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Do you tell your mates when you've had sex?

maybe if it was the first time. telling your friends every time you have sex seems like an odd thing for an adult to do.

alasdair
 
You don't tell everyone, but a couple of your closest friends is fine.
 
^ ?

my gf and i have sex pretty much every day. if i told my friends every time i had sex they would reply "sfw?" (and rightly so).

wtf is this? high school?

alasdair
 
Just when it happens the first time with a new person. I think from there, it's safe to assume I'm having sex with an SO. lol
 
^ ?

my gf and i have sex pretty much every day. if i told my friends every time i had sex they would reply "sfw?" (and rightly so).

wtf is this? high school?

alasdair

I figured he/she meant for the first time in general or the first time with someone new.

Aha I told my two best friends when I lost my virginity and when I first had sex with my bf. I don't tell them every time though, I don't think they care. Hah.
 
wtf is this? high school?

To be fair, for a lot of people it is :). I suspect answers will vary depending on age.

I don't. I haven't had casual sex in 11 years or so, though. I'd tell my friends if I was seeing someone, and if I'm seeing someone, I'm having sex with them, so it's usually pretty obvious. But I'm not going to tell all my mates "got laid last night". I don't think they'd care.

(M/38 for what it's worth).
 
No need to brag about it. First time with that person, yeah I'll say something. After that there's no point. I'm grown.
 
No.

If my friends tell me when they get laid I'll give them high five, but if they made a habit of it I'd be like shut the fuck up. That shit gets annoying.
 
If it's relevant to the conversation, but generally no. It just screams insecurity.
 
I send mass e-mails with a detailed description of every position, time of orgasm(s), transcript of dirty talk, etc in a power point presentation.

No, actually I just keep it to myself. Bragging about getting some is kinda lame and is a sign of insecurity imo.
 
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