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Dating slightly nutty people

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tyranarus

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So basically theres a chick who i am interested in shes quite attractive and very nice the only thing is that shes kind of i wouldnt say crazy but nutty the kind of nutty thats develops from high amounts of psychedelic use, what im not sure of is if i should try and get emotionally involved with this chick or on likelihood of lots of emotional baggage among other things with nutty people if i should just stear clear. Thoughts?
 
I'd stay steer clear personally, especially if you're not in a position mentally where you can deal with it all. It's easy to get dragged down by other people, as when you care for someone, their feelings towards their own issues can radiate and upset us also.

On the flip side, we're all a bit "nutty" and bailing out before really getting to know someone may result in you missing out on someone special.

You're the only one that knows her, so you're the only one in a position to decide whether continuing the involvement is worth the risk or not.
 
In my experience, she's most likely a freak in the bedroom, but not somebody you'd take home to Mama. If you're attracted to her, take her for a test drive and keep it movin.
 
GenericMind said:
How will you ever know unless you give it a try?
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well yeah there is that.

Life is full of opportunities to experience things. I can't believe I'm saying this (this month of celibacy has really changed my outlook on sex etc), but if you're getting warning signals - trust your gut instinct.

ALternatively you could fuck her rotten, but try and keep it brief! Like a month of once or twice a week, if you really think she gonna drag you down with baggage, but then you're just using another human being for sex, which might not make her feel very good.
 
I've been with several "crazy" girls. Not worth it man. They will snap eventually. I agree with gm777. Crazy bitches usually have crazy good sex but beyond that, they can be...well, crazy.

I one chick try to break me apart from all of my friends as well as try to get me to get her pregnant...and I was 18. I mean, I'm just 19 now but damn, I'm not throwing away everything I have for a girl with no job, no drivers license, no GED, no ambition, nothing. Loooong story but I think that last bit is a good hint as to why she was not relationship material.
 
I love crazy bitches. Not the emotionally crazy ones though mind you. I don't like a lot of emotion. I like the crazies that are hot and emotionless, and in a sense cruel. Nothing turns me on like a cold blooded sexy girl.
 
77 words. Two sentences. 0 examples. 0 reasons to and not to.

Either "crazy bitches" are extremely alike, which is pretty ironic, or the people giving advice are projecting their own experiences. Seeing as how there is no information on your concerns, seems you don't know enough about this girl.
 
Eyes On the Roll said:
I don't like a lot of emotion. I like the crazies that are hot and emotionless, and in a sense cruel..
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Sounds like you need to start frequenting as many strip clubs as possible and takin some dancers out. Only the clubs that allow dancers to drink and do dope on the job. Crazy as fuck(daddy issues), hot(and nude!), emotionless (drunk,high,no need for support from a man, when they got sugardaddys and cash for days).

This describes a hell of a lot of dancers plus you'd have a field day and your pick of the litter.
 
gm777 said:
Sounds like you need to start frequenting as many strip clubs as possible and takin some dancers out. Only the clubs that allow dancers to drink and do dope on the job. Crazy as fuck(daddy issues), hot(and nude!), emotionless (drunk,high,no need for support from a man, when they got sugardaddys and cash for days).

This describes a hell of a lot of dancers plus you'd have a field day and your pick of the litter.
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Sounds like you have a really bad image of strippers. Not all of them are like that!!!

Anyway, many people are "nutty" in their own way. It really depends if you want to go for it.
 
llama112 said:
Sounds like you have a really bad image of strippers. Not all of them are like that!!!

Anyway, many people are "nutty" in their own way. It really depends if you want to go for it.
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+1

There's a big difference between slightly nutty and batshit crazy.

Either way, though, it should be on your bucket list to have the batshit crazy experience at least once in your life.
 
llama112 said:
Sounds like you have a really bad image of strippers. Not all of them are like that!!!

Anyway, many people are "nutty" in their own way. It really depends if you want to go for it.
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I don't remember saying "all of them"... I said "that describes a hell of a lot of dancers"...and I also happen to have a bit of experience in the matter of dancers/entertainers as I've had more than a few sexual encounters in the form of one/two night stands. I alslo dated 2 long term, one being my longest relationship to this day with one exception being my marriage to my wife who was, you guessed it...a dancer.

These women's personalities ranged from well grounded, sound minded college students with drive and career aspirations, only dancing to pay tuition, all the way across the board to thd bisexual nympho freak of nature persuading me to participate in threesomes, foursomes with her girlfriends in the beginning, to an insanely scary type of jealous stalker who I actually had to bring charges against and have arrested for breaking into my house and stealing personal shit from me and placing her pictures in my bed sheets and pillow cases. Also a few other items placed sporadically that I'd rather not mention. She still calls me to this day, offering to blow me, send graphic nudity to my phone in pics and vids begging me to sleep with her...and this was 15 yrs ago.

Its unfortunate that sarcasm doesn't translate online. I shouldve used a emiticon or wtf you call those after the dope fiend drunken daddy issue part of my post. Although they do exist, I wasn't implying a stereotype on every "stripper" as you called them too (which Is offensive to some). And as you can now see I don't discriminate at all when it comes to dancers. Who am I to judge? I'm worse than most with my reckless sexual promiscuity of my youth. I actually do love and prefer a take charge, sexually empowered female, who is honest with herself and knows who she is. That let's me see she already knows what she wants and needs and has skills and experience to get the job done. Let's face it,we aint gettin no younger, and practice is time consuming. I prefer the professional.
 
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Gm777:
The thing is, I'm not very sexual. Although, I am gifted, I get quite disgusted when it comes to sex. I like teasing more. I'm not into the slutty type as you mentioned; the dancers. But, their personality definitely fits my criteria. To explain further, I love the aristocratic bitch that doesn't give a shit about anyone elses feelings. For example, take Kathryn Mertuil from Cruel Intentions for example. If you haven't seen it, then look her up. That is someone I can certainly relate to.
 
In my book most people are slightly nutty. Praise the lord! Maybe you should try getting in touch with your inner nut and relaxing!
 
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