about going down with someone that did not make you wear a condom/did not want you to wear a condom. Unless they are a virgin. Unlikely I will ever be with a virgin. Just not a turn on. I like men with LOTZ of experience that can PUT IT ON ME, if you know what I am saying.;)
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Definatly to the 100%..............
 
Its pretty hard to respect a girl that has no respect for herself.
Thats why I don't get into serious relationships with them.
 
dshock said:
Its pretty hard to respect a girl that has no respect for herself.
Thats why I don't get into serious relationships with them.
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That's only if the girl is a slut, in this case she isint because she only sleeps with people on 1st dates who she REALLY REALLY likes, No mind games, No Sexual Tension, No Bullshit. I like a girl like that better than a 'Game Player'... :)
 
dshock said:
Well, I've been talking only about "slutty" girls so far, I didn't think I needed to say it again.
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But you refferred to the OP as slutty but I just think your getting the wrong idea, She just fucks guys she really is into. A slut will bang anybody they date or go out with but this girl saves the sex for when she really likes somebody, and that can (Maybe) only be a date away ;)
 
Thats fine, but she probably has a better chance of not being thought of as a slut by whatever guy it is if she doesn't fuck on the first date.
 
Pander Bear said:
I can't speak for others guys, but if I have sex on a first date, its because there's great chemistry, and I'm interested in more than a quick fuck. Moreover, its a great sign that she and I have similar opinions about the place of sex in a relationship, and that we don't have any hang-ups about looking like sluts.
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Yep.
 
dshock said:
Thats fine, but she probably has a better chance of not being thought of as a slut by whatever guy it is if she doesn't fuck on the first date.
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Or she has a better chance of not being seen as a slut if she stays away from close-minded men who think that a woman who has sex on the first date is, by default, a slut.

/mludd
 
^that doesn't make any sense, I never said by default that she is a slut, I said she has a better chance. Why risk it if you really like someone. And it really does depend on the situation and people involved. Sex can or cannot change things for good or bad.
And I don't think I'm being close-minded, personally, I just enjoy the chase more sometimes
 
dshock said:
Thats fine, but she probably has a better chance of not being thought of as a slut by whatever guy it is if she doesn't fuck on the first date.
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I agree, Sadly thats what the world is made to think of these poor women who just like sex............
 
mludd said:
Or she has a better chance of not being seen as a slut if she stays away from close-minded men who think that a woman who has sex on the first date is, by default, a slut.

/mludd
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TRUE, and, True.
 
ccm said:
If you have hot sex with a gal on the first date, do you think she is a slut and never call her back? Or do you like the chase better?
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Dates? Sluts? The chase? Do you live in a romantic comedy from 1983?
 
snakjaw said:
Dates? Sluts? The chase? Do you live in a romantic comedy from 1983?
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Oh, my bad. Dates are something that only happened in 1983?

What do you call "dates?" Kickin' it at the house?

lol

And the word slut is alive and well. Unless you live in Alabama.
 
dshock said:
Its pretty hard to respect a girl that has no respect for herself.
Thats why I don't get into serious relationships with them.
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You are defining a girl that fucks a guy on the first date a girl that has no respect for herself? 'Cause the guy isn't comin' off too much better here, one that is sniffin' around for an easy piece of ass. A dirty lay, as it were.
 
the idea that not waiting to have sex with a guy is a "risk", because he may (or in dshock's case, definitely will) deem you to be slutty and therefore not "girlfriend material" is completely ridiculous and reflects badly on the guy rather than the girl imo. if you want to have sex with someone so much you can't imagine going to bed alone that night, all power to ya. if he's that narrow-minded and sexist, it's his loss for deciding you're not the "type of girl" he'd take things further with.

a healthy relationship is built on chemistry, and sexual chemistry in particular is a make or break. why not find out sooner rather than later? if it doesn't turn out to be a relationship, at least you had some fun in the meantime and no one was hurt. and like a few people have been said, if you hold off the other person may get the wrong impression, that you're not so interested after all :\
 
If you have hot sex with a gal on the first date, do you think she is a slut and never call her back? Or do you like the chase better?
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It depends a lot on things that are difficult to put in writing. I would say its better to play it cool first time out. Not because of being labeled a slut or whatever, but more along the lines of a basket case. If things flow the right way thats one thing, but if you throw your self on top of him like some kind of mentally challenged sexually deprived retard, then of course hes not going to want anything to do with you.
 
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