Power, in short, is sexy. Power is an aphrodisiac.
I guess that is basically what I was getting off on. Power over another person. If I'd just hired a prostitute it wouldn't really be exerting that much power over them because they want to be doing this.. it's like their job.
To address your point that you advertised and got responses from people you knew - I laugh not at you, but with you. Maybe your girlfriend is in on it? I don't know how big the casual encounters scene is in your area. Never answered or placed such an ad myself, but I'd bet about 75% of the people in my circle of friends has.
No, she was not at all in on it. I mean, she knew what I was doing but there is just no way she set it up or anything.
The casual encounters scene here is relatively popular. I wasn't after the people posting or responding to ads though. I wanted the lurkers. Those girls that were just reading the ads for entertainment like I know a lot of people do. I feel like I did a good job of screening for exactly what I wanted and even if it was someone looking for a casual hookup in the first place in my mind they weren't so I couldn't care less.
Is there a "market" in a woman presenting herself (note: I am not generalizing as to gender, merely addressing Kul69) as "inexperienced," "I don't usually do this/I've never done this before," or "just doing this to make rent this month"? Seriously. Are there honestly people that believe that those who are advertising themselves in such a manner are being honest? Or does this circle of "I give you money, you give me sex" become so reinforcing over time to become as erotic as having a fat bank account?
I imagine there is but I wasn't going after anyone who would have posted in the first place. Also, the straight up "I need money for sex" post would be in the "erotic services" section not casual encounters.
I sure as hell would have never believed anyone who posted something like that.
I would make a post to casual encounters and receive about 40-50 E-mails from people who were interested. I could pretty quickly eliminate the prostitutes trying to pretend they don't normally do this. They would send me a picture and it just screamed prostitute.
Then there were a lot of girls who were just looking to hookup anyway and probably have random fucks all the time. They would usually just straight up admit to how much they fuck and stuff. I would kind of trick them by talking about experience and how I need someone who can please me and blah blah.
Then there are a few that just disappear probably after reconsidering what they were about to it. I would always E-mail them a bunch and try to convince them to continue talking with me. Offer them more money or whatever. To me someone who E-mailed once and then never answered was a good bet for exactly what I wanted. I only ever got one person to continue talking to me again after they disappeared for about a week and it was great.
After all that I'd get down to a handful of possibilities left. At this point I would search their E-mail address and instant messaging name if they had one to try to find out more about them. Most of the time they had a MySpace/LiveJournal/Facebook/Whatever account that allowed me to dig deeper into the kind of person they are.
Basically looking for the girl with a MySpace who is into classical literature and majoring in philosophy or whatever. Maybe a few entries to their profile about what they've been up to for the past couple months. Someone who doesn't ever mention going out. Maybe they talk about their "boyfriend" they left back home before going to college that they still talk to on the phone every night. That would be grade A fantasy material for me. It was all about the hunt for the perfect person and then convincing them to actually go through with it.
Just a few minutes after penetration the fantasy was basically dead for me. However, that moment of penetration and the couple minutes after it were pure bliss to me. Not the physical sensation but seeing the look on their face and sort of being able to "be in their mind" in that moment. I bet I sound like some kind of horrible demon succubus or something.
Anyway, I don't do this anymore because it got boring honestly. It all started because I was just sitting around one day and was wondering what kind of sexual pleasure I could actually purchase. The idea of being with a prostitute in the first place seemed pretty uninteresting to me so I just thought it would have to be someone who wouldn't normally do it and was only doing it because of the amount of money involved. Then that idea was so erotic to me I acted it out.
Oh and I don't want to derail this whole thread and turn it into a forcing innocent girls to have sex for money by offering a lot thread so I'll add an experience I had with an "escort".
I found a prostitute on craigslist and had her come over. Her rate was like $100 for 1/2 an hour or something. When she arrived I told her that I didn't want to have sex with her and she was free to take the money and leave or I'd give her another $100 to take a drug called DMT which only lasts about 10-15 minutes. She asked a few questions about it and I explained what DMT is and told her she'd be smoking it and such. She asked me why I would pay someone to come over and smoke some drugs but I told her I couldn't tell her because it would ruin the whole reason for her to know.
I loaded up 30mg of DMT on top of some weed in a pipe and told her how to smoke it. She tried to hit it once and didn't really get a hit but the DMT melted into the weed. Then she took a huge second rip and held it in for awhile. She exhaled, complained about the taste, and then hit it again and took another big hit. After exhaling this time I could tell she was feeling pretty fucked up and I told her to hurry up and hit it one last time but she said she couldn't and I had to take the pipe.
Then she just chilled out in a chair and closed her eyes for the entire experience. I didn't bother her or anything as my whole point in doing this was to try to get a prostitute to "break through" and then see if it had any impact on her lifestyle (this girl was a tweaker too).
She eventually opened her eyes and said that was a lot of fun. I asked her what the experience was like and she said it was like she was having an intense orgasm the whole time while seeing crazy "lines and shapes of all the colors" everywhere.
I was sad that she hadn't finished smoking and therefore didn't achieve a break through since that was the whole goal of this entire thing. I then told her what my actual purpose was behind all of this and she told me she was sorry it didn't happen and that she doubted any experience would make her stop using meth and fucking for money. Then I told her I was done and she could leave.
