Q1:
My mom is totally anti-drug. She's a right-winger Church of Christ hypocritical asshole, really. She is always on a fair amount of adderall and xanax, and is frequently prescribed far more pain meds than she needs, which are taken with a quickness. It can't be recreational, and you can't be dependant on it if its prescribed to you, right? Thats her attitude pretty much. She can take 4mg of xanax every day, and prescription amphetamines (does not really have ADD/ADHD, I am sure) and opiates and its fine. I'm evil, corrupt, and morally bankrupt because I like to smoke pot though.
My father has done a lot of the non-psychedelic stuff. I'm not real sure what all he's done, as we are not in contact with each other and its probably best that it stay that way. I always used to associate this sort of musty dank dusty smell with the farm as a kid (whenever he'd take me out there w/ him). Only after I began smoking pot did it become clear what that smell really was. So he smoked quite a bit of weed. He was likely an alcoholic. I know he drank a lot, but tried to hide it. He developed a serious meth problem later on, and was busted with one of the largest redneck meth labs ever found in the area. In the south, everyone knows everyone, and if your family goes back a ways then you have connections everywhere. So all the cops, judges, lawyers, etc were "friends of the family" and the whole case was dismissed, the evidence was tampered with, etc, etc. Not sure if he did anything else. Coke wouldn't suprise me.
Q2:
My mother is the only parent I have contact with, and she is definately not ok with anything. She knows that I have drank, smoked pot, and taken various prescription painkillers... but I think thats it. If she knew about all the psychedelics and random other stuff she'd probably go out of her way to try and find some way to get me into legal trouble.
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I too have stolen all kinds of shit from my parent(s). I don't really feel bad about any of this, though. I hate them both, and they hate me. Their treatment of me, and asshole behavior is the largest cause of most of the problems in my life. I look at it as partial payment on a compensation that can never be fulfilled. I know thats a terrible way to look at things, and thats a real dickhead way to go about things... but the world is not a happy place.