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Do you think you have hit your sexual peak?

Beachcat

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I was just thinking about this tonight....

I have always had a very high sex drive. Then, it was totally nil the two years I was on opiates.

Now, it is insanely out of control, and it makes me wonder if I am hitting my peak or something...they say that happens to women later? I am in my mid thirties...I know that interest in sex waxes and wanes over time naturally, but this is unlike anything before, like I am an 18 year old boy or something.

Has anyone else experienced a peak like this? Do you think people even "peak" sexually, or is it more likely that it is just a cycle?
 
Mid-30s here too, and I attributed it to going off birth control after 15 years of being on it. Not sure, really, but I also know I'm much more confident in myself and carry myself differently in the last year, so I'm able to meet men more easily. Not sure if it's a combination of stuff or if I'm at my peak, but I'm liking the feeling. :D
 
I'm only 22 ... I don't think I've hit my peak yet. I love sex and all, but I'm not wanting it ALL the time. Neither does my boyfriend. I hope we hit our sexual peaks at the same time. lol
 
Lysis said:
Not sure, really, but I also know I'm much more confident in myself and carry myself differently in the last year, so I'm able to meet men more easily.
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Same here. Making eye contact, smiling, and standing up straight really do wonders, lol.
 
I would say at 33 I have probably passed my peak in regards to how many times a night I can manage. Still it is better to have control & know what you are doing for one or two great orgasms than doing it 5 times in a night with mediocre results.
 
^^^ooh la la. ;)

I asked my husband last night...he thought that of course we have a peak, but that it is more cyclical in nature in general. He said that he ha not hit his peak yet, which made me laugh, he is even older than me. He said whatever it was I had going on he liked it. And then we had sex.

Lysis and Munki, seriously, the thirties do rock in terms of sexual energy. Way more body confidence even though my tits are not as perky as they once were, more confidence in who I am in general, etc. I know what I want in bed, am not shy to take pleasure for myself or give it to my partner. It is really awesome.
 
it's pretty well known that guys are at their peak from late teens to early 20's. Women peak mid to late 30's. That said, i hit my peak around 18 and have had a very strong sex drive since.
 
iheartthisthread said:
it's pretty well known that guys are at their peak from late teens to early 20's.
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It might be true that we have raging hard boners 24/7 from the age of 11-18, but I think a large number of males don't know what the fuck to do with that boner until they progress into their 20/30/40's...
 
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