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Does size matter? (girls please)

Does size matter?

  • Yes

    Votes: 44 37.3%

  • No

    Votes: 36 30.5%

  • Maybe

    Votes: 16 13.6%

  • I'm still collecting data

    Votes: 22 18.6%
  • Total voters
    118
i was pretty shocked at the results! i thought everyone thought that size doesnt matter...(clumsy sentence lol)

my ex was big (like 8 inch) girth wise too and we hardly ever had sex and it got to the point where we stopped having sex because it hurt too much...

having fun with my boyfriend now though who has a much more average size thank god haha.
 
Matter of preference more than anything.... I definitely prefer the look of an unsnipped member (not erect) and cute, tight balls, as opposed to the uber-wrinkly, saggy variey...LOL

but in terms of what I enjoy, size pretty much overrides the rest.... :D
 
I definitely grew at least an inch since i was 16. Make sure to use the whole thing and drive it home to the pelvic bone!
 
Ok.... up until the time I was 21, I worried a little about the whole size thing.... was it bullshit or not, etc. I was 6" un-cut, and had never had any complaints. But I still wondered.

Then I made friends with an older guy, an Afrikaaner, and we'd sit outside our stores on the weekends admiring the club-girls walking past.
The subject eventually came up, he brushed it off, and told me a little secret;
"I never even get close to dippin my wick, not until I've given her at least one or two orgasms with hands & tongue. Ja ja, by then she won't care how big your member is, and she'll be practically clawing you to give what you got to her."
*customer approaches, buys cigarettes, leaves*
"Two orgasms.... or at the least, one. But two are better."

And since I put that into practice..... it's totally eliminated any worries or cares over size and if it makes a difference. Plus it's a really nice thing to do for your girl. She'll love you for it.
=D =D =D
 
I find it incredible how many men worry about and measure the size of their cock. Even guys with average size penises are worried if they are too small for the average woman... Am I missing something here? If you have an average size penis and you are too small for a woman, then she has a larger than average sized vagina. Do women worry about how tight their vagina is? I would't think so. Not unless it's fucking massive or something. So why do so many guys worry about the size of ther dick?
 
For me, it was more of a morbid curiosity thing. Since so many guys fretted over the size issue, I just got curious.
And it's in our nature I think to measure them.... It's sort of a macho/biggest-stick kinda thing, along with the fact that there's this organ that sometimes sticks way out there, so why not measure it?
But the worrying about too small/big is a construct of modern society.... in part I think instigated by a growing porn industry.
As teenager guys, I'd wager that very few haven't snuck a few looks at some of their big-brother or dad's Hustlers/Playboys/etc. How many 5-6" cocks are featured in the rags that do portray penetration? Not very many.
 
My comment wasn't aimed directly at you. I was more referring to guys that feel insecure about having an average sized member, whereas you, as you said, were just curious.

One thing that I find interesting is the gender-specific nature of the debate. As far as I'm concerned, it is issue of compatibility.

The question of phallus size seems to be this strangely socially acceptable topic, but nobody ever discusses the other side of the issue - which is the size/elacticity of the vagina.

in part I think instigated by a growing porn industry
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You might be right, there.

And it's in our nature I think to measure them
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Yeah I'm not saying I've never measured.

I don't think it's weird that people measure, I didn't word that very well. (Mushrooms.) I just find it odd that everyone seemingly fails to see the real question, which is that of sexual compatibility.

Does size matter?

It's relative.

There is a hole for every peg.
 
If you are really concerned about size, initiate sex with a girl doggy style. First of all, it's where you are going to completely sink your willie inside her, and if you are still worried about it, she can't see your willy anyway!
 
I'm not a girl, but I don't care if a guy is a little under average if he has a nice lookin cock. Some guys have weird curves and stuff which look really bad when they're on the smaller ones. I prefer them 6-8 inches tbh, not for any real reason though.
 
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Some guys are WAY too hung up on the size of their dick. They become obsessed about it. I could understand if it was like 3 inches long but come on - 5 to 8 I'd say is totally normal. Personally I think anything longer than that hurts, but every girl is different. I think what's more important than length is thickness. But what I think is funniest is that guys spend way more time thinking about their size than we do.
 
kennedy said:
Some guys are WAY too hung up on the size of their dick. They become obsessed about it. I could understand if it was like 3 inches long but come on - 5 to 8 I'd say is totally normal. Personally I think anything longer than that hurts, but every girl is different. I think what's more important than length is thickness. But what I think is funniest is that guys spend way more time thinking about their size than we do.
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it's because guys hear / read women state their size requirements or whatever else about the subject...
 
kennedy said:
Some guys are WAY too hung up on the size of their dick. They become obsessed about it. I could understand if it was like 3 inches long but come on - 5 to 8 I'd say is totally normal. Personally I think anything longer than that hurts, but every girl is different. I think what's more important than length is thickness. But what I think is funniest is that guys spend way more time thinking about their size than we do.
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Although I'm a guy, I agree completely. Much over 8 is too big, it starts to look odd and just makes things more difficult if anything.

I honestly still wish I was a little bigger even though I'm over 7. I don't even really have reasons for wanting it to be bigger, I'd just feel more comfortable if it was maybe a 1/4 of an inch bigger on a bad day.
 
my present boyfriend is the largest I've been with, (out of 4 other guys), and after getting used to him I do like it bigger., But it's a part of a special guy, too :)
 
I don't think it matters that much but a 6-8 inch dick has a better visual apperence I won't lie. I have been with a guy 4 1/5 inches and it wasnt bad but i do wish he was bigger its just funner and better to look at i guess you can say and my fiance he just slightly under average but soemtimes his dick seems 6 or 6 1/5 inches if he doesnt have sex for a long time it like grows 0.0 tbh idk if that makes sence but yeah it isnt that bad.
 
You know what I'll nevr understand? When taking about dick size it's always always about length. There's a whole nother dimension here people.

Most places ive read and people I've talked to think girth is more important than lemgth
 
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