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Drugs And Parents [MEGA-MERGED]

your like 16 guy... Its not gonna happen. I mean i know people whos parents let them smoke and they were just real lucky. Also most of the time (but not all) there parents had some kind of issues...

If you were in college, I probaly would take your side. But your still in HS and your their responsibility. Do what every other high school kid does and go out to do that. but DONT GET CAUGHT.
 
Uh, i didnt even need to read more than a few paragraphs of your topic.

Your parents dont "let" you do anything. You control your actions. it aint hard. they cant control what you do. so, dont get high at home if you cant hide it and dont come home high.

This aint rocket science bro. how the hell old are you? if youre over 18 why are you even talking about your parents "letting" you do anything? :p
 
Sounds to me like you think way to highly of yourself, man. I'm not trying to be overly critical or anything, but don't you find it a bit pretentious to accuse your parents, who have much more experience than you do, of not thinking rationally about something that obviously means a lot to them, and that you somehow are able to do this while they cannot?

In my personal opinion, parental prohibition is a great way to keep someone from going overboard. The only obstacle keeping most people from crossing over from "moderation" to "extreme overindulgence" is the fact that if they overindulge there will be hell to pay, either with the law or with their parents. A parent who allows their offspring to "safely indulge in psychoactives in my room at home" removes both these societal checks, and opens the floodgates for major shit to go wrong.

Just keep in mind that no matter how you feel, your parents have reign until you move out, and that's that. They feed, clothe, and shelter you, that should be good enough.

As a side note, every kid I've known who has had parents who allow them to use turn out to be either burned-out or in jail...just an observation.
 
I know exactly what you're talking about, and I even told my mom the whole "Im educated, I'm responsible blah blah blah" speech.
But everyone here is right, they aren't going to let you. So what I say you do is to just suck it up for a few years, or wait until a nice chance to sleep over at a friends house comes up and do shrooms. They dont test for psilocin =)
 
truthfully... my parents let me do drugs because they really dident care... it was always"well atleast hes not doing Coke" then "well atleast hes not doing acid' then "well atleast he doesnt shoot heroin" now its... "whatever hes doing good in his life so i dont see a reason to stop him" i wish they had personally... but... whatever
 
ha, it seems kids whose parents DON'T care wish they did, and kids whose parents care too much beg to for the love god, STOP CARING! this crazy world

I'd just quit it. There's no fucking way in Hell you can't hide acid from them. And probably pot too.

Also, to the dude who says to call suicide watch when he's layin on the couch: I don't give a fuck, so I won't do shit, cuz I got too many similar problems :) that's the way it works...love it or leave it
 
Fuck, everyone has been/is depressed.
You just have to deal with it.

I'm so glad my mom cares as much as she does, but there's such a thing as caring TOO much. But I can't blame her considering the condition I'm in right now.
 
My parents found out I was doing drugs when one day I threatened to kill myself because they wouldn't let me go to San Diego. They called the cops (I was just being a dramatic asshole at the time, little did I know that if you threaten to kill yourself you have a mandatory 72 hour stay in a mental hospital) and while I was there I told the psychiatrist how many different drugs I had done, he was shocked. He convinced me to talk to my parents about it so I listed off the various things I've done, combinations of drugs, times I'd gone places with friends and had all day drug binges.

Anyway, the point of all this is.. after all that I stopped doing drugs except for weed, and they just kind of shut the fuck up cause I stopped coming home and terrorizing them at 5 in the morning.

They only told me that if they ever saw any pot or pipes or anything they'd kick me out. Except they always found random stuff, ash in my room, "What is that skunk smell?", even a pipe on occasion. They'd just throw them away if they found them.

Also, I tried the whole approaching them about it, talking to them about how responsible I am and that it's not as harmful as other things, blah blah. They said they don't really care because they're responsible for me and it's a risk to my safety. Most parents are never gonna let you doing something illegal.

So, basically it amounted to them not wanting to condone my use (like everyone is saying, not gonna happen) but being more accepting that I was just going to do it. That is about as lucky as your going to get, and it's not hard to obtain.
 
For me, having my parents accept or just plain not care about my drug use simply will not happen. It's already in their heads that drugs would ruin my life so what are the odds of them changing their perceptions? I just manage by doing it without their knowledge and I would think that's how most people do it too.

I did, however, have a friend who's mom was so fucking cool. In fact, she was my weed dealer for a long time and smoked with my friend and me. So, perhaps there are parents out there who can accept their children's drug use... however mine don't.
 
Druidus said:
Can't even just smoke outside or in my car. He said he'd kick me out for that too. He wants me to stop doing any drugs, any time, anywhere.
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That's not some malicious hate or anything though. What is his drug experience? My parents were always pretty conservative, my father is a retired police officer and my mother a nurse, so all they saw of drugs was the overdosing, drugged out hard-core junkies. Now if your parents BELIEVE drugs are hurting you, regardless of whether they are or not, there's no way they'll accept you taking them when they can attempt to quash it. From their perspective they're protecting you, that's their job, they love you and don't want you to get hurt. They are, inherently risky activities. There is no such thing as 100% "safe" black market drug use, the potential for harm...be it one in a million is too much to most parents...especially if their perceptions imply to them that the chance of harm is far higher. Do your own thing, but just do the best you can to keep it out of their face. Make SURE you have a supply of visine, cologne or axe body spray, don't go taking 4 hits of high powered blotter 4 hours before you have to be home ;) in the end there's little they can do to stop you from using drugs, but they CAN, through the power of being the owners of the place you sleep curtail it to a degree.
 
LiveIllegal said:
Uhm, duh?
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Well the sentence you wrote didn't really make any sense or have anything to do with any of your other sentences. I guess it's easy to come up with that response after I clarified it.
 
i was in the same position as you. parents didn't want me doing drugs - well only my dad was okay with smoking weed. at first id get in trouble for coming home high. i did that so many times my mom just started to be like "haha do you think ur going to get in trouble every time u come home high?" so im like okay, thats chillin. the next day my dads like "me and ur mom had a talk, we've decided to let you smoke in the garage at night." im like, booooooooomb! i think this happened because i kept my grades up, and am still on the right track (well, mostly). I started smoking in gr 9, it took about a year or a little bit more until they let me smoke in the garage, then a year later (now), my mom is a little less strict about my ecstasy use once i explained alotta stuff to her and she found I had a testing kit (which she threw out!). then she was like "shit, so i guess u needed that kit eh? i shouldnt have thrown it out" lol...

But yea, I guess my main point of this post is that what you want COULD happen, but sometimes it just takes time. Like in a span of two years I went from, getting yelled at and lectured for coming home with my eyes pink, to rolling up infront of my mom, going to blaze in the garage, and coming back to have a convo with her while my eyes are completely bloodshot.
 
my mum was the only one of my olds i actually lived with as a druggie, but it was my dad who figured it out cos oneday he came over wen mum was out and he snuck into my room while i was in the shower and read my diary
we didnt speak for years after that - i hadnt just written about my drug use, i had completely dissed the man in as many colourful, creative ways i could, and basically all the less-than-moral high school adventures i was having
next thing you know, mum knows and is fretting - i sat her down and told her that theres no reason to worry, id done plenty of drugs but id done them safely and id never do any drugs again and id stop drinking so often if shed let me have my horse back (wen i started fifth form my parents made me sell my beloved old horse so i could 'concentrate on school')
manipulative teenager i was, but i have never got on well in life without a horse - ive always had one or more, and theyve bn like my closest friends and focus in life
well anyway mum would have probly bought that one but dad was never such a pushover so i just went on doing drugs but hiding it (and refusing to see dad so he cut me off his will)
in the end mum let me smoke weed at home after i told her how getting a conviction for 'harmless pot' would stop me being able to travel
this later extended to 'just smoking a bit of meth here so i dont have to use class A drugs in public' and eventually got to 'shooting up here, cos im doing drugs anyway, and its less harmful than smoking drugs'
dad would go nuts about that if he knew, although he seems to have got over the weed thing now
 
80% of the time I dont read whats on threads , I just look at the title and say ... WTF.

Who are you guys ?? Fucking 14 year olds ? I mean what the Hell ... Smoke pot if you want , snort coke if you want , just dont take it personal buy asking " ohhh Sorry mom if I smoked pot , i'm really sorry , but can I still do it ? pleeeeeeeaaaaaaase? :):):):):):) "

Jesus Christ.
 
Nothing , just ignore me ... I was about to type a very long message but it'd be probably deleted by an admin.
 
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