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silverman

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The other night I woke up to my dog snarling. As it turns out he had bit my girlfriend on her nose. I drove her to the hospital and she had to get some stitches. She is making a huge deal out of this and saying that my dog can't come over unless it has a muzzle or in a cage and she won't come over to my place unless the same requirements are met. She is saying the dog is a menace.

The dog is a 30 pound corgi. This incident has left me mystified as it is completely out of character for the dog. I can't help but feel that I'm not getting the whole story as to how the bite occurred.
She is acting like the dog will attack her on sight and begging me to buy into this fantasy.
I agreed to pay the medical bills and she will likely end up with a small scar on her nose. However, she is making it out to be like she will be permanently disfigured and is being incredibly theatrical about the whole situation. I have exams coming up and I can't be away from her for five minutes without telling me what a jerk i am for not doing more.

i am so sick of her needy bullshit. Maybe, I'm being insensitive but i really am just getting fed up with the whole thing. I adore this dog and find his companionship to be much more desirable then hers.

Am i being a total ass if i leave her?
 
i can see where your coming from. personally if it was my dog i would carry on as normal as i know him and his traits. a muzzle isnt all bad or cruel for your dog though, but i think a cage is. it sounds like your woman is being a typical woman tbh
 
The fact you own a corgi is reason enough to ditch the girlfriend and find yourself a male lover.

I'm on the girlfriends side by the way, humans are the master and dogs should know their place.
 
i am getting to the point where I despise her. She used to be someone who I enjoyed being around. Now all she does is bitch and whine and cry and moan. I get so pissed and angry. she is so emotionally dependent and I find that I hate her for all of her weakness. every little bump and the road and she breaks in to hysterics. I am so angry right now I can't even type. she has no respect for the fact that I am trying to complete grad school and acts like her manufactured plight should be my greatest concern. I hate answering her phone calls because I am positive she will be tears about something. She defends her fragility by saying there is nothing wrong with being emotional.

........We just were in a fight. She just makes me so angry. I am usually pretty calm but she knows how to get under my skin. This is on the ropes. i need to get out of this relationship.

i just had to get all of this out of me. (deep breath)
 
Corgiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii. OMG, how can she hate a Corgi?

Corgis can be little divas. OP, there is no way I'd ditch my dog for some dude. Is she sure it was a mean bite and not a play bite. My dog will play bite me and then there are those times when I'm trying to give her medicine and she's a little bitch. lol

Corgis will bite, but I dunno...my sis and my corgi only bite if they are being provoked or antagonized.
 
my ex used to pick fights about anything and everrything, most of the time after she had a drink. she was just being a cunt for the sake of it and always had some kind of complaint. never got on with my family, my neighbours, not enough money for her to buy rubbish, etc
 
She just won't let it be. We were arguing at her house and my blood started to rise. So i said, "I can't be around you right now" and left . I'm not at my house for 30 minutes when she shows up wanting to argue some more. I am not violent but she gets me so mad and pushes my buttons and won't let me be that i just want to do something I know i would regret. God I'm angry right now
 
If I had a dog and it bit someone, I would get rid of the dog. Hands down. The dog should know better. You should have trained the dog so that the dog knows not to bite people.
If that was the situation by itself - I would say get rid of the dog!!! Having pets that bite is NOT good. The dog should be taken to some dog training thing. I forget what they are called.

But reading the rest of your post, it sounds like you're looking for a reason to break up with your girlfriend. It doesn't seem like a good relationship. She complains too much. You don't like that. That should be why you break up with her. Don't break up with her because the dog bit her. Break up with her because you don't love her anymore, she's annoying, she complains too much, she's too needy/clingy, etc.
 
adam west said:
it sounds like your woman is being a typical woman tbh
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What is up with all the sexist stuff on this forum today?!

My opinion is, you said yourself you hate being around her and stuff, and if this has been going on for a while (ie since before the corgi incident) then I don't think there's much point in hanging in with her longer...
 
was the dog provoked though? im not trying to be a dick or anything but my dog has only bit someone once (a kid) and thats because he was climbing all over him and pinching him. i should of kept more of an eye on the situation but luckily it wasnt anything serious. i dont have any experience with corgis (womans dog man), but you should know your dog whatever happens.
 
Pagey said:
What is up with all the sexist stuff on this forum today?!

My opinion is, you said yourself you hate being around her and stuff, and if this has been going on for a while (ie since before the corgi incident) then I don't think there's much point in hanging in with her longer...
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that was tongue in cheek/sarcasm, no sexism intended
 
I never knew that masculinity was defined by they type of dog you own.



The dog is good natured but playful. the dog loves people and strangers.
 
If it was me then I would keep the dog. Girlfriends come and go through life but your dog will be your best friend forever.
Your dog won't moan or bitch at you, your dog will always be happy to see you.
Whenever you leave the house who is at the door wagging his tail & so pleased & excited to see you.
No doubt about it mate, pick the dog over anyone every single time.
There is a reason they are known as mans best friend.
 
silverman said:
I never knew that masculinity was defined by they type of dog you own.



The dog is good natured but playful. the dog loves people and strangers.
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it shoudnt be. but taking a poodle for a walk, or a rottweiler can make a big impression. not hating on corgis, its only cos the slagbag liz has them that i feel some animoisty. aimed at her not the dogs
 
my attitude is this- some dogs bite people as they are moody and unpredictable, others do it when they feel threatened and dont trust a person, others do it to play.

either way you dont actually like this woman so dump her ass and problem solved.
 
llama112 said:
If I had a dog and it bit someone, I would get rid of the dog. Hands down. The dog should know better. You should have trained the dog so that the dog knows not to bite people.
If that was the situation by itself - I would say get rid of the dog!!! Having pets that bite is NOT good. The dog should be taken to some dog training thing. I forget what they are called.

But reading the rest of your post, it sounds like you're looking for a reason to break up with your girlfriend. It doesn't seem like a good relationship. She complains too much. You don't like that. That should be why you break up with her. Don't break up with her because the dog bit her. Break up with her because you don't love her anymore, she's annoying, she complains too much, she's too needy/clingy, etc.
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this. being bitten by a dog and having a scar on your nose is not an "imaginary" plight. that's serious shit. you should be asking yourself why your dog did that. i would not necessarily get rid of the dog, but i would treat it as a problem that needs to be addressed if you see any more sign of aggression.

if you just don't like her as she is, don't blame the incident and call her crazy for reacting to it in an emotional manner. she probably even senses you already are hostile towards her and is pushing this issue to make you act like you care.
 
If a dog bites somebody it needs to be put down no fucking about. Had to go through with this already with a dog of my own, it's the only option. Blame your girlfriend all you want, break up with her if you want, but when the dog "is out of character" again and bites a small child then it'll be put down forcibly.
 
silverman said:
Am i being a total ass if i leave her?
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First of all - no, you are not. Because it seems you kinda doesn't wanna be with her anyway.

Secondly - her panic and fear ARE probably very real to her and it isn't rational. I have two of my closest family members been bitten and after that it's really hard to "snap out of it". So for me it seems simple situation: if you really cared for her and wanted to make her happy, then you wouldn't be so pissed off about this situation and would find a way to accommodate both of them in your life. And since you are, then dump her. You probably are doing you both a favor.
 
pofacedhoe said:
my attitude is this- some dogs bite people as they are moody and unpredictable, others do it when they feel threatened and dont trust a person, others do it to play.

either way you dont actually like this woman so dump her ass and problem solved.
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I wanted to add that I once got bitten by a pig. A fucking PIG in an apartment. It wasn't even minipig or anything. And now I am very suspicious around pigs in general.
 
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