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Last night my girl said to me "I'm really tired but I'll give you sex babe"

How do you guys feel about this? I prefer sex to be mutual, and it simply isnt as hot when she doesnt seem to want it or be into it. Eventually she was in the mood and was actually really wet. She said it's not that she didn't want sex, she was just exhausted.

Just trying to get thoughts from guys on this. Although a girls opinion on this whole situation would be appreciated since it is impossible to decipher what girls really mean.
 
id never fuck someone if they said that. whats the point of sex if it isnt a mutual exchange? the laws of the universe tend not to favor such relationships.

besides, waiting until youre both in the mood would yield much better results. why teach your body that boring sex is 'normal' ? not much of a point in jacking off with someone else's body.

it really pains me when women think they "have to" please men. everything works much better the other way around. i find it really unattractive when a women does things only to please a man (note: this is not the same as being sexually submissive - thats still sexual! im talking about having sex when you dont want to...). Women should respect themselves more, and hate the world they live in that conditions them to think otherwise.
 
Last night my girl said to me "I'm really tired but I'll give you sex babe"

How do you guys feel about this? I prefer sex to be mutual, and it simply isnt as hot when she doesnt seem to want it or be into it. Eventually she was in the mood and was actually really wet. She said it's not that she didn't want sex, she was just exhausted.

Just trying to get thoughts from guys on this. Although a girls opinion on this whole situation would be appreciated since it is impossible to decipher what girls really mean.

Kinda depends. I mean, I've been tired before and once we get going I'm not tired anymore. I'm sure it's the same for you guys. You're tired, but once it gets hard, sex is more important than tired. %)
 
I've been courting this chick for 4 weeks, my patience is starting to run dry. :\ She's a really nice girl tho...
 
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I just got confirmation that I am in the friend zone. :/ I did make a move a few times and got mixed signals.

Regardless, I already started dating another chick. =D And thing are going much quicker with her. :) She happens to be a dentist and she has her own apartment.
 
Hugs CH <3

I have a new respect for you after seeing ummm that thread with your pic in our private area. LOL All I got to say is WOW. =D
 
So i think a "lack of sex love relationships" forum would be nice
it would be relevant to me at least
 
^ You're still young mate. When you're ready things will happen.

There is definitely something behind the law of attraction. :)
 
i've been wanting to experiment with a threesome lately...but i'd want it to be with two guys, of course, and that's a little harder to do. i imagine it's quite a delicate turn of events to get two straight males drunk/fucked up enough to not mind the other one being there during some hot action with a girl they'd much rather not share with some other dude, hahaha. but i've always wanted to be able to feel what simultaneous vaginal AND oral sex feels like...holy amazingness. things like that just don't happen easily in real life, especially when you have standards LOL
 
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