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Bomboclat said:
I had a really intense sex dream last night. The only thing is, its only made me feel depressed, and here's why:

1.) I havent had a sex dream in ages
2.) It was about the man I was in love with for a while of my life who no longer wants to speak to me because im an asshole

The whole thing really upset me and ive been horny and upset all day. :(
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Weird. I just came to this thread to express the same thing, and I really don't know what it means. I was on a trip with a bunch of people (family included) and I went to a place and has awesome sex with Eric from True Blood. God, he's so hot. lol

I don't know what it means, but I have the same problem now. Horny. lol
 
Let's talk about misogyny real quick before I go,

It seems, the word "misogynistic" is getting tossed awfully easily around here. MyFinalRest is not a misogynist. Even though he has given some upsetting "advice" to or disagreed with certain women or certain types of women, it's not about some "general dislike of women." Whatever he is, he probably really is, but MyFinalRest is no misogynist!

Now let's analyze this quote for example. I was offended by it's misogynistic underpinnings.
Care said:
Grabbing her head and "mouthfucking" her is also pretty hot, usually gets me there. Best done when she is on her knees and you are standing.
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Now, I would never do this to a woman, not even a female police officer. Nobody could possibly enjoy having a penis shoved into the back of their mouth and gagging on it. In fact I can only imagine a few things more brutal and chauvinistic than this.

Nor, would I ever use a woman for sex. I've has a couple of shitty relationships that were little more than sexual, but I honestly tried to connect with the girls. How could you be like, "I don't really care about you and don't want to really become close with you, I just want to use you for sex"? I could never be that shitty to a woman.
 
Hi there, I'm a lover. What is this thread about exactly and how does it work? What do we post, and talk about? I don't get it.
 
From the first page of thread:
drugfukkdrockstar said:
Though we still have to oblige with the forum guidelines, so no "hey sexy a/s/l?'' pwoise! As this is not an adult dating service thread - but feel free to talk a bit of cod shit if you will, and feel free to discuss issues in here of which you feel has been done to death already and no need to start a whole thread about it again.

We're all friends here, so let's all play nicely together and pretend to buy each other drinks n' shit... yeah! <3
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Well, I'd like to think we could all be friends<3, but sometimes it doesn't work out like that. And, don't try to buy me any fucking drinks! I don't use any intoxicating substances anymore...no not even just for this one occasion...can you fucking drop it already? ...I DON'T GET FUCKED UP ANYMORE, NOT EVEN ON PEACH SCHNAPPS!!!
 
^damn dude, it sounds like you need to relax and "have a drink"

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MFR: Bartender! I'll just have an Evian...thank you. Don't worry, I'll be okay.
 
Ooooooh, cute soccer boys. Oh I love Spanish men who are athletic. One was flirting with me while I was at boot camp, and he was so hot. Oh dear. You can't date them, because they are cheaters and playerrrs, but oh they are so good at other things and fun to look at. Spanish+plays_soccer= Lysis_love
 
My girlfriend (now ex) lets me know that she gets texts from other guys saying things like, "lets fuck," perhaps once a month-- she described them as "indicating value." Clearly, this is a symptom of her propensity to fuck just about anything that moves. Last night she tells me that a guy asked her to spend the weekend at a beach resort with him-- then I find out that it is the same guy she drove an hour to meet after I had been living with her for a month. That was back in November, and she clearly described it as "meeting a friend." Last night, she tells me that that get-together was with a "girlfriend"-- at this point I flipped shit because I heard her talking with a man on phone. Ends up the "Checkin" on Facebook with the guy that she used to fuck--yeah, that guy that is 10 years older--was also a date. She lied to me about that earlier as well, telling me that they went to talk about a friend that was in rehab. To compound all that, I asked what she responded to the guy that asked her to join him at the beach: "Oh I don't know if I can-- I'd have to give two weeks notice at work to take off the weekend"; not, "No I don't want to, I have a boyfriend that I (supposedly) love."

All I can say is: fuck you you fucking whore, you don't love me and you never did.

Oh, and we start our year lease on a one-bedroom apartment in 4 days!
 
Actually, Changed, tell her what you posted - word for word, and see how she handles it. Maybe she's capable of changing and remianing faithful to you, but if she just gets pissed and tells you to "go fuck yourself" or something like that, then get rid of her for real.
 
We had a huge blow up last night-- figured it was pretty much over. She explained the situation: I guess we weren't technically "together" at that point, and she saw these guys to tell them she was dating me. She still gets the texts from these guys and responds to them in less than negatory fashion, in addition to her lying to me, which is really what pisses me off. On the other hand, I know she hasn't and won't cheat on me, and I know that she is desperately in love with me-- and, sadly, I'm still in love with her. I wrote her a fucking 10 page essay this morning and she broke down after reading it.

I'm going to give her a second chance, because really, we're ridiculously compatible. I need to work on my insecurities and jealousy, however, because I've been subconsciously trying to fuck this up for weeks... We move in (early) on Monday to our new apartment, and she starts class on Tuesday, so the situation should improve dramatically (being located in an infinitely more enjoyable area of the city where I can regain my independence).

we'll see how it goes...
 
Do BL'ers make bad lovers because they are/were drug users?

In addition to confirming high levels of negative affect and impulsive traits, this study highlights the links between drug use and low Conscientiousness. These links provide insight into the etiology of drug use and have implications for public health interventions.
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http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2373294/
 
or it's the other way round, ppl with such a personality are more likely to use drugs?
 
I sometimes thought I did, then I quit using drugs and found out that I didn't have any personality or other problems that required them. Being on the shit made me much worse than I would have been. But, you aren't wrong either, and people can be like that without or before using drugs. And, don't forget, alcohol still counts as serious drug use.

If the study rings true, then people with negativity, poor impulse control, and low conscientiousness, aren't likely to take others in their lives into much consideration beyonf their own pleasure. Although people these days emphasize self-esteem and how one feels about themself to be an indicator of success in a relationship, I still think it is much more about how one feels about others, and no matter how down I felt about myself, I never seriously let it interfere with how I treated people that loved me.
 
Eharmony is supposed to be some great e-dating site, but I checked it out, and it's the stupidest attempt at match-making I've ever seen. If Dr. Clark developed that personality questionaire, he's a fucking idiot!
 
Changed said:
My girlfriend (now ex) lets me know that she gets texts from other guys saying things like, "lets fuck," perhaps once a month-- she described them as "indicating value." Clearly, this is a symptom of her propensity to fuck just about anything that moves. Last night she tells me that a guy asked her to spend the weekend at a beach resort with him-- then I find out that it is the same guy she drove an hour to meet after I had been living with her for a month. That was back in November, and she clearly described it as "meeting a friend." Last night, she tells me that that get-together was with a "girlfriend"-- at this point I flipped shit because I heard her talking with a man on phone. Ends up the "Checkin" on Facebook with the guy that she used to fuck--yeah, that guy that is 10 years older--was also a date. She lied to me about that earlier as well, telling me that they went to talk about a friend that was in rehab. To compound all that, I asked what she responded to the guy that asked her to join him at the beach: "Oh I don't know if I can-- I'd have to give two weeks notice at work to take off the weekend"; not, "No I don't want to, I have a boyfriend that I (supposedly) love."

All I can say is: fuck you you fucking whore, you don't love me and you never did.

Oh, and we start our year lease on a one-bedroom apartment in 4 days!
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Holy shit, Changed! OMG! Dude, I'm so sorry. Damn...2012 is not starting off a good year for BLers. I'm so sorry.
 
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