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EADD Oi! What Do You Look Like? v. Don't quote me on that FFS

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i heard it's like riding a bike.
by that i mean you learn how to do both around the same age...

(joking)
 
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Nine times over at that. You'll have a 'mare trying to cross that second set of five though :!

Not making light, Ed, but that's not suicidal due to being self-harm not suicide attempt. That's not to diminish the importance of the former. Self-harm is srs bznz (as the interwebz does done say). I was regularly hospitalised for such things when I was more prone to such things. I had "FVCK" (you try carving a 'U' with a razor :|) carved into one arm and "LIFE" carved into t'other at one point. Other messages to nobody at other points.I don't know how it is for you but know that for me I meant a thing when I did a thing like that. I didn't mean suicide though cos suicide is a thing done privately and with no returns. Again, please don't take that the wrong way cos is not how it's intended. Self-harm is enough for alarm. I'm generally not the best person to talk to about any number of things but if there's any chance I could help at all by lending an ear (technically an eye I suppose) then do please PM me. Or anybody you feel comfortable talking to. Please don't take it beyond the self-harm stage into anything there is no coming back from <3<3<3
 
Bob Funkhouse said:
True. Even writing thoughts and troubles etc might help. U can share what you write with others or even rip it up.
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The latter works especially well in my experience. Write down all you feel - direct it very, very directly at whomsoever or whatsoever it is that is the problem as you perceive it, don't hold back, let rip and really say what you mean - then burn it. It sounds odd but it really does work sometimes. Quite often in fact. In my case I also "ceremonially" burned photographs cos that was appropriate in my situation.

In my - genuinely in these kinda situations - humble opinion the very worst thing to do is to bottle it up whatever it is. Yes the cutting and the like does make for a release of sorts but you (we, in a more general sense cos isn't so very long passed for me either in the grand scheme) only end up hurting ourselves over and over with precious little actual, lasting release.

Please find somebody you can talk to or try the letter (and/or related (other than people - draw the line there no matter what)) burning thing. Helps a lot - especially over time with repeated applications.

And never forget that you are loved <3
 
I know passport photos are always bad, but would you let this guy through customs without searching his every orifice first?

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Not likely to stay up long, for very obvious reasons, so enjoy while you can.
 
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Wow... I actually caught a photo whist it was up... got to be a first!

I know they say not to smile in passport photographs... but... ;)

My drivers licence has a pretty awful photo... my Dad insisted I had to got it on a certain day & I was just feeling a bit ill, so looked grumpy in it. Thankfully it runs out this year so I can get a better photo.
 
You think you're gonna get a better photo, but it never happens that way. :D

I've gone from a pic in which you really couldn't determine my gender to a pic of a petty villain from The Sweeney.
 
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