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Drugs And Parents [MEGA-MERGED]

What age are you?

Whenever parents make up their minds they usually stick to it, especially if it is to do with matters such as drugs.
 
They ask you why you are using? WTF your dad is smoking crack, thats a good enough reason. I blame your rents for making poor choices. Sorry bro, how old are you?
 
just print out all proof about drug use and show them and make them read it in front of you or you wont listen or talk to them ever again.

be stern
 
throwitallaway said:
Whenever parents make up their minds they usually stick to it, especially if it is to do with matters such as drugs.
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Go live on the streets for a week... my parents were begging for me to come back and I can now use whatever/whenever I want pretty much without worrying about their bullshit.
 
Seriously, Quit your fuckin bitching. Try getting kicked out of your home with nowere to live because of Drugs, and then maybe people will listen.
 
yeah, just do a better job of hiding it in the future, or stop altogether until you move out. least you still got a place to live, food, and clothes.
 
remember thats the only family you will ever have, and in life having people you trust and can fall back upon is invalueable.

That said, they do sound ignorant as fuck.
 
guineaPig said:
yeah, just do a better job of hiding it in the future, or stop altogether until you move out. least you still got a place to live, food, and clothes.
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Thats excatly what you should do, try to hide it better. No matter what you tell them, they will not understand.
 
first of all, as someone said, how old are you?

my personal opinion is that drug use at a young age (18 and below - a rough generalisation) is not a good idea. there are lots of reasons for this - your poor growing brain, maturity, etc. we grow up craving responsibility...

your parents care for you more than anything else in the world, and thats why they're 'overreacting'.

the truth is, the path they describe to you DOES happen to some people, and you can't predict that it won't happen to you.

when i began drug use, i did a great amount of research, like you've done, and i became vastly over-confident in my drug use (under the pretense that i knew the risks and wouldn't fall into addiction, or OD, or whatever). looking back, i could very well have fallen onto the wrong path. i'm just lucky i didn't.

perhaps you could explain to your parents that while you both don't share the same perspective, you want to be independant, and as such, if you wanted to continue your drug use, you will. however, i think your parents have the right to know when and where you are going to use drugs.

that said, most parent/child relationships are unfortunately not built on complete honesty (mine isnt).
 
^ I agree.

I did not get into drugs until a little while after I turned 18. I am happy about that. I'm not sure what effect it would have had on my schoolwork, and I was at a very academically rigorous high school. Do not forget that age is a serious transitional stage for most people... its complicated enough already.
 
parents.. naturally they'd respond that way, to sound all responsible and shit.. tell them that you're old enough to make your own decisions in life. if theyre not willing to accept that, they aren't being good parents.
 
Thinkin about it, the fact that you left trip reports anywhere your parents could find them kinda proves you aren't the most forward-looking, mature guy. You gotta be on the lookout for spying parents. No one likes secrets, and parents always feel justified in going through kids' shit in order to learn those secrets.
 
i stright-up told my parents. so they wouldn't file a police report end in jail time for me and steve-o. if they knew about everything though. dear god. man that'd be the end of me. we just told them that we had been doin crack "regularly". i learnt to hide things better. i learnt to put locks on doors. i keep my personal notebooks locked up. my mom is ecspecially bad about wanting to know everything. and telling them your knowledge of drugs and what a safe user you are. doesn't help matter any. trust me on that, bro,. they will never ever listen to you. well they might. mine parents won't. they reason with a fence post.
 
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^^it's interesting how you can deduce this person's personality based on one mistake.

many parents feel obliged to take the polar view in any debatable case..such as drug use. as a parent, could you truly let your son/daughter use drugs with your knowledge..whether they are responsible or not? their opinion won't ever change...so you have to do what you must...accomodate, retaliate, abstain, etc. yes, you are living your life; but you have lived your life under the guidance of your parents. a parent's adamant stance on any issue should be counted as a blessing (bar the fact that they send you to a psychologist and piss test the fuck out of you).

my mom would shit her pants if she knew what i did. i am prepared for the day that i will have to use my knowledge and come up with the biggest rebuddle of my life..if she ever catches me. gots 2 more years of this constant stealth maneuver shit before i'm liberated. good luck, mate.
 
no no..you must've posted before i was done writing my reply. it was the guy before you..who ironically has a similar name.
 
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