EADD Meetup at Castle Shambles (was kinky)

[Mental Kenny]

Can we just have a Hangout on Google+, meeting in person is so last century

 

[Albion]

I believe you would get charged with assault.

8(

 

[mydrugbuddy]

its doomed i tell ye (the meet up) 8)

all the twentysomethings will group together, some may mingle a bit, the other may mingke too.

But ATM there is too much animosity for it to go ahead IMO.

Things may have chganged by next week. Things do chnage fast.

 

[Marmalade]

Well the issues weren't really clear to me, on any of the times I noticed you insulting her out of (what looked to me like) the blue, that's why I was asking. Must just be thick, doesn't really matter.

Regarding you talking to BHM well it's nice of you to stick up for him, but bear in mind (a) mods agree that he was the only one getting reported with regularity, (b) mods also say with him gone this place *should* go back to the decency of a few weeks ago, (c) BHM is so para he's convinced me and SHM are talking about him via PMs behind his back and "exchanging information", so take what you hear from him with a grain of salt. You're becoming as fanatical in defending him as he is of US NeoCon policy lol, may be rubbing off on you a bit too much.

Anyway, crackhead summed it up neatly as usual. Folk need to grow the fuck up. If they can't take it, as I can't at times, just leave for a bit and try again. This thread smells like dirty nappies, I'm out. Done with BL for a while actually.

@ Shammy: mate the way things are looking now I'm not all that keen to be honest. Individuals I'd love to see. People getting together in cliques and making cunts of themselves, I'd rather not.

PS: What happens if you beat up a mod at a meet-up

I agree with PTCH too, particularly because i think he doesn't support infracting for being insulting, which was his main point, no?

I don't think the mods are in agreement that random insults should be infracted but I'm not 100%

And regarding reporting posts, it's a moot point for me, because anyone with a grudge can just abuse the report post function. Doesn't mean their cause is justified.

Eh, I've said many times I think you're one of the best posters here. I just don't agree with the dishing out of infractions for insulting someone. Unless it's a consistent, unrelating hate campaign, and I don't think that even remotely applies to any of these situations we've been discussing.

[edit]
And if GoS is seriously feeling bullied, I'm more than willing to talk about the situation and sort it out with her in PMs if she wants. Shambles might be chaperone for that if I ask him nicely.

 

[lurching]

this mornings evfennts have come to light.

...

 

[Marmalade]

I believe you would get charged with assault.

8(

depends. no body - no evidence

 

[Albion]

Somebody would report you though

And they'd get a tonne of schtick for it.

 

[brimz]

I think some people take things on this forum far to serious .

I was guilty of doing this as well but have come to the conclusion that it's a waste of time & by the next day it's usually forgotten .

 

[Albion]

I think you're on the money, brimz.

 

[brimz]

It's like when you get pissed n make a twat of yerself with yer mates .

You wake up feeling terrible n expect a load of grief but when you meet em no one mentions anything .

 

[mydrugbuddy]

Ooh er, I've just lost my 'snip' cherry

Please do tell what is so wrong about calling someone a 'phenazepam addled druggy'? You're either overly sensitive or have no comprehension of irony (for I would class myself as a 'phenazepam addled druggy'..) Lighten up man, and put yer modstick away...

it was me that was over sensitive, not the mod. If youd made it clearer that you were being ironic and that you were also a phenz addled druggy then that would have brought us closer together rather than drive a wedge between us. Most of these 'arguments' are dwon to miscommunication/misunderstanding rather than any real malice i think

it all gets very boring after a while tho

 

[mydrugbuddy]

I think some people take things on this forum far to serious .

I was guilty of doing this as well but have come to the conclusion that it's a waste of time & by the next day it's usually forgotten .

adding that 2nd sentence has made the world of difference to your post. Your now not saying people are being too sensitive, you're now acknowledging that although that may well be the case, but recognising you were once in that position yourself.. More posts like that post could bring everyone together again.

 

[Shambles]

I really don't get the drama wafting from a few folk of late. Despite thread title, proposed meet really has nothing to do with me and never did - is simply a suggestion that it might be fun to take drugs, climb a mountain, and maybe nosh on some sossers 'n' beans round a camp fire with more drugs for pud. If anybody fancies a bit of that, then have a bit of that. If not, don't. This is why meet discussions never work - cos people just end up over-complicating things and getting into lil spats and bitch fights and all the usual EADD stuffs we know and rather than just keeping it simple. Would you go? Could you go?

Until a date is set up noone can do owt .

Which is why is kept it very simple and just asked people to pick their preference of August or September. Or maybe both. Last weekend in August, by the time people get home it'll be September.

 

[parttime crackhead]

I think some people take things on this forum far to serious .

Absolutely.

 

[Marmalade]

eh, and now i feel partly responsible for making this thread turn to shit with all the off topic posts

 

[gayorstraight]

BHM got infracted for calling GoS 'Flatface' ... which took him to his current temp ban

It was like the most innocuous and banal insult ever really, since she's clearly not flatfaced.

Did he?? Haha fucking lol

Nothing to do with me, I never reported the post iirc

 

[mydrugbuddy]

eh, and now i feel partly responsible for making this thread turn to shit with all the off topic posts

you are

As are about 8 others of us.

PTCH people cxannot help the tempremants they were born with or whetever else happened to make them that way. Most people are actively trying to change for the better (belive it or not i am too, but its as volatile as the bit coin exchange rate, we dont have to be at the mercy of our moods and feelings, ands as adults we should have at least some mastery over them.

Here i am developmentally retarted in that regard, but im aware of it and trying to sort myselkf out. what more can i do, On a good day things wash over me, on others ill bristle like e fuckin hedhehog at the merest hint of a slight. We all have to be tolerant of each other foibles or we'll end up bickering like this every time.

Thus endeth todays sermon to a muttering of fuck of ya daft cunt....%)

 

[gayorstraight]

Aside from the BHM politics, I think flatface is a brilliant insult. (Especially in that context, when GoS is an attractive gal who doesn't have a flat face...)

Yeah, I thought the same SD. I recon she looks a bit like Amelie, as I said in the movie star thread thingy

Marmz sorry to say this cos I like you but you're only defending him over the GoS thing because you've been bullying the shit out of her since she turned up. BHM was allright for a few weeks, then he turned into a twat again. Albion is also quite calm as far as I can see
Incidentally I'm curious as to why you're insulting GoS with predictable regularity - you're as chilled as people come so what's going on there?

Anyway seeing how Shambles has refrained from discussion for the last 4 pages and people have been flipping out at each other so I guess that's a sign from above that the meetup ain't gonna happen.

@ Ponti: that is absolutely not true in the slightest (regarding only sticking up for him because of GoS)

you're way off on that score. [edit]I've been talking with BHM via email and PM for a fairly long time. Well before GoS came on the scene

Re GoS: she's treated as I find. I've been critical about her behaviour on a number of occasions because i believe it's been worth commenting on. And I've been very clear on what those issues were.

She's come out with her own insults towards me at random times herself, totally unrelated to the behaviours I was being critical about.

The 'Bullying' label I don;t agree with either. Critical, yes.

[edit]

I also trade normal banter with her as well, on fairly friendly terms.

[edit x 2]
I'll more than happily explain about the things I've thought were worth bringing up re GoS, but I'll let her decide whether she's ok with me doing that here, or would prefer it to be kept private and via PMs. Because it will naturally involve bringing up all the stuff I've already mentioned about her before, and a little more. She might not want me to do that here

I agree with PTCH too, particularly because i think he doesn't support infracting for being insulting, which was his main point, no?

I don't think the mods are in agreement that random insults should be infracted but I'm not 100%

And regarding reporting posts, it's a moot point for me, because anyone with a grudge can just abuse the report post function. Doesn't mean their cause is justified.

Eh, I've said many times I think you're one of the best posters here. I just don't agree with the dishing out of infractions for insulting someone. Unless it's a consistent, unrelating hate campaign, and I don't think that even remotely applies to any of these situations we've been discussing.

[edit]
And if GoS is seriously feeling bullied, I'm more than willing to talk about the situation and sort it out with her in PMs if she wants. Shambles might be chaperone for that if I ask him nicely.

That's the reach-around I was fishing around for


I personally disagree. Even a spat between 2 people can spoil the whole sub-forum. Remember the effect Farmaz' rants had on here? The regulars are a small community. People need to learn to behave or, same as when one can't take flak, get the fuck out if they can't be sensible. If they don't have the sense to know when they're not showing manners, I'm more than allright with being taught them by a third party and shown the door if I continue acting like a cunt regardless.


I'll drop the GoS stuff, it's obviously between you two and as happens with my wife I probably wouldn't understand it anyway.

PLUR everyone

WHAT HAVE I MISSED HERE THEN? lol

Ponti - thanks for your support

Marmz - obviously we've disagreed on loads of stuff but I have felt like you are very negative towards me with no real reason.. I could be very wrong. I also appreciate the fact that we've had a few nice/civil interactions recently

SD - you're very attractive too as I remember

 

[brimz]

Marmz - obviously we've disagreed on loads of stuff but I have felt like you are very negative towards me with no real reason.. I could be very wrong. I also appreciate the fact that we've had a few nice/civil interactions recently

Keep it up both of you

 

[swampdragon]

I personally disagree. Even a spat between 2 people can spoil the whole sub-forum. Remember the effect Farmaz' rants had on here? The regulars are a small community. People need to learn to behave or, same as when one can't take flak, get the fuck out if they can't be sensible.

Agreed, it's a pain in the arse having to tiptoe around arguments that I can't be bothered getting involved in. PLUR.

Which is why is kept it very simple and just asked people to pick their preference of August or September. Or maybe both. Last weekend in August, by the time people get home it'll be September.

17th-18th August (probably a bit too soon?).. 7-8th Sept.. 14-15th Sept.. but I think the A-listers should be deciding.