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do pills give you "the gays"??

muzby

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okay... no, i am not questioning my sexuality, but in recent discussions with wazza in our evil, nasty, yet somehow fun perth adventure, i wanted to ask the question of people...

does taking pills lead you to homosexuality?? and if so, how many do you need to reach this level??

the reasoning behind this question, is that the more people seem to take chemicals, the more loved up, friendly and open they become to members of the same sex. there seems to be more hugging, more kissing, more massages and more general lovey touching of people, including your friends..

are the drugs somehow turning us into a race of bisexual plur puppies??


anyhow, i hope this made sense, as i am currently very drunk and methed up at the moment.. 8o

and no, i dont want any PM's from gay bluelighters asking "how bout it..."
 
It doesnt make you more gay at all.

It just helps you to be more open and honest with yourself about your own feelings.

Part of that is the sudden realisation that hugging a guy is no different to hugging a chick etc.

Pity we cant all be that honest with ourselves all the time instead of trying so desperately to fullfill the expectations of those arround us............particularly here in australia where you are not a man if you dont drink beer in copious ammounts and similar bull crap like that.
 
LOL....

Last year when I first took pills I often visited my brother down the coast and they were very "straight" not open, into hotted up cars and acts macho, treats chicks as objects etc if you get my drift.

I used always pop eccies while they smoked endless cones and drinking Jim Beam/OP rums with coke, and I was often loved up, talked a lot of shit, and wanted to hug these blokes and talked a lot of shit, that made them felt "uncomfortable" and they thought I was leading towards gay lifestyle LOL..... it was funny....

But I am not gay.... just it was funny sight to see a loved up peaked up tripper with macho rum drinkers. But later on down the track they kinda got "used" to my strange behaviour because they seriously know I wasn't for real, its just the "md** effects" :)

Don't worry muzby, I know what you mean.
 
I don't think pills make you more open and honest necessarily. They make you more lovey and you say shit you don't mean and get along with people who you think are wankers... how honest is that?

muzby: =D Hope your hangover/ comedown isn't too vicious.
 
So How 'bout it? ;)=D

Basically from experience, pills tend to lower inhibitions more than make you 'open and honest.' They will make it easier for you to experiment with things if you've thought about it. This can be a good thing and a bad thing, good because, hey sex is great :) Bad because some people will really beat themselves up about what they did while under the influence. Pills make you do stupid things sometimes, and I'm sure we all regret something that we have done :\

The thing you have to ask yourself is would you be comfortable doing something if you were sober, and weigh up the pros and cons, and then hey if you figure that you can live with yourself afterwards, then hey go for it :)
 
Well we all know pills make you feel touchy, I dont ever have problems hugging someone of the same sex... me and my best friend (male - i am female) walk around holding hands when we're pilling and it doesnt mean we are going to take things further, its just the feeling of being close to someone and touching them. And i think the same rule applys in what you called "the gays" :p However - I did go pilling with a girlfriend (for the first time) and she tried to kiss me when I was in a tripped out stupor hahah and I nearly fell off my chair. It freaked me out - because I wasnt prepared for that and she woke me out of whatever I was in hahaha. But I think both parties have to be open to it.. some people still have the "i dont want to look gay" thang going on - even when pilling.
 
I hug more people when I'm sober than when high anyway. I tend to not have anyone that I want to hug or cuddle on hand when I'm high. Or they're too busy dancing, chatting, munting, whatever

bastards :(
 
MazDan said:

It just helps you to be more open and honest with yourself about your own feelings.

Part of that is the sudden realisation that hugging a guy is no different to hugging a chick etc.

That's the killer right there! It only seems gay because our society has told us that if you hug a guy you must be homosexual. When you're on drugs you forget about all these things and just get back to the basics, IMO anyway.

On the other hand I'm sure some people may do it because they are homosexual deep down inside and only get the courage to do it when high but more so than not, I think Mazdan's explanation fits best.
 
When I went to a tech nite a couple of weeks back, I went with three guys and another gurl. After hours of dancing, I decided to go and sit down where two of the guys and the gurl was sitting. The gurl came over and gave me heaps of hugs and kept giving me pecks on my lips. I didn't find it weird, I guess that was the weird part of it - me being cool wif the pecks. So, i guess, pills did make my lower my inhibitions and for me hugging people sure feels damn good...
 
its the society thing...
take for example in argentina, (i mean pure areas, not comercialised ones). u kno how u kiss ppl hello at clubs and so on, well there guys kiss other guys like that, out in the street when they see eachother, woteva, here u only see that happen with girls - girls or girls - guys... never guys - guys
its all about the society we live in and wot is seen as a homosexual act in the eyes of those around you
 
^^^ we should meet whilst pilling=D... i think... let me check your gallery 1st

*edit*
checked it... we should=D... ah crap ur interstate:(
there goes that idea
*/edit*
 
muzby said:
okay... no, i am not questioning my sexuality, but in recent discussions with wazza in our evil, nasty, yet somehow fun perth adventure, i wanted to ask the question of people...

does taking pills lead you to homosexuality?? and if so, how many do you need to reach this level??


ah fuk I'm scared now about the impression I left on you guys. :p

Anyways I think how MazDan said it was best.

It just helps you to be more open and honest with yourself about your own feelings.

I came to terms better about my feeligs towards chics once I started pilling. doing drugs also helped me with other aspects of my life. The thing is when i look back to high school i notice that i did have tendencies to like both sexes but i just denied it.

so I think e's helped me be more true to my self but they didn't give me the gays. lol.

and with hugging and kissing freinds ect - i think that is just chics hey - like in my group we are all hell close and we have been doing it long before we started taking drugs.
 
oo wait! i am a man! w00t!

well then no it dosen't change gender ither
 
muzby said:
okay... no, i am not questioning my sexuality, but in recent discussions with wazza in our evil, nasty, yet somehow fun perth adventure, i wanted to ask the question of people...

does taking pills lead you to homosexuality?? and if so, how many do you need to reach this level??

the reasoning behind this question, is that the more people seem to take chemicals, the more loved up, friendly and open they become to members of the same sex. there seems to be more hugging, more kissing, more massages and more general lovey touching of people, including your friends..

are the drugs somehow turning us into a race of bisexual plur puppies??


anyhow, i hope this made sense, as i am currently very drunk and methed up at the moment.. 8o

and no, i dont want any PM's from gay bluelighters asking "how bout it..."


ummm..... shit... how trashed was i this afternoon??? i dont actually remember writing this..... 8( 8( come to think of it, i cant actually remember getting on the plane..... damn u airport bars!!!
 
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