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Evad - RIP <3

Just remembering how he was more concerned about my break-up and general state than him being put on meds. I know he was quiet, but you'd think he wouldn't be interested, going through such a low period. He just was.

I still have the PMs but I can't read them. The best thing is that the last ones from the weekend are really upbeat and positive. Which is just so sad at the same time.
 
R.I.P

I am a lurker but feel your sadness :|, my thoughts are with everyone<3

I feel sad because I lurk so much, but Effie I new your were together because he posted sly things that only girls or nosey feekers can get :-) and I am a woman that picks up on things and the only reason I did because he gave it away about you 2, because in his loveley way he spoke volumes about you<3
 
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im not a man of many words as people who know me or my posts will prove but the night i met Dave in dublin i was afterr having a few beers and some meph/butylone so was yapping like a loon in the pub.
chewed the ears off dave about fcuk all for a while and he was taking the piss abit so i said i would get him back.

we moved about a few pubs then heading into a club as we were payin at the door dave said to me what sort of club was it and what type of music
i told him it was a psytrance nite and full of like minded folk.
he stopped looked at me and said what the fuck-i burst out laughing.after that the bouncer asked everybody for ID and i went to get mine but he told me "your all right i know your old enough" que Dave to start laughing back at me.

btw the club played indie/rock music.
 
I haven't been visting BL much. Yesterday l logged on and was shocked at this thread. I didn't know Dave well but I always appreciated his wit and kindness. (I also remember the day I smacked myself on the side of the head while saying, HURR DURR, It's Dave backwards, ya dillfuck!") He guided me through some mildly embarrassing noobagement a while after I joined (and while I was in a very low state) and the gentle "piss-taking" in his responses were enough to keep me from thinking of exiting life that day and the next few. The many great stories related in this thread are a testament to him and his spirit.

What a shattering loss. Annae <3 <3 <3 thank you for sharing in this thread and my most sincerest condolences go out to you and your family. Much love to you. Effie, I send you the same. Please be kind to yourselves in the coming days. I wish you peace and healing.

<3<3<3
 
Happy and proud to see how much people liked and repected dave, at least that's something
 
SamhainGrim said:
The best thing is that the last ones from the weekend are really upbeat and positive. Which is just so sad at the same time.
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Exactly man - Always there for you when you needed to talk, and the last convos I had with him really were shining with positivity and I could tell he was doing really well. I wish I could have told him things like "Be careful" and "Take good care of yerself" or anything that could have prevented such a tragidy from happening
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Those first few lines are exactly what I'm doing:
When I die please don't morn,
cry not for me;
When I die please don't lie,
write a song for me...
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I've started a track dedicated to him and, when finished, I'm going to put it up for download for everyone <3
I hope he would have liked it.
 
Just sent a txt to DJ Allbury on Rinse FM to give a shout out to everyone who knew dave, and that we'll be celebrating his life today and it just got mentioned <3
 
The funeral is next Friday and the family have asked for either flowers or a donation to Bristol Drugs Project. As I am sure this is a cause close to your hearts, I have set up a JustGiving page in case anyone wanted to donate anything. If you are skint then please don't worry - Dave knew that feeling well and wouldn't expect anyone to donate what they couldn't afford! But I thought I would post the page up here anyway.

Love you baby <3

Dave's JustGiving Page for BDP

edit: Bristol Drugs Project
 
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Thanks Brimz. £160 already :)

Even if people can only afford the price of a can of K cider it would be gratefully received, but again no worries at all if people can't afford it, Dave would have understood! <3
 
I put a fiver in, will add more when I have more. Is the page going to close at a certain date, or will it be left open indefinitely so people can continue to donate in Dave's name for years to come. I think that would be a nice thing, but not sure if it is possibe.
 
^ Really good idea!
Could only put in a 5er though, will add more when i have more :)
Hope all is well
 
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