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Crazy Ex Girlfriend Help Wanted

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KevinYEP

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I need some advice about having a crazy ex-girlfriend, she literally has torn me down for 2 and a half years but some reason I still have a side of me that loves her.

Recently, she has claimed pregnancy with me. There was period of time were we weren't talking to each other but then she came back into my life and we started hooking up again. I am absolutely stupid because she convinced me she couldn't have children, she said she enjoys when a guy cums inside of her. "I said hell no, till the moment I was about to cum, she said the dirtiest thing and I did". A couple of days later we had a huge argument and she told me that she lied about taking birth control and about the story of her getting pregnant. Then I found out some other lies she told me, and I BLOCKED HER AGAIN! Of course a week later, she texts me "I'm 100% sure I'm pregnant, what are we going to do about this? (Showed me a pic of a positive pregnancy test) I started freaking out but I knew from the past that she claimed pregnancy on a bunch of guys. Is this real? I needed to try and comfort myself so I actually found a way into her Facebook and I saw that she got back with her ex boyfriend 2 months ago -claimed pregnancy on him. I decided to call him and ask him about everything and he said that right at this moment (when I called him), she texted him "I'm 100% sure I'm pregnant". So she has been texting me and her other ex boyfriend saying she's pregnant. All of her friends said that she was too, is she? If she is, is it the other guys?

She Has Done All Of The Following To Me:
-Claimed pregnancy and rape on every guy she's been with
-Had sex with a friend of mine..on my bed the day after we broke up
-She stormed out of my families house the first time she met them
-texted her ex boyfriends, other guys, throughout our history of dating each other
-broke a jar she knew my grandma gave me (died of lung cancer)
-lied about people she been with
-lied
-lied

Since I told you the dark side about her, it's time to tell the good side about her. We met each other in college and really became really close and actually fell in love with each other. She has a lot of mental issues but I helped her by getting her to TALK TO A COUNSELOR, and MEDICATION. When we were dating, things were great, besides the fact that she was always communicating to old boyfriends or other guys. But I've been with many girls and I know she did love me, I just felt like she didn't know what she wanted. So we ended up breaking up, actually she broke up with me just because she wanted me to beg for her (attention whore). I decided to go get with another girl since she was playing games with me, I mean she broke up with me. She found out and was devastated, so she came to a party at my house really drunk and ended up fucking one of my friends on my bed. (Yeah, what!) She claimed he raped her the next day after I clued things together. Now a year has passed and we've been having a 50% hate and 50% love kind of sexual friendship. Now at this moment she has claimed pregnancy. From everything I've said, what is some advice for me besides (stop being a bitch) or (stop being a pussy). Is she pregnant? Does she love me? Is he going to do worse to me? Kill me? How do I escape her? Like damn.?
 
1. Given her track record I don't think it would be unreasonable to ask her to do a pregnancy test. Say you want to meet up with her to talk about things. Take a pregnancy test with you without telling her, ask her to do it there and then.

2. Comes back positive.....well then you are going to have to work out the issue of who the father is and go forwards from there. Comes back negative....walk out and never say a single word to her ever again.


It might be worth running a reverse image search on the pic she sent you before going through all that, for all you know she's just pulled it off the net.
 
Run don't walk... find someone healthy to love.

She sounds like the female version of an abusive partner. Its all about control with these people. Show her how much of a "pussy bitch" your not and kick off into the clear blue sky and never look back.
 
Man, date and love 101. She loves herself, that's for sure. And don't be offended, but she's a slut in more ways than one. If you can get other girls, I would strongly advise that you do that and leave her behind. Nothing but drama will come with that package.

Don't fall for her antics either. It's her way of controlling you and the situation. Most girls of that type do that whole "it's okay for me to do ___, but not you!" are just immature and will prey on your weaknesses if you let them.

Also consider getting yourself checked out. You don't know what she might have and possibly given it to you. She may love you in her own twisted way, but it's not healthy for you or her. Try having a platonic relationship if you really care for her, and since you're the guy you can prevent anything sexual from happening. Although girls like that tend to go away once you stop giving them what they want, if she's committed to fixing herself then she'll appreciate your efforts.
 
WOW

can you not just cease all contact with her

cut her out of your life and dont look back. liars are the worst
 
Get her out of your life. She's doing nothing but mess up your life, seriously.
Easier said than done but still. You need to do it.
 
Crazy Ex Girlfriend Help

My ex-girlfriend is claiming she's pregnant with me after two and half weeks of having sex. I found out that two days ago, she texted her other ex-boyfriend saying she's pregnant with him. I actually called that guy up and asked him about everything and he said that a while back, she claimed pregnancy on him (she claims she had a miscarriage). I also found out that she's claimed pregnancy on a bunch of other guys she's been with. She'll find pictures of positive tests, and send them it in a text. But now, here I am, I broke up with her a while ago but then my penis started doing my thinking and I ended up having sex with her. Even worse, she told me that a doctor said that she couldn't have children and that one of her aunts has this disease that prevents her from having children. She then told me she wanted me to cum inside her and I said "NO WAY!". But as a male, when a woman says something really dirty in bed...you really can't resist, so I actually sort of came inside her. The moment after, I told her to take two birth controls or what not and she said she would. Once again I trusted her and it bit me in the ass because a week later she told me she actually wasn't using birth control.....also that she's afraid of losing me. We got into a huge argument and she said that I shouldn't worry because she's pregnant with the other guy already. That led me into hacking her facebook and there it was, she claimed pregnancy on that guy. Did you get all of that? Like yeah holly shit this is my life

Anyways, two days ago she called me and said she was pregnant. She also told her other ex-boyfriend that as well at the same time. Now it's two days later and she came to my apartment, took a pregnancy test and it came up positive. (is there fake pregnancy methods or products?) She also came with a paper saying she had an appointment and an ultra-sound. None of the papers really stated that she was pregnant, but she did come with a bunch of papers and stuff. I freaked out, called the other guy and asked him if she has contacted him today, he said NO!.

I really need help!
1. Is she faking pregnancy?
2. Is it my child?
3. What the hell is going on?
 
Next time just post on your original thread instead of creating a new one, since they're nearly identical and dealing with the same problem.
 
If she has a baby get a DNA test. If you don't wanna stop being a bitch/pussy you could get a restraining order or something like that. Oh and stop having sex with her.
 
This situation sounds like some Jerry Springer/Maury type of stuff.

For your own sanity you need to cut contact with her. If she is pregnant and you are the father then you have to deal with either raising a child together or if she chooses not to have it, then explore abortion or adoption.

Like said by others you need confirmation that she is pregnant before you make any decisions.. Good luck.
 
Even with plenty of experience with crazy girls, I am no wiser from it.

Go to the doctor and see if she's for real preggers with your kid.
If not, don't talk to her again.

If so-- have fun.
 
I would check this girl and tell her straight up, "If you think you're pregnant then grab your purse and lets go to the clinic/doctor/rite-aid pharmacy"...Then hit up all the other guys that she claims to be pregnant with and tell them to come too. She clearly thinks this shit is ok and its because she's never had to take much responsibility for pretending to be pregnant. Run from this girl. If you actually believe this messy ass chick is pregnant then you gotta call her on it and have her pee on that stick in front of you. Any dumbass can find a pic of a positive pregnancy test on the internet. If she really has been raped then give her some rape hotline numbers or research a support group. You NEED to wipe your hands of her! You are not her parents, you are not her therapist and you are not her boyfriend. You don't have to be a huge dick about it, but tell her in an adult way that you can no longer have ANY communication with her and that if she doesnt stop contacting you that you will take further action like call the cops or get a restraining order. It sounds harsh but she seems like someone who had gone over the damn edge. She has no limits to what she is willing to do to get a guys attention and this is dangerous. Just tell yourself thats she's a dusty old tramp for now and move on!
 
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