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Does ecstacy make you feel like..in love?

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Princess8

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Not necessarily 'in love' but does it make you have a lot of love for someone?

Because this guy I like (he always says he cares about me/loves me/etc but I can't be sure how serious he is..(((we cant be together because he is my supervisor at work and it's against the firms policy))) he took some x and then he kept texting me saying how much he loves me and all the stuff he loves about me and he was like sending 5 texts for every 1 of my texts..

think that was him, the x, both?

Input?
 
Kind of hard to say. But I'd say a little bit of both. If you guys were hanging out and rolling together I'd say there's a chance it was just the ecstasy. The fact that you guys weren't even hanging out makes it seem like there's a bit of validity to it, although "love" and "in love" are 2 very different things in my mind.
 
It definatly makes me have alot of love... for almost anyone actually. It's not rare when I blurt out random things like "I love you so much" and such to my buddies. I also tend to do stupid things I regret the next day. This one time I even had sex with someone just because I thought she had "beautifull eyes". The next day I realized what I had done and she isn't attractive... at all. Might be just me though, don't give up hope just
yet. I think the only way of knowing is talking about it sober without the interference of drugs. Especially concerning MDMA.
 
i rolled once with a crank ho back in the day. we were speedn 2. we were originally paired with other people but were drawn together, however that happens. anyway, we wanted to try sex on x. right before we got started, i suggested that no matter what, let's pretend we're deeply in love. she agreed. we made the most special love i'd ever experienced at that time. she thought so, too. i know she wasn't just stroking my ego. we tried again later after i hadn't seen her in quite a while. it wasn't even close to the same....besides, she was a crank ho.
ever since then, i've tried to reach that place while making love with women i actually love. it's nearly impossible for me to reach that plateau. it ruined recreational sex, for sure. it was even tough making love to women i had true feelings for. that was about 20 years ago. i still try to find that place when i'm with a special woman. it's not easy to get there. i'd have to advise against sex while rolling....it can ruin your sex life afterwards.
 
I don't think any drug can make you feel something completely false for an extended period of time- though people often say "things they don't mean" while high, there is always some truth to it.

The only exceptions to a drug making me feel something false are in the cases of extreme delusion (psychedelics and disassociatives at high doses perhaps) where you may believe someone or something is out to get you, or something of that nature.

I've come to odd conclusions while stoned, and drunk- I've yet to have to question myself on MDMA.

If anything, I find that MDMA makes me far more truthful- though the things I open up about are usually loving and positive statements, I've never said something I didn't genuinely feel on it. While alcohol may make some people say or do things they wish they hadn't, MDMA does not (in my experience) cloud my judgement, but rather makes me feel fearless about sharing the things I already feel sober. It makes me far more forgiving and honest, so the concept of expressing feelings that are actually false seems nearly impossible to me.

If he texted you multiple times, I would venture to say the MDMA made him feel far more gushy and expressive about how he feels- when on MDMA, I feel it's absolutely necessary to let those I care about know how much I do.
 
I would say it can really depend on a person. Some people seem to have no issues with just "playing along" with the MDMA vibes, but that's how they are even when they are sober. On the other hand, someone who is honest and caring when off drugs is more likely to be honest about the things they say when on MDMA.

Drug by themselves don't really change who you are.
 
Just act normal in front of him next time, he might be a little emabrrassed...or not...


he would of meant what he said...to some extent.
 
E can definitely amplify someones emotions quite a bit. That's not to say that he doesn't have feelings for you sober though.
 
I wouldn't say that it makes you feel "love", but you are able to pick up on people's emotions better, and interpersonal interaction feels "good".
 
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