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Drugs And Parents [MEGA-MERGED]

When I was a kid and lived with them, they did not like my drug usage and it was a constant battle. Then I moved out (at age 18) and started growing pot. Had my mom over for dinner, and she wandered into the bedroom and saw my garden. I don't think she was pleased, but she smoked a bowl with me anyway and we have smoked pot together ever since. A couple of years ago when she came out to visit me (I no longer live in the same state), she and I took some methylone together. So my mom is very open to these things, and it was a nice experience.

My father isn't the sort to use psychedelics, much less smoke pot. But he is aware of what I do. Actually, my dad really surprised me because he was on my side when I was dealing with opiate addiction, and was the most supportive member of my family when I was dealing with that.

He has read many of my trip reports, but doesn't really have much to say. When a very nice guy sent me some DOM, I was so excited I told my dad. :)

He told me to be careful, and I assured him that I would...probably wouldn't even try it..but if I did I would be careful.

Of course, I'm a 31 year old man so there isn't much my parents can do anyway.
 
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my dad was into drugs in the 70's i think not sure what though. he's smoked pot and used to be on all sorts of perscribed drugs.
my mum will take anything given to her in tablet form written by a doctor and is additcted to nasal spay's (wierd) she doesn't like illegal substances tho
both drink and smoke
 
Yeah Xork, if you're ever on a trip over the Atlantic to the old continen and I only find that out after you've been here and you did not visit me, I will feel saddened. Visit, one day. I have never been over the Atlantic, but when I do so, one day perhaps, then it will be nice to meet some (mostly psychedelic) BL folks.

And Zophen (B9) : yeah, hehe, good I'm not French or I might take what you said teh wrong way, haha! as it is, everyone takes the mickey outta the frogs - although I have indeed befriended one I met on BL. We are yet to meet though, he and I. Only BLer I have physically met lives on that foggy island north of the continent ;)
 
My parents know that I smoke weed, and have smoked it with them on more than one occasion, however that is all that I let them know about. If they were to know about the rest of my consumption habits, they'd either be a) extremely worried about me or b) they would disown me.

B is the more likely scenario in my eyes.
 
My mom is always fascinated when I mention the stuff I am playing around with. Being a chemist who now does hplc, gc and ms (though I dont have access to the equipment, theres a few things I would love to analyze:\) she actually is pretty familiar with indoles especially and wants to know how they are:)
 
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Yup, my father was a DJ when raves were first starting to pop up in the US (around 90/91). He has some wild stories.
 
My mom drinks every once in a while, and probably smoked pot in high school. My dad, nothing.
 
I harbor hopes that one day in the future I may be able to vaporize marijuana with my parents. My dad is starting to chill out a lot... so much less involved in work. He seems to be reverting to his younger days before life stressed him out. And he smoked then. =D
 
aside from a few close family members and friends, most people don't know i take drugs. my dad can't really say or do anything since he lives 6000 miles away but my mom (and the rest of my family) would go apeshit. i struggled with drug abuse for a while so she still dwells on the time that i wasn't a good person. i am a better person today (partly because of my drug use) and i use responsibly so that it doesn't adversely affect my life.

i doubt i will ever tell my mom about my drug use because no matter how well i do in life, that one "negative" aspect will be the only thing she thinks about. i am a daily cannabis user, and i use numerous other substances on occasion but i still maintain A's in school, hold a stable, well-paying job and take care of my child. none of this would factor in for her, all she would see is a "drug addict." she's highly irrational when it comes to me and the way i live my life and i can understand to an extent, but seriously, i use responsibly and stay away from the drugs that i cannot control my usage with so there really is no reason to put me and my lifestlye down. truthfully, i have no problem hiding my usage from her because it's for MY well-being and safety. i'd rather not deal with the drama and fallout associated with being honest. she would go to extreme measures to ensure my life was as shitty as possible and she would make it her top priority to ride my ass about it all day, every day. i'm not harming anyone and i should be left alone to live my life as i see fit, i don't need anyone's value judgments or fucked up morals burdening me.

+1 to what xorkoth said, i am grateful to have bluelight in my life :)
 
My parents know basically each and every thing substance or compound I've ever ingested. Back in highschool they were really worried/suspicious of my drug use so they put a monitoring program on my computer (unbeknownst to me) and basically found out EVERYTHING... real fucked up. They sat me down, and were like, so why don't you tell us what you've been doing. I'm like... What do you mean? ROFL, really really bad situation that was.

Anyway my parents are ultra conservative and close minded towards psychedelics, my mom had a boyfriend in the 70's who took acid once and "was never the same again" in a bad way. So they think it's playing with fire. I don't think they will EVER be okay with me taking psychedelics, but eventually, I hope they might at least come to a point where they can accept it.
 
My parents are both very old and there would be absolutely nothing for anyone to gain from me telling them about my drug use. They would worry all the time, and they would possibly do something rash that would result in my being arrested or fired.

They're not dumb by any stretch of the imagination, but they are astonishingly ignorant about drugs and they grew up in a place and time where there was literally no such thing as benevolent drug use. Hiding my drug use from them is something I've never felt guilty about; they wouldn't understand, it's as simple as that.
 
My parents know I smoke cannabis and drink. They are perfectly fine with both of those, they just insist that my schoolwork comes before all else. However, they're totally against drugs like cocaine, heroin, and the like.
 
Its interesting as you point ut ximot the my mum thing- may I assume a lot whove mentioned that are males/men/boys/doodleheads? I was the youngest and "troubled" child of my family, and my mum pretty much stuck with me through the lot; she has picked amanita muscaria for me in the past; this surprised me somehwat :). Every year she warns me to be careful of "wild mushrooms" though she is aware I have a bit of knwoeldge in the area. As children of the sixties (they were both born in 1950) they are pretty accustomed to drugs, and my dad has been particualryl interested in mescaline and LSD due to huxleys and keseys writings, so I have roughly tried to explain what the experience is like- yet he is a bit too distant to grasp it.

My folks especially hate weed, probably because I've smoked it for so long, and various family members have also devoted their lives to it.... I love my parents and the reason I showed them my posts on Bluelight (yea, even some of the more random DMT posts! :)) was so they can be assured that I am safe. I've actually wondered from time to time if one of you guys is my mum indeed :)
 
my dad drives a church bus for the old folks and is like the mega-christian(which is cool), and actually doesnt care at all. other than caring in a fatherly, for my health, kinda way. i had to call him at about 1 in the morning once, mid DOB trip. crying and stuff. confessing everything id done, related or not to drug use. and he doesnt mind at all.

my mom on the other hand, along with her boyfriend. have been through alcohol/ opiate/ amphetamine/ benzo abuse periods. so she doesnt care at all. i told her about X and some of my lsd/dob/2CI trips, and she just said- oh, man, that sounds pretty cool. which is kinda strange in its own way.
 
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