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Drugs And Parents [MEGA-MERGED]

whaaat? What happened man?

I've smoked weed with other people's parents, and it was pretty crazy, expecially the part where we pulled it out and lit it up...very intense.

I've always been scared to ask my parents.
 
Well about 4 months ago i came home absoulutly tanked from this frat party. I was putting away my shit in my stash, and my dad walked in, i think i was too fucked to even care. The next day i looked in my stash, and saw that my dad replaced my lighter with an empty one. Knowing my dad i thought this was just a move on his part to proove hes not stupid, i mean he didnt take it or say anything to me about it, so i doubted he cared. Ive also caught him smoking, and ive found roachs of his a few times, so i thought he would be kinda cool with it. Last night it was my moms 40th aniversary, and my dads old karate trainer D was there. After a little bit my dad was tanked, so he comes up to me and says, wheres you dope? Wow.. that caught me off gaurd, at first i kind of stuttered and didnt know what to say. My dad then told me to go roll up a j and come out to the garage. My friend K who was at this party with me came, it was me, K, my dad, D, and my 14 year old brother in the garage, im 16 by the way. We lit up the joint, and everyone smoked it but my brother. Now here is where the deep shit started. My dad started telling me how he used to be addicted to heroin, and coke, and some other really deep crazy shit. Now i mean im not stupid, i could have assumed all this shit was true before, actually no.. i knew it was true before, but hearing it straight from my dad made the reality really sink it. He then talked about his relationship with my mom, and his outlook on life in general, he told me a couple years ago he just didnt give a fuck about life anymore, but now he says hes on the right track, so that was good to hear i guess. After this talk me and K took a walk, and we had a pretty good talk about what just happened, and life in general. I definetely took alot out of this little event, but its still wierd.
 
wow man, that is amazing. Hopefully you and your dad will be really close now. as DM said...most people never get the chance to be on that level with their dad.

Be proud.

Good luck man. It's amazing what weed can do for people.
 
Some smokers will still think smoking weed with your parents is too weird for them. I will share my weed experiences with my parents but not my weed. I do not need that as part of our relationship. Not as a teen. Not as an adult.

I think it is cool that is has opened different lines of communication for you and your father. Parents are just people doing the best they can under the circumstance. Probable confused relief on both sides that now you can share instead of hide.
 
I've smoked with my younger brother but we were both in our early 20s at time. My parents are not drugs users, nor were they ever. My Dad does enjoy a snifter of port at Christmas ;) & my Mother has the occasional glass of wine. I always get very introspective while stoned which then causes me to become self-conscious so I would not have a good time.
 
man I wish I could talk members of my family into smoking with me.

Me and my brother smoke together all the time, but we're a year apart so it's no big deal. We always end up talking about shit we normally wouldn't concerning ourselves and family life, and all this other jazz. I enjoy it and think it's a good thing.

I'm halfway trying to convince my grandma to try it mainly because of her neuropathy in her feet. None of the meds she takes work very well, and they cost her a shitload of money and have a ton of side affects she bitches about. I've read a fair bit and many people seem to say weed helps, so i'm tryin to convince her to TRY it, but JUST because it's illegal pretty much and a doctor doesn't shove it down her throat and say it's okay she wont' do it. I also think it would chill her the fuck out and ease her anxiety and a lot of other shit.

I think it would do my mom some good as well, but she's too legalistic.

My dad is a moderate drinker and I think would try that and definatly X if he didn't get piss tested at work.

that rules you got a chance to smoke with your dad though, especially since he opened up and you guys talked about shit you normally wouldn't. You should definatly start having regular smoke sessions with your dad and just chat about anything. I'd love it if it was my mom or dad.
 
^^same here. ive done drugs w/ my brother, but even if my parents would smoke (which they wouldnt), i still wouldnt smoke w/ them. way too weird for me. plus, they dont know i smoke.

edit: i have smoked w/ a friends dad, as well as another friends mom. also, one of my friends dads used to smoke, and just started again, so im sure ill smoke w/ him sometime.
 
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paradoxcycle said:
I've smoked with my younger brother but we were both in our early 20s at time. My parents are not drugs users, nor were they ever. My Dad does enjoy a snifter of port at Christmas ;) & my Mother has the occasional glass of wine. I always get very introspective while stoned which then causes me to become self-conscious so I would not have a good time.
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incest is a bitch, aint it? ;)
 
i wish i was closer to my dad. we dont do much together. i think smoking (or, E, especially) would benefit our relationship. id probly find it easier and imperative to socialise with him

hes quite anti drug though

he siad he MAY! smoke with me after he retires. hes in the army and has another govt job, he cant risk anything currently
 
Thats cool that you can do those things with your parents...
My dad is anti drug honestly never smoked anything in his entire life- didn't taste alcohol until his 20's
On the other hand I think in a few years I could definately convince my mom to smoke with me. Although I do admit it would be really awkward.
 
I smoke with my dad, and his sometimes w/ his friends. It's a nice friendly set-up because we all take care of each other if the other person doesn't have herb. My dad is always impressed by the pot I bring home so I'm happy to share!
 
Thats good, that you and your dad got a closer relationship!
But i think at the age of 16 is a little bit to young, when and IF
i get kids i should not want to smoke pot with my sixteen year son.. but hey thats me!

I actually do alot of of dope with a couple of my friends parents, i shoot speed and opiates with my friends mother when he smokes cannabis with his father.
It gets them closer to eachother like "father-son" .

My parent the are non drog users and hate my drug use,
my dad is a alcoholic and my mom and her new dude drinks some wine occasionly, thats it. :)
 
I smoked with my dad. My dad was a hardcore drug addict. I was 16 when I smoked with him the first time. He had known that I smoked and I was open about it with him and one night he was like "smoke a j with me" so I said cool. It really made us alot closer. I recremend not over doing it though.
I also ate x and snorted coke with my dad. He was the only person I could really talk about stuff to because I lived with my grandparents and they are as drug ignorant as you could be. The last few years before he died were not the fun bonding times like it was at first because of his oxy abuse that eventually killed him. He knew I had stuff so he would beg for it which really became sick. Theres no feeling like arguing with your dad telling him that you dont have enough coke to give him a half a gram for a shot. But anyways so for making it depressing have fun with your dad and stick to pot.
 
I once rode with my friend to drop off some cocaine to a friend's house. We got inside and his dad was just standing there, it turns out that the cocaine was for his dad, not him. Pretty akward situtation.
 
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