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Do u Dance Anymore?

I find that i DO dance, but i'd rather meet new people and go on missions with friends when i go out. More fun that way, and you seem to get much more out of a night...
 
it all depends on the music. I'm one of those ppl who drunk, smashed or sober, as long as the music is good, will hit the floor for hours, regardless of where my friends are or what anyone else in the place is doing. I don't think I'm a particularly good dancer, in fact, I probably suck badly, but I LOVE TO DANCE. and that is why i go to nightclubs :)
did that make any sense at all?!?
 
i LOVE to dance...... BUT ;)
OVER THe last year since ive stopped partying every weekend i find im a lot less fit lol, so i physically cant dance all night anymore. hehe...
i also do find that i dance a LOT more before i either have a pill or whatnot, because im feeling good. (and my stomach is healthy!!!) then after i have something my brain is running a million miles an hour, so even dancing is something i cant due to a short attention span and missions.
so to end the post, no, i dont dance as much anymore, i blame it on my lower levels of fitness.
besides, i go out to socialise, not dance now. altho, if i heard a really uplifting, good, trance song, or a really dark pounding psy song when sitting, id cut conversation and get up and go psycho. (random bursts)
 
just what we were talking about, jerox. ;)
its almost a full circle over here. ive gone on abit of a journey through stages. btw, this is gonna be a very longwinded dribble. :)
first stage of starting to go out - danced all night till the sun rose and the doors shut, non-stop except for 5-minute rests (squatting down in corners, usually wouldnt even bother going to look for a comfy seat) and quick sips of water. didnt need to go to the toilet much or even at all bcos of perspiration. was pretty fit but looked way too skinny.
second stage of going out regularly - still danced alot but was starting to sit down for longer periods especially when there were pple around to chat with, whether strangers or mates. conversations with mates were especially D&M. started to discover the wonders of doing missions of all sorts (buy chewy, find someone, go for a walk, catch a koala etc). sudden expansion of social circles filling up with pple i hardly knew.
third stage of complacency - stopped talking to strangers, and only talked to mates. no longer felt the need to dance as much, in fact, felt the need not to dance as much. sat down all the time, content to just listen to the music and bop my head without budging from the same spot. and yet almost always, when the party has finished, id wish i had gotten up and danced. i felt irritated at myself everytime, but always self-justified it with "oh well, we'll do it again soon anyway... ". and it fell into a loop. it wasnt special or fun anymore.
fourth stage of rest - stopped going out for awhile to reorganise my life and get things back on track. especially health and uni. re-evaluated friendships. played pool. drank beer. exercised. gained weight. YAY!
fifth (current) stage of balance - go out once in awhile (approx. once a month, or max of twice, or less if nothing good enough is happening) and choose events of special interest instead of going to everything. nomore 4-day weekends. weekends end on sunday. and i have a whole new perspective of going out, partying, and having a good time. its almost like ive gone back to the first stage again - the excitement, the anticipation, and the hype of going out to somewhere special. but this time, the difference is an additional newfound sense of being at ease with myself and doing whatever makes me happy. and when i do exactly what i feel like doing, it usually ends up being a good balance of lotsa dancing, catching up with mates, and doing as few random missions as possible. i do talk to strangers now but not much.
being up on my feet and dancing again feels excellent. and now it takes no effort to break into dance anytime i want - its almost as if ive gotten rid of some invisible shackles around my ankles. i believe finding my balance in life has helped me find a balance in everything i do - for work or for play.
:)
***end dribble, thank u for your patience***
 
I totally agree Jerox! I find it so hard to move too! I have to take a heap of speed to get me going otherwise I can't budge. I think we are getting old and lazy, it's too much of a big effort to dance these days....feels like it for me anyway. :(
 
ghost: it is always coz we spent the whole nite talking and catchin up that we 'accidentally' forget to get back and have a boggie. And there is one scattered fren of ours that gave me this suggestion coz she came up to me in the morning and said " Hey SHIT!! I talk the whole nite and forgot to DANCE!!!" ;)
however, there are still many frens that i know that is still dancing all nite long. it is really up to the individual.
as for me, im just more selective with the events that i go to and it really depends how good the music is. If its bad ... i guess i will spent most of the nite in the car ;)
 
I haven't danced since ... since ... well the lat party i was at (methinks it was sunny). But I'm like everyone else in thise thread..i no longer feel the need to dance the nite away...I try sometimes but there's just too many distractions these days..plus i get tired more ...
maybe when we find out mojo will the groove come back,.,.,
 
Ahh, the wonders of being a bit younger than the rest of you. I'm still enjoying the best of both worlds- If the musics good I'll dance most of my night away and have a great time doing it but some nights I just find myself chatting away and not even thinking about dancing. SO I try to even it out the best I can.. Make the most of my night
 
I used to dance all nite as well. Then my first kryal party, myself and a friend decided to have a talk at the start of the night, and it lasted till we got home :P That started me on a long period of going out without even looking at the dance floor. As others have mentioned, I used to to feel like I missed something if I didnt dance.
Now I tend to dance for 2 hours or so at the start of the night, then go on to chat and do missions, it's very satisfying. I've also found my taste in music to be narrowing, so it takes a very specific type of music to make me really want to dance.
HAPPY HARDCORE OR DEATH!
 
Maybe I should pay more attention to this 'talking' concept :)
I will sit/talk briefly at the start at the night, then hit the dancefloor and before I know it the night's finishing.
I do still dance or at least stand and watch the dj as the primary activity, the only times I dont is if i'm dead tired.
 
long live happy hardcore.
its the only thing that gets me out on the dance floor these days and even more so if its an old skool track like children of the nite.
 
hmmm...can anyone say old and jaded? :D
no seriously....why don't you all just combine the two options....talk dribble to people while your dancing? ;)
I myself have trouble doing either....mainly due to my walking frame always getting in the way... :)
nuff said
 
i did try doing that .... BUT i keep forgetting what i wanted to say or what i was saying or what the other party was saying :|
 
I don’t think I have ever gone out and danced the night away. I always get too distracted by people and missions and chatting to spend much time on the dance floor.
There are certain tracks that will get me up no matter what state I’m in, even if it is to bounce for five steps before realizing that I really don't want to be dancing ;)
As long as at the end of the night you can say you’ve had a mad time does it really matter if you dance or not?
 
I never dance for more than 5 mins at a time...i feel it's a waste of valuable socialising time. Then again i have friends who don't want to chill out for more than 5 mins coz it's a waste of dancing time. I like to stay within earshot of the music though
 
Mohhaha @ combining the two.. I said I dance all night, at no point did I say I dont also speak copious amounts of shit, shake the hand of anyone who even so much as breathes in my direction and permanently run around with a huge grin..
Booya :)
Wanted to just reaffirm how much I absolutely love dancing after WOTW. One of the greatest releases ive ever found in life.
 
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