Crystal dick and propranolol

[Knowledgeispower!]

So my fiancé and I randomly have chemsex date nights. He obviously ends up with crystal dick. I give him oral for 8-10 hours and it’s hard while I’m doing it but as soon as we try to have sex it gets soft again. I read on here that propranolol helps and I have a ton of it but we’re not sure how much he should take. We do all of the other tips and it helps enough to get semi hard to go one round at some point but even that’s super frustrating. We’re definitely not mixing Viagra. We want to have fun...not kill him. Lol.

 

[ControlDaddy]

I have been using generic Viagra and stimfapping (amp and methamp) for about five years ago. For the fifteen preceding years I would have sex or fap on meth without an ED drug. When I started having issues with erections, I was prescribed Cialis and then Viagra. My doctor said it was probably safer, the vasodilation of the sildenafil counteracting the constriction caused by the speed in my heart. It's the same thing for cocks. I have difficulty with erections when not medicating or abusing stims and use a lot of sildenafil every month (4*50mg).

TBH I have been coming to find that my issues with erections were more psychological and sexual than drug related. Over the last five years I became more and more interested in porn, even to the point of fetishizing it. There was a point where I started having difficulties getting an erection trying to have sober or stimsex with my hot wife. Unless, and this is important, she played to my fetishes and porn fantasies, or was letting my make our own pornography, which ended up being the most exciting pornography in my collection for a long long time. Eventually, I started to desensitize to the excitement of my fetishes, and then porn in general, and now I sometimes just have no interest in porn and thus no interest in fapping. (For personal reasons I haven't been pursuing anything but a 100% solo sex life lol.)

I would bet that since your husband is hot and hard for you oral, but not for intercourse, it isn't a drug side effect but a psychosexual one. My suggestion, talk it over, share some secrets and fantasies, push yourselves a little to trust each other more, and you will have a breakthrough that isn't ED drugs or propanolol.

I have a bottle of propanolol and I will see if it helps me, and report on this thread. It is a fully different method of slowing down the CV system which someone else can explain, I think it is a beta blocker.

What chems are you augmenting your sex with?

 

[ControlDaddy]

I have safely taken the prescribed daily dosage of propanolol at once many times (instead of spread out over three intervals as prescribed). In my experiment that is what I will try.

 

[Knowledgeispower!]

I have been using generic Viagra and stimfapping (amp and methamp) for about five years ago. For the fifteen preceding years I would have sex or fap on meth without an ED drug. When I started having issues with erections, I was prescribed Cialis and then Viagra. My doctor said it was probably safer, the vasodilation of the sildenafil counteracting the constriction caused by the speed in my heart. It's the same thing for cocks. I have difficulty with erections when not medicating or abusing stims and use a lot of sildenafil every month (4*50mg).

TBH I have been coming to find that my issues with erections were more psychological and sexual than drug related. Over the last five years I became more and more interested in porn, even to the point of fetishizing it. There was a point where I started having difficulties getting an erection trying to have sober or stimsex with my hot wife. Unless, and this is important, she played to my fetishes and porn fantasies, or was letting my make our own pornography, which ended up being the most exciting pornography in my collection for a long long time. Eventually, I started to desensitize to the excitement of my fetishes, and then porn in general, and now I sometimes just have no interest in porn and thus no interest in fapping. (For personal reasons I haven't been pursuing anything but a 100% solo sex life lol.)

I would bet that since your husband is hot and hard for you oral, but not for intercourse, it isn't a drug side effect but a psychosexual one. My suggestion, talk it over, share some secrets and fantasies, push yourselves a little to trust each other more, and you will have a breakthrough that isn't ED drugs or propanolol.

I have a bottle of propanolol and I will see if it helps me, and report on this thread. It is a fully different method of slowing down the CV system which someone else can explain, I think it is a beta blocker.

What chems are you augmenting your sex with?

Crystal. We’ve used herbal supplements for erections and they helped a little. Actually we were able to have sex twice in one night on them and that never happens. He does have to keep porn on...or so he thinks. We have been making videos and when I’m spun I’m obviously a lot more open and free...and really enjoy taking pictures and videos knowing he’ll watch them later...so we’re working on building a collection. I’m really ok with hours of oral on him too but he gets frustrated because he wants to fuck me so bad. I told him I think the frustration is making it worse. Maybe if we start out by saying no fucking and just see if it helps? We really have an amazing sex life even without chemicals and I know Crystal dick is super common. Actually he’s even able to get off without being hard...but traditional sex is really what he wants more than anything. We’re open to any and all suggestions. I honestly just get off on being able to get him to that point and watching his face so it’s really about him and I’m willing to try anything.

 

[ControlDaddy]

If it’s hard when you give oral then just hop on it, am I missing something

Yeah, I'll bet a Canadian dollar it gets soft in the transition or soon after. Cocks are weird bedmates, and there is no talking sense with them.

 

[Jabberwocky]

The getting hard with oral but instantly going soft on attempting penetration has been my experience with crystal many times. Interesting to know others have the same issue.

 

[ControlDaddy]

Crystal. We’ve used herbal supplements for erections and they helped a little. Actually we were able to have sex twice in one night on them and that never happens. He does have to keep porn on...or so he thinks. We have been making videos and when I’m spun I’m obviously a lot more open and free...and really enjoy taking pictures and videos knowing he’ll watch them later...so we’re working on building a collection. I’m really ok with hours of oral on him too but he gets frustrated because he wants to fuck me so bad. I told him I think the frustration is making it worse. Maybe if we start out by saying no fucking and just see if it helps? We really have an amazing sex life even without chemicals and I know Crystal dick is super common. Actually he’s even able to get off without being hard...but traditional sex is really what he wants more than anything. We’re open to any and all suggestions. I honestly just get off on being able to get him to that point and watching his face so it’s really about him and I’m willing to try anything.

So in an 8-10 hour oral session (you go girl!), is he getting close/getting off a bunch/getting off at the end/just getting frustrated?

How is intercourse lately without Crystal in terms of his erection? If I were in his shoes and if that is not an issue, I would get some tape of that for me to watch and get off on where its easy, alone with the lube I like and whatever other kinks and rituals are mine. I gotta have a connection these days between my fantasy lives (mostly based on porn) and my actual sex life with a partner. Once that is assimilated as hot af in me, I bet it would transfer to real life too.

I have some tape of my ex playing with a hitachi, asking me to put some fingers in there for her, and then her cumming on them. It was our go to to get me aroused when I had trouble because I didn't see my wife come that much, ever. Once I was amped up by that, I could pound her hard and in every direction with a big one.

edit: shoes

 

[ControlDaddy]

Oh yeah, I am surprised no one has mentioned this. Back in my twenties when I had sex partners that also used crystal, I learned it didn't take much to get the sexual super power, and that if I was close to thwacked or already spun, I didn't make a great lover. I remember the women, usually boofing, more than a point at once, whereas it was best for me to just have 3-4 hits.

 

[PriestTheyCalledHim]

Put a dildo up his ass, or put a vibrator against his anus, or work up to anal fisting.

 

[ControlDaddy]

Gave propranolol a quick trial run.
I took 60mg of propranolol.
I waited 15 minutes.
I masturbated.

I really do think it was helpful. I had a higher quality erection quicker than I am used to. You probably don't want to hear much beyond that. I am sure it didn't work against me.

 

[Knowledgeispower!]

The getting hard with oral but instantly going soft on attempting penetration has been my experience with crystal many times. Interesting to know others have the same issue.

I try to do a ton of research before I get into anything. From what I’ve read it’s super common because it constricts blood flow...which is why sucking on it helps. The propranolol is supposed to counteract the effects. We are pretty careful about mixing things so no ED meds. I don’t want him to die inside of me. Lol.

 

[Knowledgeispower!]

Yeah, I'll bet a Canadian dollar it gets soft in the transition or soon after. Cocks are weird bedmates, and there is no talking sense with them.

That’s exactly what happens. It has to be a 10 seconds or less transition or it starts getting soft. If he gets it in we’re good...and it’s amazing. It’s just getting there. He threatened to tape an ink pen to it last time.

 

[Jabberwocky]

What about using a silicon cock ring? Slip it on him while the sucking is working. It might extend out the 10 second critical period.

 

[Knowledgeispower!]

So in an 8-10 hour oral session (you go girl!), is he getting close/getting off a bunch/getting off at the end/just getting frustrated?

How is intercourse lately without Crystal in terms of his erection? If I were in his shoes and if that is not an issue, I would get some tape of that for me to watch and get off on where its easy, alone with the lube I like and whatever other kinks and rituals are mine. I gotta have a connection these days between my fantasy lives (mostly based on porn) and my actual sex life with a partner. Once that is assimilated as hot af in me, I bet it would transfer to real life too.

I have some tape of my ex playing with a hitachi, asking me to put some fingers in there for her, and then her cumming on them. It was our go to to get me aroused when I had trouble because I didn't see my wife come that much, ever. Once I was amped up by that, I could pound her hard and in every direction with a big one.

edit: shoes

Our sex life has actually improved even off chemicals. It took away our inability to explore all of the things we fantasized about but never brought up...me especially. The added sensitivity has made me understand both of our bodies more so it’s easier to do exactly the right things at the right time. I’ve heard it destroys sex lives but we really only split a half g a couple of times a month. It’s a night and the next day usually...then we sleep. I’m pretty good an using recreationally and keeping it in check.

 

[Knowledgeispower!]

What about using a silicon cock ring? Slip it on him while the sucking is working. It might extend out the 10 second critical period.

We’ve tried all of that. He actually had a cock ring on so long his penis got cold to the touch. Taking breaks and hydration have helped but it’s still just not hard enough for penetration usually. Close but not quite.

 

[Knowledgeispower!]

Put a dildo up his ass, or put a vibrator against his anus, or work up to anal fisting.

It helps but doesn’t get him all the way hard. Really suction works the best but 10 seconds or less after it’s out of my mouth we’re back to square one.

 

[Knowledgeispower!]

Oh yeah, I am surprised no one has mentioned this. Back in my twenties when I had sex partners that also used crystal, I learned it didn't take much to get the sexual super power, and that if I was close to thwacked or already spun, I didn't make a great lover. I remember the women, usually boofing, more than a point at once, whereas it was best for me to just have 3-4 hits.

I want to try boofing (we call it plugging when I’ve heard it here). I’m not sure how much to take though and I’m not experienced enough yet to know how much I should use compared to my typical line. I’m an up the nose girl. Lol.

 

[PriestTheyCalledHim]

I want to try boofing (we call it plugging when I’ve heard it here). I’m not sure how much to take though and I’m not experienced enough yet to know how much I should use compared to my typical line. I’m an up the nose girl. Lol.

I never plugged/boofed anything but be extremely careful, it is basically apparently like IV'ing drugs.

 

[ControlDaddy]

I want to try boofing (we call it plugging when I’ve heard it here). I’m not sure how much to take though and I’m not experienced enough yet to know how much I should use compared to my typical line. I’m an up the nose girl. Lol.

Plenty of threads on that here, and yes for search terms use plugging, it is more common. Be prepared for the inversion of your current problem, it may be hard for you to mount him or for him to penetrate you before you finish having an orgasm. I used to be so ready to go, everything in position, and we still only managed to get the timing right half the time.

 

[atara]

I give him oral for 8-10 hours and it’s hard while I’m doing it but as soon as we try to have sex it gets soft again.

could be cold