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Do girls think gay/bi guys are hot?

i watch gay male porn. i don't think it's necessarily because gay men know how to look hot. it's not any easier for me to find a hot gay man than a hot straight one. i am attracted to certain hair cuts and facial and body types. not...the amount of hair products used or waxing done, or whatever. i suppose a gay man might take the time to take care of himself in basic ways that make a difference more so than straight men. they might know to wear clothing that actually fits, etc, or not to wear mandals. i've never encountered a gay guy i was crushing hard on personally, apart from films. i am sure i have noticed hot gay men i did not know well enough to know were gay. i am just referring to porn really, where it is clear they are at least gay in that scenario. i find it hotter than other kinds of porn and even other kinds of sexualities, but i don't think adding myself into the mix would be hot and i think a fag hag would be a sad thing to be.
 
I don't think a guy is hot based on his sexual orientation.
Gay guys - don't do much for me since I'm a female and thus they would never be into me.
Bi guys - well my boyfriend is kinda bi. He definitely prefers females and he said he probably wouldn't want to date a male but he has fooled around with guys before. And he'd be up for a threesome with a guy.
I didn't know he was bi when I met him. Finding out he was bi didn't make him more/less hot.
So therefore, there is no different in hotness based on just a guy being bi vs. straight.
I also don't find two guys making out or doing anything else very hot. It just isn't my thing. If they are happy then I am happy for them lol but I do not get into it. Well unless it was a threesome with a girl in it. Then it would be hot.
 
No, i dont think so at all. Some of my friends think so and would show me photos of it and all but it never interested me haha.
 
I adore bi men. It doesn't really have to be labeled, I think - there's quite a few guys I know who wouldn't label themselves as "bisexual," but as open-minded or willing to try many different things.
I would much much much prefer to date a man who is bi over someone who is not.
I very much enjoy MMF threesomes :)
Come to think of it...I can't remember the last person I dated who wasn't at least a little 'bi.'

overall - being openminded and non judgemental is most important to me. even if you're not bi or interested in men, I would want somebody who wasn't a homophobe and didn't get all macho and go "oh fuckin gross fuckin homos" when they see two men together, or get hit on by a man. Take it as a compliment - you're lucky enough to be considered attractive by both sexes.
 
nekointheclouds said:
But come on ladies, Jake and Heath angily and full of shame take one another....


fucking hot.
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Pfffffft! I'd be down for that myself. The more the merrier, that's my motto. ;)

My ex certainly thought me being bi was an altogether good thing. We've had 3sums / 4sums / moresums together, she used to make this weird growling noise watching me get it on with another guy. Quite funny. I know a lot of women who find the idea of two guys together a huge turn on, and I've been fortunate enough to help with the education of a couple of women who didn't know it turned them on till they saw me and another guy go at it. I like that! Introducing someone to a new kink they never knew they had that's now there for them to explore further. So cool, whole point of swinging. I know a lot of women who also like to see guys doing the dressing up in lingerie thing, or BDSM type stuff possibly involving strap-ons and the like. My experiences may be skewed given most ( if not all ) of these women are bi themselves, and members of a swinging site. Maybe not the most representative sample here? :?

I think on the whole women like men to be in touch with what you might call their feminine side, and to be open about emotions and sexuality, things like that. Being bi kinda demonstrates those qualities to an extent perhaps, maybe that explains some of the attraction. And of course for women who are sexually attracted to males having two of them all nekkid and sexay to perv on probably helps matters too.
 
Slash5331 said:
this crossed my mind a while back, i mean well.. guys usually think lesbians are hot..

so do girls think gay/bi guys are hot?


personaly im straight lol, im just curious
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Look like they like when guy suck cock but they don't like when a men is too fag.
 
Erm, do T-Girls count? I used to fool around in Fire but never got beyond heavy petting (lithe young guys are my thing) The love of my life thought it was cool but would only go unprotective until I had a fool screening for STDs. My good friends know I get amourous when on MDMA but the mechanics of whats involved in doesn't do it for me. This said, something's wrong if you can't dig the male aesthetic but no never done the deed. Be honest, everyone has felt some attraction to their own sex. I've pissed of many a gay friend with this stance and I suppose I am sitting on the fence. Weirdly, I've picked up girls at Fire and DTPM and Le Cross. Bowie said 'Everybody's bisexual.' But the real deal doesn't do it for me. A good 'friend' was frustrated by my policy so maybe I'm a prick tease (like the sound of that!)
 
nekointheclouds said:
My ex fiance is bisexual, but with only minor experience. I love that about him, it turned me on.

But you, I'm sure there are many women who like the idea, but actually watching a guy go at the ass of another might be differnt.


But come on ladies, Jake and Heath angily and full of shame take one another....


fucking hot.
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Jake is gay and a closet queen. It would not surprise me if Heath was bisexual but not out.
 
I don't. I love the gay boys as friends but don't think I'd get turned on if I watched gay porn. Maybe if I was drunk. Lol. I dunno. I get sex on the brain while drinking.

I like manly men, so feminine qualities and attitudes of a gay boy don't get me going at all. They are like my girlfriends.
 
Lysis said:
I don't. I love the gay boys as friends but don't think I'd get turned on if I watched gay porn. Maybe if I was drunk. Lol. I dunno. I get sex on the brain while drinking.

I like manly men, so feminine qualities and attitudes of a gay boy don't get me going at all. They are like my girlfriends.
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i agree..... also the idea of being with a man who also likes to do things with other men's cocks is rather unappealing

granted this may be slightly hypocritical as i am legitamitly attracted to other women... (even though i like men more)
 
I love it! I'm a female and I love gay porn and watching men together.

But no, it's not something I look for, but I would be very happy since he'd be okay with MMF threesomes and also since I would know he'd give no fucks about what other (closed-minded) people think, which is how I am. I'd also appreciate a straight man would hook up with a guy just to try it. I adore when a man is comfortable with his sexuality and isn't at all homophobic. I hate when guys have to prove how macho they are and I feel like that's the biggest reason why many men are so uncomfortable with male bisexuality :P

My current bf isn't bi but he goes out to weird fucking parties dressed in g-strings, mesh shirts and make-up and flirts with guys. I think it's hot that he's so confident haha ^__^
 
I don't really get off on any visual porn. I prefer to read erotic fiction- no, NOT 50 shades of gray crap, but literotica, raw sexual stuff. That said, I like to read about just about anything. The concept of m-m sex and the domination that goes with it is incredibly sexy. I'm attracted to men that can throw me around and dominate me, so I'm not typically sexually attracted to feminine males. Dominant gay/bi males are hot, but the chances of them being interested in me, a very feminine female, is slim, so I focus my efforts on straight guys most of the time. But gay sex is just as hot as any other sex!
 
No, no. Don't like seeing two guys together. But two guys doing a girl is pretty hot.
 
I hate when guys have to prove how macho they are and I feel like that's the biggest reason why many men are so uncomfortable with male bisexuality.
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I don't get it. It's like even being near a bi / gay guy is a threat to their masculinity, that perhaps they too might be tarred with the same brush. I suspect some of it is down to the fact that lots of men must surely have wondered what it might be like but cannot allow themselves to dwell on that thought so go all out macho to prove to themselves they're straighter than straight. I suspect the kind of rampant homophobia that has heteros kicking gay guy's heads in is very much connected to this in some way, they take out their own fears on those that embody it in the flesh.

It's just sex. There are an infinite number of possibilities available as far as sexual pleasure goes beyond those typically available in a one-on-one M and F scenario. They are very much worth investigating, see if you like it. How do you know until you try, you might surprise yourself. I certainly did, though took me too long to get there. :)
 
I'm a guy and have a hot girlfriend. I have always been attracted to gay porn. I had a girlfriend that put the idea in my head of being with another guy would be hot to her. So I recently experience with a guy and I enjoyed it but I wouldn't date a guy. My girlfriend now is not into that what so ever. How do I go about it?!?! I haven't told anyone but my ex. I told her about it since it was her idea to start with and she was happy with me and wants to see me with another guy but not participate cause we both have new partners now.
 
Slash5331 said:
this crossed my mind a while back, i mean well.. guys usually think lesbians are hot..

so do girls think gay/bi guys are hot?


personaly im straight lol, im just curious
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Look at marylin manson. He's some frustrated person who hates society for overlooking him as a freak.

Now, credit to the guy... his music is amazing, his points are fantastic... he influences millions, but when he tries to be sexy in his videos it just isn't going to work. You can't be a frustrated goth and be sexy. It just doesn't work.

Likewise, when you gays shed your masculinity and act all camp... you can't expect to be hot as well.

Some gays are very friendly, funny lovely people.... but not hot as well. It just isn't going to work. You can't have it all

Illyria99 said:
No, no. Don't like seeing two guys together. But two guys doing a girl is pretty hot
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But is it really!? Most of the girl who do girls are only the ones desperate for attention, and those that actually do have sex and enjoy it have lot's of complications from man trouble in the past.

Not being contemptuous towards lesbians here at all, please don't misunderstand me, but i see nothing hot in lesbian sex.

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I don't get it. It's like even being near a bi / gay guy is a threat to their masculinity, that perhaps they too might be tarred with the same brush.
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I wonder sometimes if that camp persona gays have, is deliberately put on to piss off "macho men". It is a complete clash of personality; total opposite.

Of course, the macho man is going to resent the gay who acts the complete opposite to him. It's a total clash of his own macho personna, of which he puts all his pride and esteem in.
 
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