EADD Meetup at Castle Shambles (was kinky)

[Shambles]

As I said, if funds and circumstance permit I'd be up for Brum and Manc if it really is impossible to set a single date/destination. A lift really would be a massive boon for Manc in particular. Not that I'm trying to muddy the waters by splitting the apparent momentum that maybe - just maybe - is actually building for a single date/destination, mind. But maybe if, say, the 1st/2nd in Brum gets enough interest to make it worth doing it properly with accomodation and plenty peeps but doesn't work for a few that are holding out for Manc the following week there could be a sequel of sorts. I don't think I'm explaining what I mean very well (I blame the lack of drugs (8)) or possibly the lack of lack of drugs (booze ) last night) so will have another crack at it in a while.

 

[mydrugbuddy]

Hahahahahaha! All I can say is that screen Shambles is not off-screen Shambles. Well he is, but he ain't so good at interpersonal communications - even worse than he is at PMs. Okay, maybe not quite that bad but pretty bad. He also doesn't use the third person as often when speaking rather than typing. Which is probably for the best.

I'm actually very shy and introverted in person . At least I am when I don't know you. Once I know you you can't shut me up short of sedation but the thought of thumbing down a car and having to talk to a "normal person" about "normal things" frankly terrifies me. It's not like I can talk shop (as it were) with randomers and I don't really have much in my life that "normal people" are likely to relate to. I barely leave the house, barely keep up with news, current events, certainly not popular culture. Don't have a TV as such so only watch the kinda stuff that I like which tends to be documentaries for the most part. I know from past experience (from times of employment mostly) that I really struggle with "normal conversation" - I just don't have any real connections to what most folk do with their lives. Not better, not worse, just different lifestyle is all.

Of the people I've met from here, most are totally recognisable from their posting style. Not so sure if I would be initially. Probably amongst EADD folk I would be but that's cos the ice is already well and truly broken amongst us all despite not actually having met for the most part. I've become very well-known around BL cos I've been around a while and post a lot. Wasn't always that way - took quite a while to build confidence and find my textual voice. It's kinda the same with actual people and I don't have a year or two to get to know whoever happened to pick me up is all.

I can also be shy and introverted in person or just plain unsociable. Possibly hence all my substance use as they oil those rusty wheels. Its hard to imagine you being a newbie on here, on my time whenenver youve posted or been AWOL for a while you get about 300 responses or something lol. It took me a while to feel like a made the 'breakthrough'. Ironically my meltdown last year seemes to grab everyones attention and get me noticed i think, and thats who they thought i was, this raging nutter, and lots of people think ive changed, and didnt realise that the raging nutter phase was out of character for me. I hink there are better ways of getting attention and 'breaking through' to feel accepted and part of things, but recovering from that epoisode did it for me. I got lots of support for which i thank everyone.

 

[mydrugbuddy]

Oh and knock if youre driving down from sweaty sock land fancy doing a car share from manchester onwards / split the costs ? Maybe Swampy would join us ?

I hope you still have your licence by then, and as your car (if itys still the same one) is a lot more powerfull and desirable than mine, id reccommend we use that, if that doesnt sound cheeky. Plus your car might get stolen/vandalised/ smashed side mirrirs/ smashed side windows if you parked outside my house. Yes it is rough down here, not many luxury cars around these parts.

 

[swampdragon]

Can't make 1st and 2nd. That's my birthday weekend. Will consider 8th and 9th wherever the venue and city. If that city was Manchester I could probably give you a life Shammy.

But maybe if, say, the 1st/2nd in Brum gets enough interest to make it worth doing it properly with accomodation and plenty peeps but doesn't work for a few that are holding out for Manc the following week there could be a sequel of sorts. I don't think I'm explaining what I mean very well (I blame the lack of drugs (8)) or possibly the lack of lack of drugs (booze ) last night) so will have another crack at it in a while.

Or.. how about Manchester for the 15th/16th then? I'm aware that's Valentine's weekend so people might have plans though..

I can also be shy and introverted in person or just plain unsociable.

I'm usually massively talkative, and very sarcastic. Though I think that comes across more in person than on here, when a lot of people think I'm serious.

 

[swampdragon]

Woo double post because I didn't see this bit.

Are you the only female going ? In which case i admire your 'balls'. IM not saying we're a bunch of dangerous deviants so im sure you will be treated well, but even so it does requires some balls on your part if you are the only female amongst how ever male druggies turn up.

Yes, admire my balls! I'm kinda used to being a girl in groups of guys, though. I don't usually spend time with girls anyway.

Does your partner know you take drugs ? Is he scared of you ? Bring him along and break down his prejudices. We havent got 2 heads and stuff just cos we take drugs lol.

Yes, course he knows I do, but he has no interest in drugs and would just be bored hanging around drug nerds.

 

[Shambles]

Or.. how about Manchester for the 15th/16th then?

Would be fine for me. Unless I suddenly need to make use of Valentine's weekend. That would be a bit of a longshot though so fine by me. I've got another payment in between now and then so as long as I don't massively overspend over the next couplefew weeks it should make no difference. Am at the stage where I need to live a bit more within my means than I have been of late anyway. Windfall looking a bit more anaemic recently. Still, lasted a bloody long time given how shite I am with cashmoney. Not quite spent out yet but this meet will be a fitting way to mop up the last few pennies and actually have summat to remember from my brief period of relative wealth

 

[ColtDan]

I can also be shy and introverted in person or just plain unsociable. Possibly hence all my substance use as they oil

Same, although i can be properly out going, depends. naturally introvert, kinda wish i was born an extrovert. never been a fan of small talk. i think too much sometimes, over thinking gets on my tits

I'm usually massively talkative, and very sarcastic. Though I think that comes across more in person than on here, when a lot of people think I'm serious.

If we ever met we'd get along well or you'd piss me right off haha, overly sarcastic people tend to piss me off. depends though, joking sarcasm is good i'll rip the piss or laugh

 

[mydrugbuddy]

yeah theres a fine line with sarcasm, as to whether its funny or nasty. I think Swampy is on the right side of the line.

Never imagined you as shy or introverted Dan, all those pics ive seen of you on nights out surrounded by gropus of women. Things like that dont often happen to shy introverts !

 

[swampdragon]

If we ever met we'd get along well or you'd piss me right off haha, overly sarcastic people tend to piss me off. depends though, joking sarcasm is good i'll rip the piss or laugh

Pft, I'm lovely me. I would completely out-rave you though.

 

[Marmalade]

No one can out-rave Dan. I refuse to believe it.

Rave-off between Dan n Swampy or stfu.

[unless you load up on sprouts and beetroot regularly too Swampy, then I'd say the odds were more even]

 

[swampdragon]

He out-sprouts me, but I do eat a fair amount of beetroot. Rave fuel, innit.

(I'm going to nag him to come up to this meet, if anything gets arranged.)

 

[ColtDan]

yeah theres a fine line with sarcasm, as to whether its funny or nasty. I think Swampy is on the right side of the line.

Never imagined you as shy or introverted Dan, all those pics ive seen of you on nights out surrounded by gropus of women. Things like that dont often happen to shy introverts !

Haha thats where a nice combo of booze and euphoric stims come in

Pft, I'm lovely me. I would completely out-rave you though.

Lol

No one can out-rave Dan. I refuse to believe it.

Rave-off between Dan n Swampy or stfu.

[unless you load up on sprouts and beetroot regularly too Swampy, then I'd say the odds were more even]

im keen for a beety boozy stimmed rave-off, you could join us too marmz

Although im a bit outta raving mindset these days. feeling in the mood to post some old-ish ravey pics

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[Raasyvibe]

^ You're coming too, now?

Can we get a BL enlist for those supposedly turning up?

I'm still betting on 3 turning up at the most.

 

[brimz]

Same, although i can be properly out going, depends. naturally introvert, kinda wish i was born an extrovert. never been a fan of small talk. i think too much sometimes, over thinking gets on my tits



If we ever met we'd get along well or you'd piss me right off haha, overly sarcastic people tend to piss me off. depends though, joking sarcasm is good i'll rip the piss or laugh

Haha thats where a nice combo of booze and euphoric stims come in



Lol



im keen for a beety boozy stimmed rave-off, you could join us too marmz

Although im a bit outta raving mindset these days. feeling in the mood to post some old-ish ravey pics

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wot drugs are u on atm ?

 

[brimz]

No one can out-rave Dan. I refuse to believe it.

Rave-off between Dan n Swampy or stfu.

[unless you load up on sprouts and beetroot regularly too Swampy, then I'd say the odds were more even]

Dan yeah Ds

he ravd like a special patient at ST Pauls KEd up but standing:D

 

[brimz]

if CD can beat dat then woah

 

[ColtDan]

wot drugs are u on atm ?

4-FA and a few vallies

 

[brimz]

Outbound Flight
Sun 02-February-14
08:50 / 11:10 (2 hours 20 minutes)
London Stansted - Porto

Return Flight
Thu 06-February-14 (4 Nights)
17:40 / 20:00 (2 hours 20 minutes)
Porto - London Stansted£69

 

[brimz]

dat is good

 

[Shambles]

Hehe. EADD Euromeet might be a tad ambitious unfortunately. Just need to look at the 10th Anniversary meet to see that, sadly. That was advertised site-wide too. Is bloody cheap though. That's only a smidge more than it's gonna cost me to get to either of the current destinations. Well, plus the cost of renewing my passport. Perhaps another time. Have a funny feeeling it'd actually be easier to get folk on a flight to somewhere nice than it would be to get the to turn up in Brum or Manc though.