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Do you care what others think of you?

Why would domeone hold a positive view on someone but not tell them? I like complimenting people especially if it makes them feel better ot happier somehow.

You've a valid point though it is possible that people could hold positive opinions when one is assuming that everything is negative.

Evey
 
BecomingJulie said:
Get yourself a dog. Canine psychology is like a simplified version of human psychology (mind, the Germans and Dutch think English is like a simplified version of French) so once you can understand dogs, you'll have at least some sort of an idea about people.

I'm slowly coming to the conclusion -- which I've sort of known all along, really -- that most people really couldn't give a flying one about me, and I'm worrying unduly about passing. I should try to hold onto this feeling and make the most of it, because I know it will only take one little comment to set me right back and make me feel about this big -> .
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This is actually perfect. It all sums up to this!
 
Sammy G said:
Don't let slavery get you down, a vic.

I survive at my present workplace because the major shareholders like me and think I'm 'classically educated'. Which I'm not, apart from autodidactically.Of course, that word makes them think I'm Chomsky.
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I'd love to work somewhere where Chomsky would be respected, tbh. They're the sort of people who resentfully enter the metropolis in their 4x4s. They consider intellectualism to be watching the latest dreary crap on at the NT and taking the Telegraph instead of the Mail for a change.
 
ponch said:
I think everyone does care to a certain degree, I care so little about what most people think it barely registers. The more I care about someone the more i'm bothered what someone thinks.
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Spot on.

The older ive gotten the less i give a shit about what people think of me. its liberating
 
Eveyvibe said:
Why would domeone hold a positive view on someone but not tell them?
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Why would somebody hold a negative view of somebody but not tell them? Same thing innit - not everybody feels the need to tell other people exactly what they think about them. I know that I tend to have a number of people who I think highly of and often think nice thoughts about but would never occur to me to tell them. In contrast it's actually quite rare I will have a consistently negative view of a person - and even rarer that I will waste any further time thinking negatively about them once it is clear to me that myself and whoever else are never going to be bosom buddies. If I know I don't like somebody I tend to stop thinking about them at all whether positively or negatively, but I can hold people in very high regard for a very long time without ever feeling it appropriate or necessary to tell them this.

(to be clear, when i talk about holding people in high regard and thinking nice things about them i obviously mean entirely non-sexual things - that's a whole other matter)
 
Society is the problem because it's a set of standards to live by and if you don't fit into these standards you're hated. What better way to torment each other then to make a Society.... I can't think of any.

When we post on an Internet forum like this we don't act... we're just our true selves, well i am anyway.
 
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On here im the person I always wanted to be. Im like a lemonade pottle that's been shook n is finally opened. Whereas in real I'd not dare say how i feel about iwt but like things fester, due to not being good at confrontation / conflict. Online I'm able to say how I feel straight up no messing.

Evey
 
What Julie said is true about Dogs, they're very simple and when it comes to basic needs like sex they just fuck each other. So think for a second if Society didn't exist and we didn't have standards to attain to, then we just be like other Animals. You would see a member of the opposite sex that you like and if the other member liked you aswell...then you would just fuck with no effort needed. Instead you need a Car, a job, money and all these other things Society demands of you, all it ever did was over complicate our utterly meaningless existence.

Pessimism for ya. Life could actually be half decent if Society didn't exist and we didn't have to act to fit in to the mould. The idea of happiness... that's a fairly new concept in life and the reality is it's impossible to be happy in a Society. We just judge and torment each other for our own selfish pleasure. Yet we think we're better than Animals :) Dogs are easier to love than any Human.

People use drugs to escape reality and of course Society or perhaps to cover up flaws in their Character to so you can fit into Society, you use drugs like heroin so you can gouch out and fall in and out of existence.

Human beings are in the their most happiest state when they're not thinking, thats why you have Religions like Buddhism, reaching that state of Nirvana...the state of not thinking and thus the state of Happiness.
 
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I care very much what my kids and my wife think of me. Not only from a personal view point but also I think it's important to be respected as a role model. Having said that it is equally important to stand up for your own beliefs and not worry about being judged if you don't measure up to some one else's.

Professionally I am concerned how other people perceive me. If my employees hated me or my clients didn't respect me then it has a huge baring on my success. the flip side is you also have to be confident enough in yourself to not really doubt who you are in the first place. There will always be people who look down on you, you need to be happy enough with who you are to appreciate that other people's opinions don't validate right or wrong. Life isn't a ranking system you slide up and down. Instead we are all a bubble of our own existence, that simply converge on one and another before passing on. The trick is to try and surround yourself with like minded associates and distant yourself from haters
 
Never give a fuck what someone thinks of you on the internet, they're only taking their own agony out on you. Keep that in mind Evey <3
 
On the net i dont give a flying fuck, in everyday....yes, especially the man im in love with who does not love me back.
 
Dark Side said:
You would see a member of the opposite sex that you like and if the other member liked you aswell...then you would just fuck with no effort needed. Instead you need a Car, a job, money and all these other things Society demands of you...
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I've never had any of those things you feel society "demands of you" (and I'm not exactly a looker either) and I've never had difficulty in forming sexual relationships. Most of the time I've been a crackhead junky too and that didn't seem to prevent me forming sexual relationships either - only one of which that was with somebody in similar situation to me too (others around that time where women who did have a career, their own home, cars and other consumer durables and disposables).

To be honest it sounds from what you are saying that it's you who hates society rather than the other way around. Society - people, if you will - is like many other things in that if you go in snarling ans spitting and generally bearing big ol' chips upon shoulders then it/they tend to want to steer well clear of you. Do you find it easier to love the dog that is friendly and keen and full of all that famously boundless doggy love or the one that bites and snarls and generally makes it clear that you can all just fuck off and stay fucked off?
 
No. Having said that, I like to play games with my facebook posts, or comments in pages, with a feigned inflated ego, then laugh at the butt-hurt comments that come with such posts or comments.
 
For a bunch of people who don't care about what other people think of you, it doesn't seem to stop you letting them know what you think of them.
 
Sadie said:
Bloody LIAR!!!!
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You're biased cos you iz my belobed ;)<3

Sadie said:
The cheek of some people eh! :\
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Quite 8o
 
Nope, sorry, You iz pretty damn hawt!

And, I always cared about what you thought of me, even when we first met. I think it's because when you meet kind and nice people you hope they see the good in you too. That is, you're hoping you're not an annoying dick in their eyes. Always a bonus when they don't!
 
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