I don't think all peadophiles are the same lol.
Also, I have a (again, controversial yet brave) very different opinion on paedophiles and actual child molesters.
I feel sorry for paedophiles who never ever EVER act upon it. Like they must live in constant fear, even though they never actually harm a child or look at child porn etc...they probably HATE themselves as much as everyone else hates them, they'll never have a satisfying or normal love life. Like, often I think even if they did try and find someone their own age, they just wouldn't be attracted to them. Oftentimes it's not JUST a sexual thing, they have like romantic feelings for kids too. I dunno, I just think it must be such a sad, lonely life. And it's not like sexuality is every a CHOICE
However, the second they actually lay a finger on a child I immediately lose all sympathy. When I was 13 I had a "consensual" relationship with a 19 year old. It didn't feel like abuse at the time and I don't have trauma from it, but it still fucked me up.