Hmm...I don't think I've posted in this thread...I'm pretty skinny, 140lb males, 31 inch waist line, not much muscle on me. I'm more concerned of being too skinny, than fatness though. But as easy as the fix is (work out and eat lots)...I don't. I'm starving sometimes, and won't eat. I lose weight FAST if my eating is lower. I usually only get 2 meals a day, wake up hungry but with 20 minutes I don't feel hungry anymore until 1 or 2 in the PM. I try to get as many carbs and calories as I can, but I just can't GAIN weight, haha, I can't stick to 3 meals a day! Anyone got advice/help for this? Someone who really wants to eat and gain weight, but can't seem to get into the habit?
As for all you with the opposite (sort of) problems. Eat, eat, eat...I'm very attracted to this girl at the moment who, isn't fat, but has a bit of fat on her. It is very cute I think, just that LITTLE bit of fat on the face and body, in my male opinion, more attractive than skinniness. I think society is fucked and this girl is perfect! I wouldn't want an unhealthy girl! Come on you guys, I guess it is so hard to convince you all, eh? I'm sure you've heard this a bunch, but, healthiness is most attractive, to everyone!
Hang in there!![]()
Hey vortex!
Your girl-interest sounds perfect!!
My partner loves it when I have a bit of "meat" on me (if you will).
He also likes it when I'm slim and toned, but if I get "skinny" the alarm bells start ringing...
As for you, it sounds like you have a very high metabolism. If you want to gain weight, it may just have to be a slow gradual process of building up muscle etc. If I can refer to my partner again, he was very skinny all through his teenage years/early 20's. He went through an intensive 2-3 year weights-training phase, eating all the right foods, carbs and proteins and whatnot, and he managed to gain about 7kg of muscle in that time.
But now, he is muscly and stocky, and very healthy. All that hard work paid off in the end. It might take a while, but please try not to obsess about it (says me! 8)).
Aim for happy and healthy
