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feeling rejected...what am i doing wrong?

He could be cheating.

He could be returning to dope, in which case he would have to stop taking his suboxone.
So, does he still take his suboxone, according to schedule, if yes then he is not using dope. However he could be using benzos, they could be making him extra sleepy.

It could just be the suboxone, I am on ten milligrams a day, and while at first I could still have normal sex, it got harder and harder. Sex failures, cock going limp or not achieving erection at all, no desire to have sex, no ability to orgasm even after hours of trying. All from subs. So possibly his dose is having a greater effect now on his sex drive.
He needs to stop masturbating at all, only release must be from sex.

Anyways these are all possibilities, but I'm guessing you already know which ones the most likely.
 
Shady Kaity said:
his habits have changed a bit..hes been sleeping way later, when he usually goes to his house to shower and what not i usually go with him but the last few times hes been saying hell jus be right back and to wait for him. when i ask to look at his phone he gets really irritated and annoyed and starts bitching at me for it...and it makes me think if he has nothing to hide, why does he get irritated? idk...and about a month ago he had been asking to go through all my shit so i finally asked for all his login information and i went on his email and he had old saved naked pictures of multiple different girls, one of them being his best friends mother who he has told me that shes come on to him before but he swears up and down that he never had sex with her, and she basically treats him like a sugar baby, she buys him EVERYTHING and anything he wants so im a little suspicious about that. he told me that he had sex with three other people before me, so i asked him what their names were and he told me two names and then i was like whose the third? and he said uhhh no one i just lied cuz i was embarassed. so either hes lying cuz he is embarassed or he just doesnt wanna tel me who the third one is and i would think because its his friends mom...either way he lied about that...and hes been like super irritable lately, says hes just stressed. and he says all the time that he feels like im the distant one, but i tell him its not like that at all...idk man i just dont know...i never really find anything in his phone, no texts or pictures but that doesnt mean he doesnt delete them before he sees me...but theres always random numbers in his phone that he cant explain to me that HE dialed...but when i try to call them no one ever answers...so i dunno
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I doubt his friends mom is buying him all this stuff w/o sex. He must be banging her or else why would she be buying him stuff?
 
Shady Kaity said:
so my boyfriend and I have been together for 11 months now... we use to have sex alllllll the time
but for the last few months we havent like at all... its basically nonexistent...and after the sex slowed down, we've been arguing all the time, which most of the time it probably is my fault because i feel so insecure that hes not attracted to me or im not good enough for him so i get in pissy moods and very depressed constantly...i try to surprise him. i've dressed up and came down stairs and surprised him, nothing. i even came down completely naked once and he always says hes either too tired or just not in the mood. for example..recently we were at his house and he randomly got aroused so i was excited but we cant have sex at his house, so i tried everything to keep him in the mood. he told me when we got home for me to shower and then we'd have sex. so i took a very fast shower and came down dressed up. we layed down in bed together watching tv and i normally dont iniate the actual sex part. i usually just tell him im in the mood and then hell take it from there. but this time i decided to be bold and started giving him a hand job. he just layed there watching tv like nothing was going on...so i asked if we were gonna have sex and he said not now, im not in the mood..so i got very upset and went and changed into sweats and just went to bed...
ive talked to him many times about how i feel hes not attracted to me any more and he swears up and down that he thinks im hot and sexy and is attracted to me...and we've almost broken up a few times and he always begs me to stay with him because hes in love with me...
but i still feel soooo rejected and unattractive...am i doing something wrong? is this the begining of the end? is it just him? whats wrong, i just want to fix this.
and for the last almost two months the only times we've had sex is basically when i have to bug him all the time. and then i feel like hes just doing it so i stop complaining, not that he actually wants to be doing it...
please someone help i feel so lost and depressed =[
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Have you asked him?
 
I have the same problem with my girlfriend.Excepct Im 26 and she's 44.In the beginning we had sex like rabbits,but now its not so much.Im lucky if I get it in twice or 3 times within 2 weeks.I love her to death,and she says she feels the same way.But now she says things like "im not 26 anymore ya know".and she recently just said that she cud care less if wehave sex or not.And im pretty damn sure that she masturbates at night when we're in bed going to sleep,cuzi can feel the bed moving ever so slighty,then it just stops.And I just dont know whats going on.I dont know,there's more to this relationship that I havent said,I just dont feel like typing it all,LOL.maybe ill come back and tell more.*SIGH*
 
He could be

-Addicted/taking drugs in secret.
-Suffering from depression.
-Having an affair.

TALK TO HIM! This is why MDMA and LSD needs to be legal >_>
 
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