Facials and other kinks

[munki]

As my relationship with my bf deepens, and my level of trust has increased I have become more adventurous in our sex life. I used to be firmly against cum in my face, but now, occasionally, ask him to do so. It is not on a regular basis, but when I request it, it is a huge turn-on for the both of us. I used to feel it was degrading, etc. but maybe because I trust him so much, it is just an extension of the love I feel for him. In general I am pretty submissive in bed to a certain extent, though aggressive in other ways.

Just was wondering if other folks have discovered their kinkier sides unexpectedly?

 

[masumune]

Facials kinky? Nah.

 

[DeathDomokun]

I can understand the trust in something like bondage, or even D/s relationships, but can you elaborate on the element of trust in getting a facial?

 

[munki]

It took me a while to feel really comfortable giving him head and even do it for him on a regular basis. I had a really bad experience when I was 19 where I sexually assaulted while falling down black out drunk at a frat party by multiple men, entailing consensual fellatio to one man, but it eventually digressed into having strangers' dicks in my face despite me saying no repeatedly. Prior to that incident I really enjoyed giving oral sex to men, but it has taken me years to come back to that level. To be really intimate with someone takes an extreme level of trust for me, especially because of that incident. If my bf and I didn't have the level of trust that we have in our relationship, I would not want to allow him to cum in my face because there are too many negative associations with it, overall.

Since it is such an submissive act that is why there has to be trust in the other person.

 

[Lysis]

As my relationship with my bf deepens, and my level of trust has increased I have become more adventurous in our sex life. I used to be firmly against cum in my face, but now, occasionally, ask him to do so. It is not on a regular basis, but when I request it, it is a huge turn-on for the both of us. I used to feel it was degrading, etc. but maybe because I trust him so much, it is just an extension of the love I feel for him. In general I am pretty submissive in bed to a certain extent, though aggressive in other ways.

Just was wondering if other folks have discovered their kinkier sides unexpectedly?

Yep, done it, and I agree. It's only something I would do with someone I trust. I know what you mean by it's an extension of love or trust. Aside from being high or drunk, kinky stuff is something I've only done with people I am very close to.

 

[The Warden]

I like being tied up/restrained. Oh, and blindfolds! Can't forget the blindfolds..

 

[pokepoke420]

When I met my girl(the love of my life) she was so shy reserved and inexperienced sexually. She absolutely LOVES when I cum on her face in her mouth and having it drip onto her tits. Obviously not always (too messy) but she begs me sometimes. Very sexy, and if its in the bedroom with someone you love it shouldn't be viewed as degrading. Keeping your partner satisfied is important.

 

[Zulkifar]

Yeah my first girlfriend sort of made it happen once on purpose. And would frequently request it from then on. I never thought of doing it myself...

 

[Changed]

My last ex gave head and swallowed everything, every time, but wouldn't let me come on her face... not sure what that was all about, but I enjoyed the sensation of having my dick sucked while I came (not to mention the psychological pleasure of having her swallow my come), so I didn't even try again to come on her face... not sure if this helps this thread, but I figured I'd post.

 

[BeachBum4u]

My last ex gave head and swallowed everything, every time, but wouldn't let me come on her face... not sure what that was all about, but I enjoyed the sensation of having my dick sucked while I came (not to mention the psychological pleasure of having her swallow my come), so I didn't even try again to come on her face... not sure if this helps this thread, but I figured I'd post.

You're a lucky man, sir! That is one of that best sensations short of coming inside a woman. Very SWEET!