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Deleting Me Off This and That

If you know you want more from him and he's STILL not giving you more attention or whatever, ditch him! These things rarely change. You know what you deserve and I don't blame you for being upset because you didn't hear from him a few days if he's supposed to be a serious boyfriend. That might be ok for some people, but that's not the type of relationship you want.

Save your dignity and move on!
 
I don't want to move on, I don't want to break up, I want us to be together and if I have to be patient and wait a while to see him or I have to change I am willing to do whatever he wants or asks of me, because thats how much I care and love him.
 
alasdairm said:
if you keep doing the same thing and getting the same result, isn't there a lesson there?

alasdair
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Correct me if I'm wrong but isn't the definition of insanity doing the same thing over and over expecting a different result. Hint hint
 
mikumiku said:
This relationship is not done, him and I are just dealing with a lot of issues. He wants me to focus on me, and for me to love myself before I can love someone else. But I do love myself and I am fine and so is he. We just need to work on our communication.
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Pretty sure he is trying to get some space by saying that. I'm assuming you're not fine but OK. Maybe you should learn to love you for you.
 
Screw loving myself, I use to love being who I was, then people on forums kept bringing me down and then friends and family did the same so there is no point in loving myself anymore.
 
Stop asking juvenile silly questions and behave like the 28 yr old woman you claim to be. Learn to love yourself and have self confidence. There is nothing more unattractive than a whiney, self loathing, poor me the victim, stage 5 clinger.
 
mikumiku said:
Screw loving myself, I use to love being who I was, then people on forums kept bringing me down and then friends and family did the same so there is no point in loving myself anymore.
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you totally misunderstand the concept of loving yourself.

if you truly love yourself, a bunch of strangers on the internet can't bring you down.

alasdair
 
alasdairm said:
you totally misunderstand the concept of loving yourself.

if you truly love yourself, a bunch of strangers on the internet can't bring you down.

alasdair
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My3sons said:
Stop asking juvenile silly questions and behave like the 28 yr old woman you claim to be. Learn to love yourself and have self confidence. There is nothing more unattractive than a whiney, self loathing, poor me the victim, stage 5 clinger.
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Follow the advice both of these people gave. Learn to love yourself, or get better self esteem.

Plus, if you do break up with your boyfriend who you have sex with, it's not the end of the world as these things do happen.
 
Fuck sex, I am not having sex until I am married end of story. And my Boyfriend and I are doing much better.
 
alasdairm said:
you totally misunderstand the concept of loving yourself.

if you truly love yourself, a bunch of strangers on the internet can't bring you down.

alasdair
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Oh yes they can. You don't know what its like to be me. Always dealing with forum people picking on me and talking crap about stuff they don't even know about. My life has been hell and I have dealt with a lot of pain and suffering from online folk to real life people. I don't want to be picked on anymore. I want to be happy and yet I come here for advice and I just get beat up for it. I need a friend someone I can turn too and reply on and tell my problems too, someone that will always be there for me, love me and care for me, but yet no one wants to hear my problems or issues anymore. I don't like being alone and not being able to have someone to turn too.
 
mikumiku said:
Fuck sex, I am not having sex until I am married end of story. And my Boyfriend and I are doing much better.
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Do you still believe you are a 'virgin' while his penis is in your mouth, or up your ass? Or he's giving you oral sex? 8)

Maybe that's the reason why you fight a lot since you won't give him vaginal sex; but you do pretty much all and any other types of sex with him, and this makes him annoyed that you don't put out?
 
And why..? Denying yourself the pleasure because... reasons? Good luck finding a guy nowadays who will be happy about that, lol.
 
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