Long story short, I was at a backyard bbq and sitting next to me is someone who is very skinny almost medically underweight. It doesn't matter whatsoever to me. But I think he saw me glance at his plate as if I'm judging him about how much he eats. I was just kinda scanning and ended up on his plate. I'm not worried whatsoever about this guy. Not my business but to me looks like I'm judging him and how underweight he may be.
Bro you're overthinking this.
Personally in the same situation I WOULD be judging him as I'm obsessed with food, fine cuisine, fitness, obesity, aesthetic appearance, etc
I couldn't give a single fuck if anybody thinks I'm judging them.
Only an insecure individual may think "oh he's looking at my food and thinks I'm fat/obese/skinny/hungry, etc , etc
If people actually say to me "bro I see you looking at my plate and I know it's unhealthy but today's a cheat day"
I'd reply saying do whatever the fuck you wanna do and don't be concerned about my judgements unless of course your a significant person in my life and given my level of care for you I'd rather not see you devour an entire plate of fried chicken wings but perhaps eat a lean steak and some vegetables instead.
So ya get me?
Nobody gives a flying fuck and if they do I personally couldn't give a fuck.
I'm thinking your a nice open accepting kinda guy who doesnt wanna cause hurt or offense to anybody which I deem admirable.
Your kinda soft for this world but dont lose that part of yourself.
If everybody was like you there'd be no wars
