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And yes.

People taking their one-on-one bickering to PMs is entirely different to the kind of activity B&W was describing.
Not all the time it isn't. Often a lot of what's being said during those arguments is being done so because of people feeding them shit in PMs. I believe B&W was referring to such inclusive of her point about PM campaigns.

Theyre often very intermingled imo, and in my experience.

also, don't know what you meant thatyou were talking about different experiences, since you wrote this in response B&Ws comment:
I'm very aware of this issue too. I know I've been the subject of several similar exchanges (some recent, some not-so-recent). I agree with you 100%.
 
Not all the time it isn't. Often a lot of what's being said during those arguments is being done so because of people feeding them shit in PMs. I believe B&W was referring to such inclusively of this point.

You've lost me now. I can't even tell what your point is.

You're saying that arguments start on the board because of shitty PMs that are already circulating? Or are you saying something else?

Genuinely, I can't fathom what you're getting at.
 
Hrmn.

I'm going to leave this here and you can think about what I wrote, or not. It may come to you if you look at the inconsistency about your stance on keeping things to PMs, while completely agreeing with B&Ws approach to doing exactly the opposite.

Back later. Need to go out and run errands
 
Hrmn.

I'm going to leave this here and you can think about what I wrote, or not. It may come to you if you look at the inconsistency about your stance on keeping things to PMs, while completely agreeing with B&Ws approach to doing exactly the opposite.

Back later. Need to go out and run errands

B&W's talking about malicious PMs that try to negatively influence one person's opinion of another, 'behind their back', so to speak.

I'm talking about taking interpersonal squabbles between two members to PMs rather than letting them dominate a thread.

I really fail to see how I'm being inconsistent here. You're completely misunderstanding my stance. That's all.
 
I agree. There are people who love a good old PM to try and cause fractures and alter peoples perceptions of others, I'm aware of it having been done about me. I refuse to enter into it, other than PMing that picture of Spade when requested.

The way I see it, if someones so pathetic they have to resort such malevolent little tactics, how can you trust them - if they'll do it to you, they'll do it about you. It has an insiduous damaging effect on the whole forum. Don't trust em further than you can throw em.

But back to the OTW subject, why can't he just agree to stay out of EADD?

this post is making me feel gulity now, i sent marmz a pm about OTW because i was having trouble trying to fathom him. I dont normally send PMs like that, im not sure if i intended to stir up malice or not with that PM tbh. He did upset me a lot when i was struggling but as i now think i understand where hes coming from a bit better i no longer bare any grudge against him.
 
this post is making me feel gulity now, i sent marmz a pm about OTW because i was having trouble trying to fathom him. I dont normally send PMs like that, im not sure if i intended to stir up malice or not with that PM tbh. He did upset me a lot when i was struggling but as i now think i understand where hes coming from a bit better i no longer bare any grudge against him.

TBH that is fine and not what Marmz is getting at :) - it's the other way around is what annoys Marm's. What Marm's is getting at is when people send PM's to try and negatively effect/influence a persons view on another particular poster.
 
Don't go soft on him, here I'll fluff you.

But seriously this is repeat behaviour, he deserves not an inch of compromise.
 
You're right hate is destructive.

But it doesn't need to replaced with unquestioning acceptance :D

Just looking at raas's last sentence, "OTW should be aware of the inappropriateness and show us some repentance, then he might get more respect"... yes I would be amazed!

But it's more than that, he needs to quit painting this picture that on EADD we're all encouraging each other to stick needles into our jugulars. Because I don't think we are :?
 
He deserves not an inch of recognition/responding to. (Yeah I know this post contradicts what I'm saying.)

Unless you guys like feeding trolls you should just stop. Last I will say about it/him. Ignore it and it might go away. Or at least PM the relevant people to get rid of the problem. I think he feeds off all this personally.

respond to me fuck-face and I will not even read/respond :)
 
But back to the OTW subject, why can't he just agree to stay out of EADD?
This.

But it's more than that, he needs to quit painting this picture that on EADD we're all encouraging each other to stick needles into our jugulars. Because I don't think we are :?
No, that's very much not the case.

Unless you guys like feeding trolls you should just stop.
That was my tactic. If we could *all* put him on ignore that would work, but we can't ignore Mods. :|
 
I think Marmz goes a bit OTT and abusive towards OTW which isn't going to help anyone.

LOL, you're a comedian, I'll give yer that Raasmataz.

He deserves all the abuse he gets. He COURTS abuse AND dishes it in spades. Abuse is the only language I'm sure he understands.
 
It was fucked from the start, J. It's just the worst form of dick-sizing yet conceived on EADD. So regarding that, you win the gold medal.
Have to say reading through it has made me realise why we never got on. Trouble is you haven't got a leg to stand on bar "I was a H addict at 16". Been through FAR worse and ended up getting good grades both at school and at Uni. As Sam said before you pulled out the jailhouse implication, there's no excuse for dumbing yourself down. Smash the cunts in the face if you have to, but Sartre is right when he says that other people are Hell and that your mind is your own prison. Fuck anybody who says otherwise. Credited you as wiser than that.
Btw if you want to bother with a stinging rebuttal do it for the sake of your "internet rep" and whoever happens to glance through it. To close the loop neatly, this thread was fucked from the start, J. I will not be visiting again.


BTW I was born, raised and lived in Granby Street, Liverpool 8, with many a long stop there between my birth (there) and my graduation from Uni that I won't bother delineating for the eyebrow-raisers. Another professor from the Humanities faculty at my Uni came from about 2 streets down from where I was raised. To reiterate, it doesn't matter where the fuck you were born. It's what you do with what you've been given that counts.

Can someone explain this post to me please preferably the man himself , but anyone that get's it will do .

THanx

Who is J ?
 
Yeah, I thought it was a bit much, and motivated more on previous beef between them. I understand the need to wade in and give your two pennies worth tho, so maybe he just needed to vent and that was a convenient way of doing it.
 
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