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Finding a guy for a threesome

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Poll idea- Guys, would you do a threesome with a somewhat attractive female, 19, thin build, 32B, and her 31 Year old fiance, tall, 5 1/2-6 inches long? 1- YES! wouldn't even think twice. 2-if you really liked the girl 3-no way you'd even consider it
As some of you have probably read in my other posts, I'm VERY happily engaged! However, my fiance and I are open to new sexual experiences. The Rule- we do everything together. When I get hit on by guys, I tease them back, and when I can see they're reallllly into me, I drop the bomb. I'm engaged. BUT I'd love to do a threesome with them and my fiance. BUT they have to be sexual with him as well as me. I've made the offer to several guys. They think about it, but ultimately refuse. it seems like I lose all sex appeal when they realize what they'd have to do to get in my pants. I really want to surprise my finace with a threesome- the guy has to AT LEAST give him oral. Guys- what am I doing wrong? I believe I'm at least somewhat attractive judging by the number of guys that hit on me. I work on my body/appearance. I act fun and flirty and sexy. But hearing about my fiance is like flipping an off switch. Help, suggestions and opinions would be appreciated!
 
Plenty dating sites for that kind of thing. Or perhaps to get the ball rolling, hire someone to fill the role?
 
I would try HIS friends first....one of my body buddies suggested it to me, because his friend had just moved here and whatever. I said yea, of course.... <opening here for snide thoughts>..... and the three of us had a lot of fun. My only caution to you is that your heart is young and you are vulnerable. If it is one of his friends, and somebody starts crushing, it messes everything up.

You might have a male friend yourself that wouldn't mind joining in. In my case the guys didn't touch each other, they weren't having anything to do with each other. I think a two man threesome where the guys aren't afraid to touch each other would be that much more exciting.
 
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I would try HIS friends first....one of my body buddies suggested it to me, because his friend had just moved here and whatever. I said yea, of course.... <opening here for snide thoughts>..... and the three of us had a lot of fun. My only caution to you is that your heart is young and you are vulnerable. If it is one of his friends, and somebody starts crushing, it messes everything up.

You might have a male friend yourself that wouldn't mind joining in. In my case the guys didn't touch each other, they weren't having anything to do with each other. I think a two man threesome where the guys aren't afraid to touch each other would be that much more exciting.
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For that reason I would avoid involving anyone you know socially, until you two are familiar with the territory.
 
Hmm...can't he just find some guy online? That's what my ex used to do. Not really something you can approach people cold about, unless you have reason to think they are into it, but that would be a rare occurence. It's mostly going to sites for that kind of thing.
 
Craigslist for me all the way, tons of cool cute guys. You're essentially looking for a bi guy who is going to find both of you attractive and, while they're out there, what you're doing wrong is going for the straight dudes who are only interested in you. If you try Craigslist you'll find people who are specifically turned on by this kind of scenario, won't want to stick around to have a romantic dinner together with you two and you'd be able to set your own boundaries. Just make sure you meet the guy for a coffee first so you get a good feeling for him before surprising your bf... enjoy! It is a very hot thing to do ;)
 
Go to a Rave lots of the dudes are bi or bi-curious; you will have options at these parties to choose from...If they do not have one of those around, try a gay/bi bar or club that is around your area...
 
Oh, and another good place - adult movie theatres. But better for him to go pick them up.
 
Yes I probably would but we'd have safer sex.

Look in GLBT bars and dance clubs for bisexual men, on certain sites-Avoid Craigslist it's full of flakes, scam artists, pic collectors, spam bots, and dangerous people, and you can always see if any of your friends know bisexual men.
 
OK wait now here's an idea... what if we were to roll your boyfriend onto his back and have him suck his own dick? I'll agree to stick a finger in his ass, you know, to keep him in place, and so then it would be just the two of us. I'm pretty sure that we could still do most of the positions with my one free arm.
 
What do you mean, he'd have to be sexual with your bf as well? Like how sexual are we talking?
 
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