My boyfriend is a self-proclaimed anal enthusiast, but I've never done it before. I guess it always seemed, quite literally, beside the point. My girlfriends rave about it though, and say that I'm missing out. I've attempted to have a finger in there, but just hated it! It felt so intrusive and I couldn't relax even with Xanax. I'm pretty convinced that I wouldn't find it pleasurable, but I was equally convinced that I would never be able to squirt, but have (finally) been proven wrong after 27 years by my ridiculously attentive boyfriend who was committed to the cause. Wow, what a fucking revelation.
Back to this anal bizzo, i also worry about the psychological reasons he likes anal so much. Is it the taboo of it being my asshole in the sense that it 's primary function isn't actually sexual? Is it because it's the ultimate domination? Or is it simply physiological in that it's super tight? I'd appreciate your input, guys... Conversationally speaking! Haha