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Drugs And Parents [MEGA-MERGED]

Haha awesome that worked out for you man. FUTURAmike, your right about what you said. My parents are totally open with their addictions, or uses, and same goes for me tword them. Every drug I've ever done I've at one point done with my dad. We even smoked H together for the first (and only) time, which was extreme, but a fluke that happened under certain circumstances. But my mom got SO mad when my dad was going to get me my first pill. Neither of them do E, but he knew they were clean and I was just taking it at a concert.. but my mom got pissed so I didn't take it. It's good to establish open relationships with your parents, and if you can tell them about your drug use you can tell them just about anything.
 
If i were you I'd find an opportunity to roll with my dad.. That would be such an amazing experience.. I wish i could convince my father that despite these drugs are "illegal", they still have so much to offer.
 
I know, I want to, it would probably be a great experience. Truthfully, the people I want to do it together are my parents, who just recently got separated. Would give them a great time to talk.
 
You lucky bastard! :P
I wish i could chill with my parents and blaze them up, I'll just have to do with them being ok with me smoking weed.
 
does your dad being so open about that sort of stuff wierd you out a little?
 
Play him. If he says no, be like "oh well I can always go to the ghetto and get some off that funny smelling guy with one eye. don't really know what i'll be getting, but I'll take a shot in the dark".
 
Well, initially I was very weirded out by the fact that my dad didn't do the typical `OH MY GOD YOU DO DRUGS YOU ARE GROUNDED DEAD OH MY GOD WAIT TILL YOUR MOTHER HEARS THIS BLAH BLAH BLAH' thing, but after the initial shock that hey, my parents are cool about this, and if it doesn't interfere with anything, its perfectly fine to do whatever I want, its a natural thing.
 
Interesting thread this one to me. I am at the other end of the spectrum, if you will at 46. I grew up throughout the 60's and turned of age in the 70's.


I guess I was a hippie too:) . Have done and still do experiment/use various drugs but not like back in the day. Mostly smoking cannabis now. Recently been using opiates which I got "into" through an injury but have stopped now as they were leading me down a path I didn't want to go (at least for now....although I haven't had much desire to do any lately).

Had my daughter at 40 so she is still young. I have wondered what will be her take if/when she discovers the old man smokes weed. I try to keep it away from her but those "strange, unexplained trips outside for 5 minutes" are making her curious already. I am taking it both recreationally and medically as I too contracted hep c back in the day.
 
my mom used to smoke weed..shes tried acid and coke as far as i no- but only once---im not sure about my dad- he prob smoked ( he still has a grateful dead tshirt) but id unno wat else--neither do any drugs now...i kinda wish they still smoked cuz theyd be more chill..... but i def think it has a relationship- cuz most of my friends who use drugs--their parents have also
 
Q1: No they don't even smoke cigarettes. Of course I wish they did, I just would'nt use with them I think that would be wierd.

Q2: No they won't tolerate it and they'll kick me out if they find out I still use occasionally.
 
Q1:Yes, both my parents used drugs. My dad more so than my mom. My dad was born in the 50's so during the 60's and 70's he used pretty much everything under the sun. My mom was born in the 60's so she only got to experience the 70's and as far as I know she's only experimented with weed, quaaludes, speed, percocet/vicodin and cocaine. Both my parents still drink regularly but that's it. They're both fairly open with me about their past. Infact, my mom recently admitted to winter 2003 being the last time she smoked weed.

Q2:My parents both know that I've smoked and drank because I've been caught doing both but other than weed and alcohol they don't know anything. She'd never admit to it but I've got a feeling my mom knows I'm still smoking and just tries to ignore it. She was supposed to give me random drug tests when I got out of rehab but it's been more than a year since then and I've only gotten one. You can probably see why I feel that she knows but doesn't want to admit it. My parents are divorced so as far as my dad knows, the last time I touched any sort of drug was more than a year ago. It really sucks having to lie to your parents on a daily basis and always be sneaking around. I really envy people who can be open with their parents about their drug use.
 
1. My parents haven't done drugs, bar alcohol, which they're adamant is better than doing drugs. But ya know.....however my grandparents and some of my uncles on my mum's side have smoked weed.

2. They don't mind my drug use at all, and we talk about it pretty openly. They don't totally approve of it, but the general consensus is I can drink in the house, smoke weed in the garden, and do shrooms, but anything else stays out of the house. Though they're ok with me coming home under the influence of stuff. Just not having it on me, or keeping it hidden away if I do.

Which is fair enough and I stick by those rules.

They went mental when they found out I smoked weed, but we talked about it all, and they understand that I'm gonna be as safe as I can and not fuck around, and me taking pills or smoking weed and coming home loved up or stoned is better than me staggering home and throwing up all night after drinking too much <3
 
Q1: Do/Did your parents use drugs?
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My mom said she only smoked pot a few times (I don't really believe her) and that she drank occasionally too. My dad on the other hand was like straight edge w. all that. I don't even think he had his first real drink till college.
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Q2: Do your parents condone or turn the blind-eye to your drug use? Are you open with them about it?
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They both know that I drink and smoke. My dad is much less informed on what goes on then my mom. They both know that I'm the reason the bar which they never use is almost empty and why my clothes smell like smoke. My mom usually realizes that the incents are only burning because I've been smoking in my room. She usually knows when I come home high or drunk. With my mom it all depends on what mood she is in when she catches me... usually she doesn't really care and sometimes she will even joke around about it w. me. Even though my mom is alright about drinking and weed she is totally against everything else which is why I would be in major shitt if she knew about the coke,shrooms, pills, etc. If my dad knew how much I really drink or smoked he would kill me hah
 
Question 1:

Yes they did. my Mum smoked pot up until 10 years ago and and i think thats the extent of it. My Dad however smoked pot, dropped acid, speed and he tried smack once or twice (never addicted - he threw up)

Question 2:

No. i was never allowed to even smoke until i turned 18. any and all drug use had to be hid very well - my crew and I had it done to a fine art of hiding it not only from mine, but theirs also - but it made it especially hard to hide from my parents as they werent dumb by any stretch of the imagination.

Do i wish they hadnt of dont drugs? thats really their own choice - and their choices havent affected my upbringing.

To this day, i still have no idea whether they know of my extra-curricular activities or not.
 
My dad smoked alot of weed and did speed for a little back in the day. I'm sure my mom smoked and may have done coke, not sure.

My parents wish I smoked less. They condone smoking on the weekends and such, but don't like when I smoke every day...
 
My dad smoked a good amount of weed, eventually stopped when he started getting panic attacks. Don't know if he did anything else, as he likes to obliquely put it, he was live-in advisor to a frat where his rule was nothing but pot or beer in the open on the first floor. Don't think he did too much despite that. My mom smoked pot at some college parties, it mostly put her to sleep. Don't think she ever got properly high. Both now drink in extreme moderation, they might have a couple of drinks a month.

My parents actively encouraged me to smoke pot and in college, which is at least in part since my default personality is extremely driven and type-A, such that the drugs aren't going to make much of a difference. Pot has actually helped calm me down a lot, it's been really helpful. Both of them are pretty opposed to acid use, I guess they saw a couple of heavy users burn out very quickly in the sixties, and I'm not going to get into a discussion with them about epidemiological studies of LSD and insanity. They don't really know much about shrooms, and I see no reason to bring it up.

My family is a bit mentally unstable as it is - no one has a diagnosed psych disorder but we're all kind of eccentric, so their concern is somewhat justified. As for hard drugs, my parents accurately perceive that I'm just not interested. Oh yeah, and they nag like crazy me if they hear I smoked a cigarette.
 
Q1: Do/Did your parents use drugs?

Seperated parents.Fathers been smoking weed daily for ever.He always had the atitude of " stick to your greens son , nothing else ".
My mother has done her rounds with the more common street drugs .. trips , speed w/e.I remember one day when i was like 10 - 14 my mother was fucked up on something which i have no idea was .She was pretty persistent on waking me up to go to school at 5:00 in the afternoon.Then the following morning she just about ran me over in a violent outburst... different story haha.


Q2: Do your parents condone or turn the blind-eye to your drug use? Are you open with them about it?
Father wouldn't be , not too sure.Ill probaly let him know sometime whenever , considering the fact that i believe everything should be normal , even the ugly people :).
Me and my mother regurally have tea partys discussing my weekends drug use.
 
Hmmmm, I'll answer by saying my parents met in a drug deal. My mom used to smoke weed and do coke, but she stopped. She only drinks now, and is most definitely not okay with me doing anything. My dad used to sell like mad, and he showed me pictures of when he was tripping balls on his graduation day. Parents are divorced, and a couple weeks ago I went to see him for new years, and he busted out some weed and smoked it with me, then went to his neighbors and smoked with them, and got all round drunk as hell. He doesn't do alot of anything though, because he has some weird problem with headaches since he was heavy into acid. He'll just get really bad headaches at random, and certain things can make them worse, such as drinking and stuff. I live with my mom right now, which sucks because she's a mindless anti-drug zealot now for some reason. I'd love to slip a bit of lsd in her coffee some morning, that'll teach her, hehehe.
 
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