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Edging, do you do it and for how long

I will edge for up to 2 hours... I'm a female. As far as sex, I like to please my partner before I please myself, and I usually don't get off during casual sex. I may have sex 6 times before getting off, though I feel pleasure each time,
I don't want to take the time to make myself cum when I'm with someone else. But when I'm alone and intending to climax, I will never end a session without orgasming, even if I edge for 2 hours.
 
^It's always so interesting how varied girls are in the "getting off" department.
Just as an example, my 2nd to last ex-girlfriend required a significant amount of warm up time before she was ready to do the actual act. To get her off, It took a lot of hard sex, followed by oral, followed by more sex, repeat, repeat... I think I've gotten fairly good at reaching the edge(edging, I guess, I'd never heard the term) of orgasm, holding it off, waiting a few seconds and starting again.
Doing the edging thing seemed to help keep me as hard as possible during marathon type sessions. Whereas, if I were just to pound away, I'd tend to get tired, all over.
The girl I'm with now is ready after a minute or less of foreplay. Wet, wet. A lot of the time, it's actually not enough time for me to be truly ready. When that's the case, I feel a minor amount of guilt over needing oral prior to the act, but she's always OK with it.
Getting her off is just a matter of 2-5 minutes of sex. Sometimes she'll get off after like 30 seconds. It's awesome. I don't say that out of laziness. It's just nice to know she likes me and sex enough to get off that quick. There's times when I feel guilty needing 10-15 minutes to finish. Still seems crazy, but she's clearly done by then, despite any efforts to hide it.
Noises are nice, but what I really like about it is the spasms. Inside especially, and in the thighs. It's kinda magical.
 
nooneanymore said:
Most women I know want the guy to get off as fast as possible so that they can go back to things that they really enjoy like eating and shopping on the internet.

I SWEAR TO GOD that my ex loved food more than she ever loved me. Hindsight is 20/20. I think back and laugh about it now.
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sounds like there was something she needed that you were missing out:\

when you want someone to cum quickly so you can "get it over with" thats not really a sign of quality sex. you should be attracted to each other and able to satisfy each other sexually otherwise whats the point?

maxalfie said:
You spent 10 hours of your day building yourself up to orgasm then stopping for a bit then doing it all again for 10 bloody hours.
You got too much time(among other things) on yr hands.
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so true- id just get bored of it unless i was on stimulants. my attention span is too short normally and i have things to get on with
 
ugly said:
Keep up the good work, men.

There are females who will attest to the fact that some men can have sex for a long time and provide a woman with pleasure for a long time as well. Those men are sought out and revered for this skill. (Some women enjoy an encounter that lasts more than an hour.)

High demand. Small volume. fyi.
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^

With edging and kegels, I have had multiple girls tell me I have been their best partner.
You can do it guys :D

Oh, its all about the reverse kegels. Those kill the sensation of orgasm almost immediately. Try that with edging.
 
figured out how to do it when i was, idk, 16? and i've been doing it ever since, except for on nights in which im in a rush like if i need to fap to sleep. i love it when i can time it perfectly, where i can get the orgasm, then stop, then start and get an orgasm immediately after, start, orgasm, stop start, orgasm, stop. usually this can only last a minute before i'll mess up the timing and either finish or have to start over because i waited too long o.o
 
smokeydabear89 said:
My record is 10 hours straight. My stomach started feeling weird and I forced myself to cum. Sprayed like a goddam sprinkler. Felt good man.
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Lmao, that's fucking awesome.

Although I'm a chick I actually do this sometimes. the other night I edged for probably an hour and a half, when I came it was fucking epic. However, I enjoy sex so much that it's never 'just to get it over with,' and whenever the guy I'm with gets off then we're usually done. I've never orgasmed while having sex with anybody, so my coming never weighs in on the duration of actual sex :/

And if I had more time on my hands, I probably would try this for a longer amount of time and would recommend that any guy do this to increase their stamina because yeah, guys that can last an hour plus are definitely highly prized by the girls who don't come. We like to have fun too, you know
 
pastelcircus said:
Lmao, that's fucking awesome.

Although I'm a chick I actually do this sometimes. the other night I edged for probably an hour and a half, when I came it was fucking epic. However, I enjoy sex so much that it's never 'just to get it over with,' and whenever the guy I'm with gets off then we're usually done. I've never orgasmed while having sex with anybody, so my coming never weighs in on the duration of actual sex :/

And if I had more time on my hands, I probably would try this for a longer amount of time and would recommend that any guy do this to increase their stamina because yeah, guys that can last an hour plus are definitely highly prized by the girls who don't come. We like to have fun too, you know
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I thought it was a curse that I last a minimum of a 20 min for sex and can go as long as i want.
 
^noo lol.

Actually, the last guy I was with lasted forever and it was fucking awesome. It was like, sex for the sake of sex even if neither of us came. Usually i'd get him off but a few times we kind of just stopped. That was kind of weird at first but cool at the same time because he wasn't weird about the fact that I didn't get off and I didn't feel shafted (;)) because he got off and we were done. Kind of a win-win.

So keep on doing what you do dude, and rest assured that yes, stamina is a good thing.

In fact, lasting however long you want is pretty badass, being how there are guys out there who simply can't handle a certain kind of girl.

Which would you rather be?
 
pastelcircus said:
^noo lol.

Actually, the last guy I was with lasted forever and it was fucking awesome. It was like, sex for the sake of sex even if neither of us came. Usually i'd get him off but a few times we kind of just stopped. That was kind of weird at first but cool at the same time because he wasn't weird about the fact that I didn't get off and I didn't feel shafted (;)) because he got off and we were done. Kind of a win-win.

So keep on doing what you do dude, and rest assured that yes, stamina is a good thing.

In fact, lasting however long you want is pretty badass, being how there are guys out there who simply can't handle a certain kind of girl.

Which would you rather be?
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I wish I could just cum at will to be honest. that would be incredible. but then again it gets me off when I know the girl got off.... nothing like feeling her legs shaking, gasping for air, and that moan of complete pleasure... mmmm
 
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