Do you tell your mates when you've had sex?

[Slain]

Yes.

 

[theotherwoman]

No, i feel like it's business thats best kept to myself.
Though the guys seem to have no problem telling their friends.

 

[hyroller]

Depends on the context...I always get the urge to brag/celebrate (the rarity of such an event lends it a certain newsworthiness in my world) but it's not usually appropriate to do so in the public forum

 

[modern buddha]

I don't tell anyone. That shit gets around fast. No point, either. It reminds other people (especially those not getting any sex) about sex, making them want sex more. Why bother bringing that onto them?

 

[alasdairm]

Yes.

every time?

alasdair

 

[mutzy]

Living with two of your best friends in a very very small house with squeaky beds, hard wood floors and paper thin walls means you no longer need to... :

... send mass e-mails with a detailed description of every position, time of orgasm(s), transcript of dirty talk, etc in a power point presentation.

Especially when yours is the house that everyone hangs in.


It's not a thing of note in our gaff as I would imagine it wouldn't be any where else...
(Unless one specific housemate is at it. Then it's earplugs out for everyone and no one is going to get a quiet nights sleep.)

 

[spork]

if they ask, i'll tell them. otherwise i usually tend to be a pretty private person in regards to my sex life.

 

[moonyham]

I will tell atleast 1 or 2 friends of each time ive fucked a girl for first time, usually, but if its a nice girl who i want a relationship/future sex with etc, then generally not.(ie 'Bro i fucked that girl with the big ass tits at last weekends party') but no not everytime and definitly not to everyone.

 

[Jblazingphoenix100]

I used to brag about it to my mates when sex was new and amazing. That was YEAAAAAAAARS ago though.

So, no.

 

[badandwicked]

At work we sometimes discuss our sex lives. Its funny & interesting and passes the time. Some are more discreet than others and some like to shock more than others but we've known each other a long time and I don't think it's a bad thing.

 

[gavatron@oz]

Im fucken terrible,or was in my hay day... Not shower and offer mates to smell my dick...

I actually would harass the apprentices i had at work,telling them not to wash their dicks so i could smell it monday if they claimed to have pulled a root..throw in the ' what was HIS name? -its an oldie but a goodie.. And id warn them not to try stick there finger in there ass and rub it on their knob,trying to get one passed me claiming they got to drive down the chocolate highway...

Fuck,those kids are scared for life now..

Welcome to Australia boys and girls.....

 

[Owl Eyed]

i tell one of my closest friends and thats it.

but it's never flat out "i just had sex". i usually just text him a smiley face and he understands.

 

[Antecessor]

If its something cool and new, like two vaginas pressed together like a sandwich, with my dick in between. (My GF is Bi)

Otherwise as im in a committed relationship, for the last 6 years, it would be pretty pointless.

 

[PriestTheyCalledHim]

To be fair, for a lot of people it is . I suspect answers will vary depending on age.

I don't. I haven't had casual sex in 11 years or so, though. I'd tell my friends if I was seeing someone, and if I'm seeing someone, I'm having sex with them, so it's usually pretty obvious. But I'm not going to tell all my mates "got laid last night". I don't think they'd care.

(M/38 for what it's worth).

I do what you wrote.

I have told gay, bisexual, and straight male friends about how I've had very rare 1 night stands with people who I met in bars since sometimes we'd be in the bar together and I'd meet someone there and wind up hooking up with them before the evening ended, and while I wasn't drunk I'd let my friends know just who I'm going with and where we're going and set up safe calls.

They tell me when they've had sex as a 1 night stand or if they're dating/seeing someone new and nobody brags about it.

 

[Chunk4379]

no unless were having a discussion about our sex lives

 

[euphoria]

No, I've never once told any of my girl friends about my sexual encounters. Not even my best friend. That shit is private.

 

[muvolution]

Not anymore, but as one other person said, definitely if I had casual sex with a person of note I would usually point it out to a couple friends.
Otherwise, my best friend would know because he'd come home with a girl and I'd be fuckin a chick in the living room.

That was a long time ago, though. So, No

 

[b4rd]

No, but they can usually guess by my grin and high-pitched, girlish laughter.

damn, my friends would always think i just had sex ;-)

And yes i do . but its piggish and i shouldnt ;-)

 

[alasdairm]

And yes i do .

every single time? how do your friends react?

alasdair

 

[J. G. Wentworth]

My friends and I see some pros. We share the information. Sex is still the best drug there is, IMO. Forty and Fifty-something guys getting twenty-something tail is just another hobby. We spend a lot of time talking about it, chasing it, and doing it.

When I am getting "civilian" sex, the rules of discretion apply or I will get cut off. They get so pissy about being sex objects. :D