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Bluelighter
^^my thoughts exactly^^
mludd said:Obviously I have no problem with there being some kind of external factor that interferes with a woman's willingness to have sex with me but if she chooses not to have sex with me because she doesn't want me to think that she's a slut then clearly she's not my type.
/mludd
Pander Bear said:why would you question her character when you're the one who fucked her on a first date?
lola said:Similarly if I went on a first date with an attractive guy and we hit it off and have good sex then he doesn't call me back cause 'I slept with him so I must be a slut' he can fuck right off! Guys who think this way are not my type. )
TheDEA.org said:When I was a young punk, it was my fondest hope that any given girl would be willing to have sex on the first date.These days, if a girl wanted to have sex on the first date, not only would it not happen, but there most likely wouldn't be a second date.
Hypocritical? Not really; I've just grown up. I used to find casual sex acceptable (and even desirable) because I was immature and foolish, not because I was 'liberated' or 'open minded'. While being afraid of or ashamed of your own sexuality is silly and quite unhealthy, there is also nothing good or admirable about reducing the significance of sex to the level of a handshake; the potential consequences (disease, emotional entanglements, pregnancy) are too serious.
lola said:Similarly if I went on a first date with an attractive guy and we hit it off and have good sex then he doesn't call me back cause 'I slept with him so I must be a slut' he can fuck right off! Guys who think this way are not my type. It did happen before and I was simply grateful for the hot sex and relieved to find out straight away it wasn't going to work between us.
ccm said:It is SO HARD for me to stop once I get turned on. A good kisser so will do it. And someone that licks and sucks and nibbles on my neck and ears.
ccm said:dshcok - just a friendly question - what does that make you?