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Do girls think gay/bi guys are hot?

I do think it's hot and I think bisexual and gay men are very atractive and generally stylish. I like their femininity. I am attracted to femininity.

Sometimes I watch two guys do it, I find nothing about it "gross". I think it's cute when they kiss.
 
Just as many do as do not - and I'd answer the same to 'Do girls like straight men'.
 
I tend to think both homosexual and bisexual men are hot, but not really when they are with other men. I am attracted to them mainly for their aesthetic femininity; I am sexually attracted to the mix of gender roles some of them incorporate. I am also attracted to a challenge sexually—when a homosexual friend (man) confessed that he wanted to have sex with me, it honestly turned me on immensely. I get aroused both sexually and mentally by gaining the sexual approval of a homosexual or bisexual man. I also tend to be what the BDSM world refers to as a switch, which means I alternate from being submissive to being dominant depending on the person and sexual scenario. With effeminate men (not saying all homosexual/bisexual men are this way, this is what I like in regards to this topic), I am usually much more dominant than with straight men. This allows me to fulfill my sexuality more.
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Now, as far as watching other men kiss, fuck, ect...they have to be very good looking and the 'rockstar' type. If they are not, I just simply can't sexually get into most of it. I am bisexual and prefer watching women be sexually intimate.

I have also found that select bisexual men seem to have the mentality that I can relate a lot to—very unconventional, artistically/philosophically inclined, hedonistic, ect. Those tend to be the types that I am attracted to, as well as those that a lot of people find attractive, powerful, and influential in some way, shape, or form. Even with that said, although I think homosexual and bisexual men are hot (some of them excruciatingly beautiful), I do know from witnessing firsthand that HIV is unfortunately very prevalent in the LGBT community. As much as I have found myself sexually attracted to these people (and vice versa, so I've been told), I don't know that I would be able to have a relationship with one unless legitimate trust has been established over time.
 
I'm not into the gay stuff as "hot." Not something that turns me on at all. I like a man's man. It's just not attractive to me at all. I love the gays as friends, but it doesn't turn me on as far as getting me ready to go. It turns me off sexually, so I'm going with thumbs down as far as a way to turn me on.
 
I've found it to be +/-. But then again I live in Seattle, so all bets are off and everything is a possibility unless absolutely defined.
The girls that I've told don't seem to be necessarily turned off by it and still consider me an option. The guys are much more cautious.
I'll be faithful to whomever...that's not an issue and shouldn't be. Same monogamy rules apply for straight/gay/bisexual in a relationship.
 
nekointheclouds said:
I think two guys making out and messing around is hot hot hot.
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Absoloutley! LOL

I have only met two other women who feel the same way about this. They couldnt be too camp though, otherwise it loses the Mojo.
Brokeback Mountain was bloody amazing.
I would love to be a guy for a Day and get with some other 'straight' guy.;)

Its just the energy of male passion is pretty awesome. heh
Even watching certain guys eat, play Sports, sleep etc is a turn on they just look different when they do seemingly mundane things, fascinating.
 
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Asclepius said:
Even watching certain guys eat, play Sports, sleep etc is a turn on they just look different when they do seemingly mundane things, fascinating.
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I think a lot of people could agree with this for whomever they find attractive (guys and/or girls). :)

I would also say when you notice yourself doing this, you have initially discovered a newly formed infatuation with someone.
 
^Yup CH! It's always the simplist things that will hook one in I rekon. Then after several years, those very traits; that were once so alluring, begin to annoy the beegeezus out of one in equal measure... oh the painful Irony! Hee hee ;)
 
IME, chicks like the idea of gay/bisexual men more than actual gay/bisexual men. I've encountered plenty of women who like gay porn but I've met few women who say that they would date a bi guy.

There's the fear that one day he'll dump her and take off with some dude. Which is not entirely rational. There's just as much chance that he'll dump her for a hotter chick.

Granted, I'm 34. I wouldn't be surprised if young girls might had a different attitude.
 
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this reminds me now of this poor dummy i knew,, who was a 'closet Jehovah witness' - he would tell his son thats fags were/are nasty and to laugh and point,, and to go to the idea of HEl7 he was creating in my 'god-children's' mind at the time!,, f'N im serious - and along with these simple displays of,, idk even care to wonder what - he would spanK it to tennie girl-on-girl action...


insanity- via exterior vanity.
maybe the only sinn
as it generates the rest.

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Asclepius:
^Yup CH! It's always the simplist things that will hook one in I rekon. Then after several years, those very traits; that were once so alluring, begin to annoy the beegeezus out of one in equal measure... oh the painful Irony! Hee hee

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DOH

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oh the painful Irony
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EA-1475 said:
IME, chicks like the idea of gay/bisexual men more than actual gay/bisexual men. I've encountered plenty of women who like gay porn but I've met few women who say that they would date a bi guy.

There's the fear that one day he'll dump her and take off with some dude. Which is not entirely rational. There's just as much chance that he'll dump her for a hotter chick.

Granted, I'm 34. I wouldn't be surprised if young girls might had a different attitude.
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My ex fiance is bisexual, but with only minor experience. I love that about him, it turned me on.

But you, I'm sure there are many women who like the idea, but actually watching a guy go at the ass of another might be differnt.


But come on ladies, Jake and Heath angily and full of shame take one another....


fucking hot.
 
I'd say yes, from all the women I've spoken to. It's because gay men generally know what a hot guy looks like, so they themselves know how to look hot.

I've had more women flirt with me and ask me out than men. I think there is a certain type of woman that always falls for gay men until she learns to stop doing it. Some straight women have horrible gaydar.

The whole "metro" thing is lame. If you're a gay guy you can still spot the closet cases who are trying to be "metro". There is the odd straight guy who is ridiculously hot yet seems straight, but I've noticed a disproportionate number of metro guys are actually into men.
 
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