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Cuddling a female trait or do other man do it

neoblazing

neoblazing

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Hi bluelighters

I was wondering do any other guys enjoy cuddling with your partner whether there naked your not? I have always enjoyed it but outside my relationships with my partners I'm a fairly aggressive person and have personal space issues so most people can't believe I'm a cuddly sort of person any thoughts?
 
My boyfriend is VERY cuddly. Probably even moreso than myself, and I do like cuddling :P But he's a really touchy-feely type guy and he loves cuddling - naked or not. While it may not be as "socially acceptable" for males to enjoy cuddling, I definitely think many do :)
 
I love cuddling, probably just as much as sex honestly. It is very... Intimate. I really like being very "close" to the person I am with, and I feel so close that way. Even when my X and I would fight so bad, and hated each other, even toward the end, we cuddled every single night and would not let go until we woke up. It is definitely something men love as well, for me at least.
 
I don't think it's a female-only trait, or if a guy does it, it is not masculine...

because I love cuddles. sign me up for some post-sex cuddles any day n night of the week
 
I'm a male and I love cuddling. I'm very affectionate with the person I love and there's nothing im-masculine with expressing your love with your SO, as long as your not being creepy and constantly feeling your girl up, girls like their space too...
 
Its more just a male stereotype and most guys not wanting to admit it. I love cuddling
 
neoblazing said:
I have always enjoyed it but outside my relationships with my partners I'm a fairly aggressive person and have personal space issues so most people can't believe I'm a cuddly sort of person any thoughts?
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I don't think that's uncommon. I don't like physical contact out of a relationship; I'm the opposite of touchy feely. The greeting hug/kiss causes me so much angst. But when I have a partner, I love cuddling. Maybe it's all this pent up affection that I only ever express on one person that makes me so cuddly in a relationship, haha.
 
i am a male and i love cuddling with my woman after sex. it is because i love her so much and her body is so warm and she smells good... i don't know specifically why but i love cuddling:)
 
I don't think it's uncommon. My boyfriend is extremely cuddly and he is also very masculine. I think intimacy is essential to a healthy relationship and cuddling can certainly be intimate and close behavior. For the most part, who the hell cares what society thinks? I'd rather not live my life to the unrealistic expectations of others.
 
I like to cuddle.

It can make me catch feelings though. So I try not to cuddle one offs.

:)
 
As long as its an appropriate moment, nothing worse than attention whore cuddler wanting to drape on you because they aren't the centre of your attention for 2 minutes. Even if you aren't the recipient those cuddles are always painful
 
The tolerance of touching physically seems to vary a lot from country to country.
People in the UK certainly used to be terrified if you gave them a kiss on the cheek, maybe that's got better.
Indians who are friends often walk hand in hand, even though there is no sexual relationship.
 
When I'm tired cuddling is cake. When I'm energetic cuddling is frustrating (or sometimes when I'm lucky it's foreplay).
 
llama112 said:
My boyfriend is VERY cuddly. Probably even moreso than myself, and I do like cuddling :P But he's a really touchy-feely type guy and he loves cuddling - naked or not. While it may not be as "socially acceptable" for males to enjoy cuddling, I definitely think many do :)
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same, my bf is too cuddly but sometimes it's too much.. I mean I don't mind it but I think I'm just not that sweet lol. Also too, I don't like public display of affection or to be too touchy in public, kinda makes me feel that he's being too barfy =D
 
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