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Confusing casual relationship

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Lilia

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Ok so advice here because I'm stumped!
Guy I've been seeing on a purely sexual basis sex is great btw until we stumbled into the "where is this going" area- from what I gathered initially it's a classic fuck buddy situation however lately it seems to have morphed the lines into a friends with benefits kind of scenario. Sex has stopped- but we still hang out watch movies etc and enjoy each others company- I decided recently to tell him that we should call it off but this is where it gets odd- he thinks it's silly and that we should keep seeing each other as friends and see whether the sexual stuff reinitiates... Wierd right? Am I being played? What's the go? We both are seeing other people but are very respectful of each others space and limits-
What's ur take?
 
well at least your not pregnant right? i wouldn't label yourself. stronger then that right?
 
If your first instinct is to call it off you should stick with it. Unless, you were just trying to force him to rekindle the sex then you got what you wanted. He is probably not playing you men become comfortable in a fuck buddy relationship and don't need to change it because their needs are met.
 
Thing is when I went to call it he said to keep the sex thing out of it till it happens again naturally..... Kinda doesn't fit with the whole fb kinda deal right? Surely if he was just after one thing me calling it would have been in his best interest considering the sex part of things has come to a halt. Thought I was giving him an easy out- kinda threw me when he still wants to catch up on a purely friends basis even stranger that this started out purely physical no strings kinda deal.
 
Most times I find f/b situations one of the persons involved ends up developing feelings. Maybe he wants to be more than friends and that's why he's slowing down sex because he wants to get to know you? Who knows? As long as things don't get awkward.
 
At the end of the day I guess I want a relationship but he made it clear that's not what he wants so its kinda an odd one- I decided to call it simply because it was getting awkward and I started developing feelings.... Hence me calling it off-
 
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