Confused crazy stupid me

[Crazystupidflirt]

We held eye contact for 10 seconds, I turned away but had a huge smile on my face, he was smiling the whole time. He wants me I can tell. I like the attention. He goes out of his way to say hi, again I love the attention. i am married. I assumed he knew as he has seen me drop off my kids at school everyday for the past year. I turn up one morning with my husband in the car, and he gave me the cold shoulder, and lost interest. I know I shouldn't, but I feel upset that our connection has fizzled.

 

[Airmid]

So you want an affair?..and it sounds like he's blown you off because he seemingly is looking for an exclusive relationship. Just because he saw you dropping your kids off at school he wouldn't necessarily assume you to be married. There are thousands of single mothers. If you are seriously in need of an affair may be you should reconsider your strategy.

 

[llama112]

That's understandable. If someone is interested in you and find out you're in a relationship, of course that will change things.
It's also normal to feel attracted to someone even if you're in a relationship. That's going to happen.

 

[Eveleivibe]

That's understandable. If someone is interested in you and find out you're in a relationship, of course that will change things.
It's also normal to feel attracted to someone even if you're in a relationship. That's going to happen.

I agree with this. It's ok to feel attractions to others whilst in a relationshipas long as you don't act on it.

Evey

 

[rhun]

It's fine that you're attracted to this guy and enjoyed the attention. But acting on any of your feelings would be wrong. If you want to be with another person, figure out why... is your husband not filling your needs, are you falling out of love, etc. Then talk to him. If you are happy in your relationship then all you can do is fantasize.