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do you like kissing?

If you don't mind me asking, how is vaginal intercourse less complex than both kissing and anal sex?

If anal sex, and kissing, are both too complex for you, I hope you enjoy masturbation. Hell, masturbation might be too complex at this rate, maybe wet dreams is as simple as it gets. Stick to wet dreams.

It's one thing to dislike kissing for one reason or another, but how is it complex? How did you learn to walk and talk? Was that comparatively easy? 8(


Hahaha +1 captainheroin
 
Tip: A man's saliva contains some testosterone and when that is passed into the woman mouth it kick starts the libido. Not to mention the act itself can be soo soo sexy and intimate.

Yup.

Kissing is so much fun. Not everyone knows how to kiss to my satisfaction, but when they do....oh yes! Passion and lack of inhibition are definitely key. Soft lips, a little tongue, maybe a little more tongue, more lips, nuzzles, breathing in synchronicity....

Yum!

This is not to say I don't like to get down and fuck without kissing occasionally, but there is something so loving and comforting about a good make out session.

A good kisser = intimacy!
 
So guys, don't ask...just do.

It depends on the situation though. If it is someone you are vibing off of on a date, then yes go for it. Don't just go for it with random women you might interact with briefly out and about though! Some guy tried to kiss me without warning at a club a few weeks ago when he and I had been chatting and dancing near one another only a few minutes. Most likely he was high on molly, but I had to do a quick head turn so he got me on the cheek. A little awkward!
 
Tip: A man's saliva contains some testosterone and when that is passed into the woman mouth it kick starts the libido. Not to mention the act itself can be soo soo sexy and intimate.

I thought this was a myth? That it does contain trace amounts of testosterone, but not enough to affect the female libido in a noticeable way on its own. Do you have a source? I would gladly participate in a study on this.

munki said:
Passion and lack of inhibition are definitely key. Soft lips, a little tongue, maybe a little more tongue, more lips, nuzzles, breathing in synchronicity....

This is good stuff. Grr, I want kissing NOW!
 
if you think you're strange for not being into anal, then i worry for humanity....

i love kissing personally. it can be very romantic but it can also be incredibly sexy. that's if the guy's a good kisser, some have been terrible..
 
Kissing. Is. The. Bomb.

It's definitely up there. I absolutely love it. A good kissing session with a parter who is also very into it is way more intense, sensual and romantic than actual sex with someone who doesn't seem to really care. If I had to choose between sex (albeit with no kissing) and a make-out session with a crush of mine, I'd probably go with the latter, since it would definitely give me more butterflies.

Tip for the guys: Cradle your partner's face with your hands mid-kiss, running your fingertips down the person's cheek and even move your finger(s) temporarily between you and your partner's joined lips. I have found that this makes women go crazy.

Ok I am totally on par with this - kissing is absolutely a must - and I mean someone that knows how to sensually kiss. If the kiss is like kissing a zombie or a piece of cardboard... then I'm sorry, it doesn't go any further. It tells a lot about someone that knows how to fully be in the moment and passion and kiss that gets to the point where you just go for ages without thinking about anything else.... mmm.... now I'm teasing myself so I shall stop. Here. 8(
 
ugly how does it waste your time? I ask because for myself, there is nothing more intimate, and word-less, that can show how passionate you are and personally I feel I can 'read' someone by the way they appreciate kissing....

So again (without any judgement), how does it waste your time...? and hey! what is old lol
 
Maybe you just need another one of those special kisses, the one where you feel the spark, get butterflies, and feel all warm and giddy like a high schooler all over again :)
 
I love kissing. The only downside is that there's been a couple of girls who either weren't very good or the way we kissed just didn't match. It completely puts me off. I've only once pursued someone with whom the kiss didn't click. I never do this because it usually means it's not heading for anything good. I decided to give it a go but should have followed my rule :\

I suppose it still led to feeling good anyway :)
 
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